I need your help and support!
I just found this forum today and I think it’s going to be answer to my PE problems.. First of all hi! nice to meet you all. I’m here because I need help I want to enlarge my penis but i’m very worried about how to’s and damage etc..
First let me tell you why I want this, I’m sure you all share in my sentiment that for me even having an extra inch either way will make a big difference to my confidence and the ease in which I can be intimate with girls. I’m at the moment just below 6inches in length and i’m not sure about girth but nothing speical there either. I have a beautiful girlfriend with whom i’m very sexualy active however (and this makes it kinda worse) i’ve been her only sexual partner and even though she goes wild and I think i’m doing a great job I can’t help but think and worry all the time about all the other dudes out there and how for me and for her what a difference it would make to my peace of mind if I had a larger penis. I just thought i’d share that with you to let you know I’m doing this for the right reasons, to make both of us happy.. (don’t misconstru please she has no Idea I feel this way and wouldn’t want me to change, I understand this but I would like to give as much to her as I can)
Now if you guys would be kind enough to help I really need some mentoring through this, my PE history starts like this,
About a year ago I found some free info on PE on the net and used it for about a week, during that week I didn’t masturbate which I think also had a good result (i.e. I wasn’t used to making myself hard all the time) so when it came time to get naked with my girl so to speak I did feel slightly larger during the act and stayed harder e.g whilst swapping positions etc. I never kept this up for whatever reason (I think we broke up at the time). Each time I break up with a girl I go on a sort of a PE mission because i’m so scared that the next girl will have had bigger guys than me (I also understand that this is insecurity within my on psychology), either thankfully or not thankfully all of my girlfriends have been virgins.. fate who knows? ?
Moving right along!
So about 3 weeks ago I decided to try again (my GF is overseas on holidays and will be back soon) first I would do this, every morning in the shower I would warm up under the spray and massage and stretch a little. Then I’d perform 200 Jelq’s with a lubricant then i’d warm down again, also i’d do about 100 PC clamps of different intensities. I had a few incidents were I was left sore after but managed to work through it ok, so then I decided what the hell i’ll get an online program to make sure i’m doing it right. I wont mention the site but it’s a well known one, by a chance of fate I managed to get all the info from this site without having to pay a cent, I signed up with my credit card was let into the members area and began copying all the info to notepad.. subsiquently my bank blocked the transaction and the billing company refunded my money but took away my membership.. leaving me with all the info, great hey ? not really it’s exactly the same stuff you come across for free on the net EXACT!
Anyway I regress.. So this is where i’m at now for the last 2 weeks i’ve been using that program 5 days on 2 off, Hot towel wrap 5 mins, stretch for 30secs striaght out and then in all other angles (repeat 5 times) then flop it around to promote circulation (I would do this after each set just like stretching between sets a gym). Then i’d perform 300 Jelqs the 3 second ones, after that a series of PC clamps and the another hot wrap to finish.
After the 2 weeks here I am I’m trying not to masturbate but I have maybe twice, each time orgasms have been powerful and I do have a hard fat erection HOWEVER! I’m really worried about continuing because i’m experiencing numbness in my penis, it feels numb when it starts getting hard and it feels tight as in it’s having trouble filling up with blood, and it takes alot of arousing to make it appear normal again. If I squeeze it it appears quite fat in comparison to what it used to be but no length gains as such still just below 6”. So anyway this numbness scares the hell out of me.. I see things all over the net on doctors forums with men writing in saying they’ve damaged themselves permanently from doing this and broken down and scarred the tissue basically wrecking their sex life forever.. this is major scary to me as i’m sure you’re aware as my sex life is very active and important to me.. Anyway I guess what i’m asking is if anybody here can a. tell me what’s happening to me and what it is i’m doing wrong, b. is it safe to continue and should we really be doing this ? c. suggest a failsafe program that I can start on and what to do (I don’t care how slow and tedious it is i’ll do it for me and my girl!!)
If anyone can help i’ll be forever greatful,