I'm a beginner; help me please!

Hi guys I’ve been jelqing for 2 months now and am not satisfied with the results, my penis didn’t even grow and it has lost it’s sensitivity kind of numb and my erections are not what they used to be.I really don’t feel good about this.maybe I was jelqing completely wrong till now.I have watched the jelqing videos many times but I still can’t seem to get it right and I really need to know what you are supposed to feel while jelqing.I also don’t grip that hard.or is it completely normal when you feel numbness?? I have heard that you will get hard erections when you do jelqing so I think it is me that’s doing it wrong then..

I hope someone takes the time and give me step by step instructions,I Will appreciate it very much thank you!

You shouldn’t feel any numbness. Are you following the newbie routine properly, with the warm-up, gentle stretching, kegeling etc.?
Jelqing well is a matter of ‘feel’. It often does take a while to get it right.
You should have a feeling of pushing the blood up from the base of your penis to the head, creating a gentle ‘wave’ of pressure as the blood moves. Imagine dipping a smooth stick in runny honey, and then forming a thumb and finger ring around the stick and trying to gently squeeze the honey off the stick - that’s the sort of feeling you are looking for. When you get it right, it usually feels right. If it feels wrong, it probably is.

Don’t worry too much about growth to start with. Good jelqing should give you excellent erections and penile health, so concentrate your jelqing on that before you worry about growth. Do lots of reading and learning as well; knowing the anatomy of your penis helps you understand what you are trying to achieve. Don’t forget the warm up and the rest of the newbie routine if you want good results.

That’s very good advice with the hunny and the stick maybe that’s what I needed to know because I think I was doing the motion towards the glans wrong.I Will try it and concentrate then I Will tell you my results thanks fire goat

In addition to what FG said, don’t concern yourself with gains very early on. I saw none for 5 months. But then they started happening. Others here have taken longer. Just commit yourself to the long run. And try to have fun doing it.

Good advice from both Avocet and Firegoat, but I would like to add that I also have experienced the kind of desensitizing you are talking about. Everyone is different, but as far as I can tell, my penis gets used to lubricated and more intense stimulation and so any stimulation when I am not jelqing feels less stimulating. I find that during the times I take breaks to let my unit recover, my sensitivity and erection quality comes back. I am aware of others who also report decreased sensiitivity and erection quality but it comes back when they take a break. As far as your lack of gains you’re probably just not doing things right. That’s where Firegoat’s advice comes in.

You have to be patient and diligent to see some gains while jelqing.

Hey firegoat just finished my jelqing session and then after it did some hot wrap and some kegels.acording to your idea I did much better than last time and I could see my penis looking more fuller and bulky and blood was moving better than before and felt some nice tingling sensation as well but it didn’t last very long for the entire session as I was kinda like not sliding it to the base anymore and lost some feeling again but I am on the right track now.

Is it always necessary to glide to the glans?

A lot of people find they let the pressure off gradually as they get closer to the glans. As long as the feel is right, and the whole penis feels involved, it’s not too important where you start and finish.

It’s also true that there seems to be a ‘best’ feeling time within any jelqing session. Often it takes a couple of minutes or more for the tissues to get to the right state and feel, then after a while you lose that feel and can’t quite get it back. That’s normal.

I HAVE VERY GOOD NEWS TODAY!! Yesssss!!

Looks like it’s my lucky day, today when I jelqing I kept changing grips techniques etc and finally stumbled uppon the proper way of jelqing. LOL I just made a very dumb mistake by just making the grip but then just slide it to the glans while I was not even aware that I was releasing the grip looool.so when I finally got the right feeling,I immediately saw changes and felt great too so I made the grip and while holding it I pushed it to the glans and now I have good gains and great feeling!!

Thanks by the way I don’t need any help anymore

That’s good to hear!

Make sure you track your progress by recording down your stats every month or so. If you are gaining, you will gain more motivation to do it.

Keep up the good work.

:up: :)

Thanks guys you all were truly great people here.. I was in another jelqing forum first but those people were really jerks and were immature and only because I said 1 thing wrong, someone Else without no reason started to insult me and telling me such attitude we don’t need here and then I wrote some comments back but then we had a big fight.3 or 4 members teamed up against me and finally when I wrote them back for the last time to give what they deserve,they kicked me out of the forum.

Sounds like a bunch of jerks to be sure. I’m glad to say that for the most part, we’re not like that here.

^^ Speak for yourself! :D

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