I'm afraid to do PE because of the warning with Venous Leaking

Basically I have already found trouble getting an erection sexually before,
I have no trouble getting an erection to masturbate

I wanted to start to do PE exercise but now I have huge fear of being a candidate for never getting an erection again.

How can I tell? Any tell tale signs? Any precautions? Any advice!/?

Just don’t over work it. When you feel that your dick is tensing up or getting tired, take a break.

I use to have problems with erections when messing around with someone new but could get it up alone. That’s more of a mental issue rather than a physical one. I think it has something to do with being distracted by what’s going on and what to do because your not completely comfortable with this person rather than just enjoying what’s going on. Don’t worry about PE hurting that. If anything PEing will give you more confidence to show that thing off and you’ll have no problem getting it up.

Question though. Do you have erection problems with someone that you’ve been dating a while?

Basically I’m referring to Read This First: Warning To Newbies
How do I know if that will happen to me!

Well, out of 3 long short term gf’s I’ve had in the past year (maybe 2-3 months each) I was unable to get it up with one girl 7-10 times attempting, mostly psychological at that point.

The other 2 I was fine, however in one night stand situations unless I am the perfect level of intoxication I normally won’t be able to get it up

EDIT: PS, how do you not get it up 7-10 attempts? Basically different levels of intoxication ~or~ getting hard then not being able to put on a condom ~or~ once, having sex without a condom and cumming (is that socially correct here?) in like 2 minutes.

I would say that that thread was just a “do it at your own risk” type of thread. There probably is a very small number of guys who have had that problem but I’m also sure that nobody wants to get in trouble for not warning everyone about some of the hazards. I would say that if you decided to PE, just start slow and don’t over do it. Like I said if it starts to feel tired or tense, don’t freak out, just take a break. Everyone’s dick gets fatigued while PEing at some point. That’s just part of it.

As far as the issue with getting it up while messing around with someone new goes, I’m pretty sure that’s just a comfort thing. When you get buzzed you lose some of those nerves that you have and you just enjoy the moment rather than worry about what they think or what you should be doing or if your doing something right or wrong. The more you think about those things the worse it will get because it’s all about being in the moment and feeling that vibe together. If your mind is off worrying about things then there’s a disconnection and things won’t work right. Try concentrating on the way things feel and what is actually going on rather than things like what are they thinking and so on.

PS I’m sure “cumming” is ok to say. I mean we’re talking about cocks here. As long as you don’t use ridiculous slang, texting abbreviations, discriminatory language, or bad grammar, your ok.

I think that, “Warning” is going to scare a lot of newbies off. But I understand not posting it could be a liability for the forum. It is always said, see your doctor before beginning any strenuous exercise program, I suppose seeing ones urologist before beginning a PE regimen might be in order as well, especially if you suspect you may have a pre-existing problem.

That post is not a scientific conclusion. It’s a personal assumption based on anecdotal or personal evidence given by Thunder’s Place members.

Until they have their penis tested to determine the cause, one could assume any number of things to be the cause.

Regardless, I’m super afraid of that happening to me. If I was unable to get a boner ever again, I have no idea what I’d do..

I’m weighing the pros and cons of PE

It did worry me when I started a few weeks ago, but it made me read more and start gentle. I suppose for that to happen you have to dive in too quickly as surely starting off gentle will strengthen weaker veins / arteries.

Start lightly. A light routine with proper warm-up is no more intense to your penis than masturbation or rough sex. If you can get an erection on your own, but have problems getting one in front of a girl, it’s 100% psychological.

The thread you refer to is only a cautionary one. No link has been established (anywhere, that I know of) that PE results in venous leakage. I had venous leakage well before I’d ever heard about PE.

And, having venous leakage certainly does not mean that you’ll never get an erection again. It is a very specific form of ED and there are many degrees of it. Most of us with it can still have great sex.

My guess is that you have a psychological problem which is only getting worse the more you worry about it. Do yourself a favor. See a urologist; explain what’s been happening. He’ll give you Viagra or another drug which you’ll only need to take a few times to get over your sexual anxiety. Then you can pack the drug away and do fine without it. Unless, of course, you start up with someone new and get anxious again. :)

Great advice.

Worrying about it will only continue your problems. The mind sucks.

Chill.

Do a super light routine.To test the water.

Like half a newbie routine.

I suggest testing the water with your hand before you test it with your penis… you don’t wanna burn your cock…

sorry, lol ;)

There was a Spanish guy who talked about it who is 21 and his dick no long works at all! But this happens in very very few cases.

And I question the intensity of the workout.