I lost the hang of it
I’ve been PEing on and off for about 1,5 years now. I’ve gained about 1,5 inch by now and I’m a little over 6 inches in length. My girth has improved a little and it is now just under 5 inches at the base but the head is only just over 4 inches., which is actually 0,5 inch more then last month.
After this intro you can imagine I’m grateful for this forum and for your help! But on to the questions.
Ever since I started jelqing my erections have become rock hard! And I think, because of these hard erections, I can’t jelq right anymore. My 60% to 80% erections are still very hard (only a little softer), they just aren’t pointing upward anymore. I can still remember the first few months I jelqed, my penis was just swollen for the rest of the day, it felt great and I couldn’t hide it if I wanted to. Now I feel lucky if the pump lasts for 2 hours. Have you guys experienced the same? And what did you do about it/ do you suggest?
I also feel that last month I’ve been overdoing it a little after laying off of PE. It hurts to jelq, even at low intensity, and I experienced a black spot on my dick head (I always get little ones on the skin but they go away after 2 days/ and in case it’s a big one I massage that particular spot a little during the day and it’s away after 3 days mostly. I always lay off of PEing when I’ve got a big black spot.)
-I want my dick head to get bigger, or just an evenly thick dick!
-I want to gain in length till I reach 7 inch + (8 inch was never my goal!)
-I want my girth to be 6 inch everywhere, or a little less, I believe I will please lots of women with that girth.
-And most important: I want to feel the pump again! I want to feel it hanging!
I’m laying off of PE for another 3 weeks, because of the pain I experience, and then I want to go at it again like it’s my very first time. I really would appreciate your insight!
(I’ve also been doing a little stretching, but I’ve always found it difficult to maintain a good stretch and they always caused blood vessels to pop much more then with jelqing alone. I think until now most of my gains come from jelqing.)