I told my wife about PE

Yeh, I know. But I don’t know how to introduce my “gear” (pumps, cylinders, stretchers, clamps) into the conversation. I don’t want it to be something that overwhelming and makes the relationship turn sideways. Like I said, I’ve been trying to drop in things here and there but that’s a hump I don’t know how to maneuver.

Do it like a seller would promote his products. Something like this:

Stretches = my tool likes to be long, as long as it can be. It would love to pair up and challenge me in this. It truly loves challenges.

Clamping = for an extremely veiny and strong look, I need this. Women love strong dicks, my dick loves it too.

Pumping = keep its vascularity to the best levels. It likes being healthy. It would run too if it could.

Then she’ll probably think you’re crazy, but you can tell her “I read it in a post of a moderator on Thundersplace.org” and you’ll end up introducing TP too.

Lol.

My ‘dream’ is always to meet a girl, and she loves what I have to offer, and notices it gets bigger over time. I then tell her, and she gets excited/wants to get involved, both to see just how big I can get it, and also how big she can actually stretch herself to take.

Not sure if that dream will ever become a reality, but the hope is still alive. As tor spilling the beans, I don’t think I will unless some girl in my future mentions how can it be getting bigger…that’s when I would let her in on the secret.

Thanks Walt, Yeah, I told my wife that some women want big tits and gets them, but I want a big dick. She thought the idea was ridiculous. She watched me clamp twice, the second time she jumped in and started to help me, AND had me stop for a day so that we can re-think a plan on how we were going to PE. We made a plan and to change our mind set to accomplish what was sought. We were a great team until I fucked things up and continued when she ask me to stop since I was getting to big. This made life hard for a couple of years. It has actually changed our lives and the fun we had in the bed room. She told me that we were PEing for the both of us, but that I continued when she asked me to stop, that all of this wasn’t for us but for my ego. When I look back at all of this, I feel so bad and it just breaks my heart that I broke hers. She didn’t have to help me, but she did. Ms tnt is a lurker here and I have asked her to join so that she can tell you all her side of the story. I must say, it was so much fun when we were doing this as a team and we became so close together.

Yeh, I’ve read thru TNT’s thread on a couple of occasions - and that’s part of what makes me say that I have a hard time telling her. I’ve gained a good deal since we’ve gotten together and she make comments about my size ALL the time - the vast majority of them totally unsolicited. Like how big it is, how she can’t wait to get her “big friend” inside of her, “those heavy fellas look good in those pants,” etc. Mostly it’s the usual couples-style sex talk and she has a VERY high sex drive, but her phrasing of things and what she says just keys me in that she’s enjoying the increases because her “commentary” has only increased over the years.

But in that same vein, if I open up fully to her about it and say, this is what I’m doing, I have no doubt she’ll want to jump in - but eventually it’ll get to a point where she says “no more.” I don’t think I could do “no more.” I simply enjoy PE way too much. I’ve even told myself “she probably already knows, why not make it official? It’s not like she can’t already see and feel the difference …” Just the apprehension of it all …