I'm 7inch hard, 4.5 soft. And my friends dissed me for being small what the fuck.

I know getting your dick out in front of guys is a stupid thing to do. But I was drunk beyond belief. It wasn’t being gay (I’m not). I just didnt know what the hell I was doing, I want expecting any kind of reaction. I was a stupid asshole and now I’m paying for it I guess.

I don’t mind the odd bit of banter every now and then but the dick thing was the one that actually pissed me off, for two reasons - because it can start rumours around high school and would REALLY mess up my chances with the could be’s, and because I don’t want that to be known as the little dick guy of the group. It’s all pretty childish yeah, but thats how we are in the UK I guess.

@ Djrobins - I think you couldn’t be more right about the whole subconscious thing. The thing is they “know” this is my weakness now, so it would take a lot of hits to brush off for them to get bored. I had two choices, two bowels of shit. - 1) Make a big thing about it every time one of them said anything (and be a mardy guy) or 2) Laugh it off every time it was said, which I think would take a long time.. I chose 1 and it’s been like 3 months now and I’m still on pretty bad terms with the one guy I mentioned. Still I’m 19, and it’s not like these are my only friends and I probably won’t even know them in a few years.

But I don’t think any guy no matter what his size would like to be in my situation. But on the bright side I did find this forum because of it, I would have take up PE even if this shit never happened.

Just know your big and laugh it off, it will be the right way. Defending yourself will make them keep doing it, and it will bother you to get these repititions.

It’s pretty childish, yes, but we’ve always been that way in the UK.
Did ‘Little John’ in the Robin Hood stories mind being called ‘Little John’? Probably, until he got used to the irony. :)

Guys with insecurities (almost all young guys) try to make other guys feel insecure so that they themselves feel their own insecurities less acutely.
Guys who are confident and secure don’t feel any need to put others down in order to build themselves up. By the same reasoning you can consider the ‘get a life’ comments. People so often attack with the comment that would most hurt them.

You don’t need to get mad about it. You don’t need to laugh it off. If you feel a need to respond, you could just say you are very happy with your dick! Or words to that effect. Show real confidence in what you have! Any negative reaction or comment is unlikely to be the best choice.