I started, motivation is up
Well, in another topic I said I’d introduce myself in the appropriate place, so here I am.
I’m not gonna be wasting pages with who I am, what I do, etc., but I’ll briefly do so.
Short story, 28 years old, married for 1 year now (been together 10 years ;) ), and we have a little girl, age 3.
Guess I’m here because of what most of us are here for, growing my unit.
I heard about PE before, couple of years ago, but more in the sense of pumping and since I really wanted to grow my unit, because of long-life issues about my dick which I’ll explain in a bit, I bought myself a pump, without gauge (you know, the really cheap-squeeze-bulge ones :) ) , and I used it from time to time, not consistent though, and I lost my belief in PE somewhat accepting that I’d have to be satisfied with what I’m given.
Accepting that is easier said than done though, so I would always keep an eye open for something that could help, and so I stumbled upon Thunders, few years after my first pump session.
Since I found this great place to read, that’s what I actually did, read, read and.. Read, and I must say that reading all the stories and the gains people have had and are having by actively, consistently performing PE, made me a believer again.
So after reading countless posts here I decided to give it a go and started with the newbie routine, which I must say is effective.
I’m doing a routine of 2 days on, 1 day off. First day I’m doing a 5 min. Warmup followed by a 10 min. Manual stretch session, then 20 min. Of jelqing and finishing off with another 5 min. Warmdown :). Second day I start also with a 5 min. Warmup but then I use the pump for about 15 min. With a slow buildup (I never exceed 5Hg, when starting I even use no more than 2.5Hg) and releasing pressure after about 5 min. To get some fresh blood in. After 15 min. Of pumping I go out of the tube and jelq for like 50 to 60 strokes (always between 40 to 80% erect) and then I go back in the pump for 15 min. And repeat this sequence about 4 times.
The changes I have seen so far, yea I know I only started some 3 weeks ago or so but they’re there, are more profound veining even with veins I have never seen, and a much heavier flaccid hang, and also my EQ went up during intercourse.
Lengthwise I must say that I think I have gained about 0.25” in those 3 weeks but it’s possible my first measurements were faulty, so I’ll do another measurement when some time has passed so I’m sure :)
Back to the long-life issues, they were created by my classmates in lower elementary school, you know, you go swimming in group and it’s a shared locker room so everybody dresses/undresses in front of each other, and many laughs were pointed at me for having a teeny weeny shriveled up dick, and when 15 people (even if they are only 10 years old) are laughing at you because of that it creates complexes, issues if you will.
I carried that along for the rest of my life up until now, mainly because I’m realizing that I’m not so small after all, but I’m a champ in turtling it seems :).
So the main reason I’m PE’ing is mainly for myself and my self-esteem, but to be honest, my PE adventure is somewhat to please my lovely wife also.
Look at it like this, I’m happily married, we’re very open about sex, and we talk about everything, so for any following questions that follow, yes my wife knows I perform PE, I straight up told her, and she said fairly simple that she is satisfied with what I have, but if it would make me feel better about myself I should go for it.
Lovingly as she is she even assists me from time to time by handing me towels or my pump :D.
We also have a great sex-life and even after 10 years we enjoy each other even more than ever before, hence why my PE’ing can come in handy.
I love to please my wife in as many ways as possible, and I’d try anything which can give her great pleasure, and I’m sure some extra length or girth won’t hurt her nor me :), heck, maybe if I hit her CDS someday we’ll be damn right overjoyed I started PE, but we’ll see what happens :)
So I said I was gonna cut it short, guess that didn’t happen :), if you’re still with me at this point, thx for sticking up with me :), and I could’ve made this post a lot longer, but I’m wisely not gonna do so before you’re all asleep :)
Just wanna give a straight-up thx to Thunder for creating this place, and also to all other people who share their experiences here so newbies like me can make up their own mind and believe it or not.
I, for myself, am confident PE will work, over time, I’m not hasty, I’ll enjoy the ride, and so will my wife :)
Start 9th of april 2012 : BPEL = 6,5" ; EG = 5,5"