I never thought I was "big"
I really never thought I was big until I’ve been reading here. I’ve never had complaints other than “slow down” and I just thought that was that I was really not giving her enough time to lube up and get ready. I did have one of my old girlfriends say “you’re big” the first time she saw me but I thought she was just trying to be encouraging. My only comparison was to porn and we all know they are pretty much “monsters” in size.
Once my curiosity got the best of me I started looking for “average penis” and found that “average” is smaller than I am by a little but then I noticed that average thickness was quite a bit smaller than I am. My current GF used to tell me to slow down a bit because she needed to relax, now I understand why. She’s gotten used to me and we really have great sex but I just have to remember to go at her speed and not mine. She loves on top (cowboy I think it’s called) because she can control the speed a bit better. I think I bottom out just a bit before she does because I can feel myself bending just a bit when she’s all the way down. It must not hurt her because she tries to get as much in as she can and it feels great even though I’m a bit sore afterwards, if she does it too much I blow my load and we have to pause for a while until I recover. I haven’t done any PE but it might be interesting to see how much bigger I can get.
My size, if I understand the terms, is
Girth at base is 6 1/4, middle is 6 inches
NBP (not bone pressed) 6 to 6 1/2 inches depending on how hard I am
BPEL is 7 1/4 to 7 1/2 inches depending on how hard I am
Soft varies a lot so in length I didn’t bother, girth is about 5 inches when soft