I Just Started Edging

i used to have this problem, but what i do now is i often lie on a bed and try that meditation relaxing technique and i feel that the muscle clamping that results from edging goes away after i relax and it’ll be like i didn’t really edge

***********Question toward you guys:

when you say you edge for 5 mins or 10 mins? do you mean you continously stroke it at a masturbation pace for 5 minutes non-stop? or do you just stroke until right before PONR and then relax and try to stroke again?

cause i think it’d be kinda hard to jerk it for 10mins at fast pace w/o cumming, may be i have some work to do

It seems to be great for some guys and too much for others. Like I say 30 mins is great for me. On the other hand if I go 45 minutes straight, then I am like you bluray,and get negative PI’s.

Definitely one of those “listen to your body” things.

You know that is kind of interesting. I was cleaning out the basement one Sunday not too long ago. Everytime I got bored, I would stop and work up an erection and edge for 10 or 20 minutes. I probably did that 5 or 6 times. Later that night I noticed I had a (relatively) big ole’ swinging flaccid -definitely much longer than normal.

I will have to try this “erection subside every 20 minutes thing.” Good tip, 74zowee86

Wait, so guys, should I cool off after edging? This always returns me to a more flaccid state and aren’t we trying to keep it filled with blood longer by edging? Thanks.

Question about edging.. I’m having a controversy, can you use your hand to keep yourself stimulated? Or is that what supposedly hinders your gains?

Is using your hand to keep you stimulated kind of pushing the cells back closer to eachother, or is it the fact of ejaculation stops blood flow to the penis.

For me it’s really hard to edge for along time without using some physical stimulation, but with it I can go for along time.

iwlllsucceed - yes use your hands to masturbate, or toys if you use those to masturbate. See the site about edging I linked to in this post:

sta-kool - I Just Started Edging

Thanks that is really helpful, I have a question for you about that article, I’m not sure how much you know about it but it says that orgasms can last anywhere from 3 to 10 seconds? Well I don’t think I experience it that long, I get the feeling I am about to cum and then it comes out and that is it. There is not continual feeling for me. It is straight up then straight down. Sometimes I get a lingering feeling for about a couple more seconds but I don’t consider that the orgasm itself.. I don’t want to be missing out on precious orgasm time!! I’m confused about it.

I am by no means an expert, but it seems my orgasms have gotten much longer lasting and more intense ever since I started with pe, kegels, and edging. I think the stronger your muscles and the more you make it build up the better it will be.

I always do edging but when I do it for more than an hour, my balls start to hurt really badly and when I cum the next day, the semen turns a little yellow. It’s freaky believe me. How can I possibly prevent blue balls when edging? Any help from anyone pls?

Sometimes you should cum at the ends of edging, or you can develop a urinary tract infection, absolute.

Thank you so much marinera. Now I know.

Hey I just have a quick question about edging.

I just started to try edging as well and I’m just wondering that once you feel your about to cum, should you kegel hard to prevent ejaculation? Or is it better to just totally relax your body (including the PC/BC muscle) until the feeling subsides?

I’m not sure I’m getting your question, kiwboo; the point in edging is, basically, to try to go as near the ‘not-return’ point (where you can’t stop cumming) as you can, without touching that point. So, if you are near that point, you should stop masturbation and do a strong Kegel’ to avoid cumming.

BTW, I think edging stresses your nervous system without giving so much benefits; maybe it can help if one has precocity ejaculation, but I’m not sure the scientific literature has confirmed this hypothesis with enough evidence.

Kiwbo009, this is what I do, whenever I feel that I’m about to cum I just stop all kinds of stimulation and just relax my body (including the muscles as you have said) until the feeling subsides then I will jack off again. But one time, I got too late and I think I’ve already passed the ‘point of no return’ phase as I already started having pc contractions so what I did was to clench my PC muscle as tight as I could to prevent the orgasm. Alot of cum already came out but surprisingly I did not lose my erection and I still felt aroused after the orgasm so I continued jacking off until my last orgasm. One more thing I noticed is that, since I did edging I started having dry orgasms which feel really really good. It’s like having small orgasms in a row then a big one in the end. Really mind-blowing I should say.