I'd like to introduce myself.

.And hopefully be accepted and guided by the members of this board. My name is Mark Jackson and I am a 21 year old Japanese male. And here is my “tragic” *cue sarcasm* tale:

All my life I have been viewed as an attractive, nice, charming person, but my penis has made my life a nightmare. I’m 5.5 inches in length when erect, but I’m extremely thin. Regular condoms fit loosely on me. My love life has consisted of three scenarios: a) girls are attracted to me but don’t give me a chance once they find out I’m undersized, b) horrible sexual performances due to anxiety and size, or c) me being terrified of pursuing relationships with girls in fear of what might happen. But last year I built up the courage to pursue a beautiful co-worker and we have since had a fulfilling 8 month relationship.fulfilling except for, of course, the sex part.

Without giving full accounts of all the sexual misfires I’ve had, let’s just say she’s endured a lot of unsatisfying sex. I make it a point to help her cum everytime using my fingers and tongue, but that’s not the way I want to bring her to orgasm. I’d say I’ve made her cum through intercourse about 10 times or so, and they have all been amazing experiences. Our relationship outside the bedroom however is wonderful and while she’s currently away at college, we have plans to move in together once she moves back and hopefully we’ll start a new chapter in our lives. My plan is to become the man she wants (and deserves) to be with forever.

It sucks to hear the Asian jokes. It sucks that the Asian jokes ring true. It sucks that life up until this point has been frustrating and unfair for me. But the worst feeling to me is to not be able to physically pleasure the love of my life the way someone else probably could. Words cannot describe how happy I would be to be lying with her after sex and have her be like “that was awesome” or something along those lines. Okay, I think I’m rambling a bit now. You guys get the picture..

I just registered last week and I haven’t yet had a chance to read very many posts, but I will hopefully get around to this ASAP, tomorrow night I’m shooting for. I see you guys have some measuring system and that’ll probably be the first thing I’ll get accustomed to, plus get my stats up here.

I wanted to post just to put my name into the community and get my story out there. This isn’t really the type of thing you discuss with your friends, especially when your friends all think they are anatomical marvels and use you as the butt of the size jokes, so it’s nice to be amongst people who are in the same boat as me. :) I’ll be on tomorrow, reading up and whatnot.

Mark

Good to have you aboard Mark. Good luck.

The measuring system for length is BP (bone pressed) or NBP (non bone pressed).

Bone pressed is when you push the ruler right in against your pubic bone. Non bone pressed is measuring from where your penis visually meets your pubic area (or ‘fat pad’ when one has a little extra padding around there which it sounds like you probably don’t).

It is generally recommended that you take a BP measurement, as it’s the most reliable for keeping track of gains.

Check out the newbie routine. :up:

Welcome to Thunders Mark. You will find an answer to a lot of your questions by hitting the search button. Look for the newbie routine start there first.

If you can’t find an answer just ask, one of the friendly experienced pe’rs will answer it.

Cheers

Welcome aboard Mark. You have an unusual Japanese name. There is tons here to read and learn and the best place to start is the Newbie Forum and learning the Newbie routines. Take things nice and easy at first and always remember this is a long term project.

Welcome to the forums MJ!!!

Sorry to hear about the sexual situation, but it’s good that you’ve been keeping her satisfied through other means, and it’s no small feat than you’ve made her come through intercourse 10 times — many, many women never achieve orgasm through intercourse. I’d say that at least half of women prefer great oral sex to intercourse with [/i]any[/] size penis & technique, so keep working on your oral skills even as you enlarge with PE!

You’ve come to the right place if you want to increase your girth and boost your confidence. Read, read, and read some more, then start with the Newbie routine.

Good luck to you, man, and I’m glad to hear that you have found a satisfying relationship.

Let us know how your progress goes!

- PG

Hello and welcome to Thundersplace Mark!

I know it’s hard to experience that kind of thing. But be happy from now on since Thundersplace’s members are helpful and reliable! They’ll share every sad moment of yours.

Mark Jackson said : It sucks to hear the Asian jokes.
Well, it’s not always, and I don’t call it as a joke if you refered to your story.

All the best of luck to you and happy PEing.

Regards,

D’

Welcome Mark.You don’t have to worry about anyone making fun of you here.This is a wonderful forum,with alot of great helpful people .Your probably tired of hearing it already ,but start with the newbie routine.Read as much as you can,and heed the advice of the veterans.I’ve been at this since November,and have not recieved one single injury,and I attribute that to following the veterans advice to the letter.With that said good luck to you and welcome aboard.

Hello and welcome.

Pretty much all you need to help out in ALL of your sexual/penile problems is on this site, theres a lot to read, but it will all help :)

Good luck

Mark,

Welcome aboard and I must say that is a great first post. I wish you the best of luck in your adventure. There are many women who don’t come through intercourse and only by oral can they orgasm.

Mark,

Welcome aboard. Shit in 23 years of marriage I havent gotten my wife to cum 10 times thru intercouse I dont think. Dont be so hard on yourself either. Take accurate measurements and a couple of pictures for yourself before you get too deep in this. You will be amazed when you see the progress pics. I never took pics and regret it to this day.

Best of luck.

789

Welcome aboard Mark. There is really nothing else that I can say that the others haven’t. I do know that it is wise to listen to what “vets” are saying and take it easy. Rome was not built in a day and neither will your willie be. If your girl friend is going to be away for a while, and you follow all of the guidelines that are provided for you in this forum, then she will return to a pleasant surprise.

Good luck and happy gains. Remember the two P’s. Patience and Perseverance…

Welcome. That was a nice introduction.

Here is some measuring advice.

Welcome to the forum Mark :)

That was a very gracious, pleasant and seemingly honest and candid first post, plus I can tell that you read the forum guidelines. ;) No really, I like the way you presented yourself in your first post. Its a classic example of how newbies should present themselves to the forum. :up:
Your story is not uncommon here on Thunders so you are in good company.
Remember that you are a new breed of man now. Your Asian heritage may or may not have put you a statistical disadvantage when it comes to penis size but the reality of the situation should give you a glimmer of hope and the motivation to roll up your sleeves and get to work because from this day forward you are no longer Asian (or any other race for that matter) but you are a bonafide Thunders member who has great potential in penis size for the future, i.e., there are big rewards to those Thunders members who actively participate and roam the vast hallways of the Thunders archives. Stick around, ask questions, make friends and learn as much as you can and with a lot of hard work and a little luck your GF/wife will one day say “OH MARK, THAT WAS TOTALLY AWESOME!!!!” OMG OMG OMG!!!!

Supersizeit

Either that, or “OH AWESOME, THAT WAS TOTALLY MARK!!!! OMG OMG OMG!!!”“”

:wave: Welcome to Thunder’s Place.

Mark:

Nice introduction; you write well. It is great to have a new member that doesn’t drown us right away with redundant questions on their opening thread. I agree with SSI that it is obvious you read the forum guidelines before posting. You’re off to a good start with a lot of sound advice from both newbies and vets alike. This forum will change your life.

Reading is the key here. There is so much stuff it can seem overwhelming, but it is all well worth your time. Use our search engine, it’s a terrific tool. The reason everyone is suggesting starting slow and following the newbie routine is twofold. First, it is easy to injure yourself jumping right into more advanced routines, and secondly, although you may not see any notable size gains with these early manual exercises, (although many do) what you will gain is resilience. Toughening up the penile tissues to withstand the pressures you will most likely encounter later with more advanced methods. Small steps wins the race in PE. Welcome and good luck.

BG