I hate my life

Just stick with it! We are of a similar size and I too have a great girlfriend. I always had the same feeling of insecurity about myself, but just believe her when she tells you that she is satisfied she really means it. Do the PE for yourself and no one else. Once you accept that you are doing PE for yourself it gets easier, at least it did for me. Just get into a good routine and stay consistent!

Marinara is correct, depression is a serious problem that needs to be addressed separately from PE.

Realize that your girl loves you and doesn’t care about your dick, other than it works when she needs it to. The size fixation you focus on is your problem that you need to fix on your own and not burden your girl with, otherwise she will begin to see it as a problem that could get between you.

PE, the way it is done here at Thunder’s, works wonderfully for your dick size and for your self esteem, and once you begin to see results you will never see the world the same way again.

Trust me, I know all too well what feeling that I was less than big enough felt like. My ex used to sing songs about big black dicks and wondered which movie star had a big dick to the point where I hated her and left her and my house and my car and custody of my children, just to not have to hear her stupid yapping.

Keep reading, practicing and know that there are thousands of guys here going through similar things, and that we will support you as your dick and your self-Worth grows.

Sparky said all I would say to you.

Just one thing. Stop watching porn.
Really, it destroy your mind and make you insicure and depressed.

Also take care of your penis. It’s you body. And you ARE your body.

:smack:

:thumbs: The only thing that is a bigger turn off for women than generic insecurities in men is sexual insecurities in men. And the only way to make that worse is to discount it when she tells you she is happy with you the way you are. Now you are saying that there is something wrong with her for liking you.

Your penis is 5.5X4.5 whether you accept it or not. You need to understand that you are equating being a fraction of an inch less than the statistical average with being small. :rolleyes: But with PE you can easily add a bit to that, so your current size doesn’t matter all that much anyway.

Any particular reason that you are doing 4on/4off? Go to START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info and pick one of the two n00b routines, neither one of which uses 4on/4off. Getting skinnier is a classic sign of over training. It isn’t permanent.

Link please? You sound like the guy that kept reading bodybuilding forums until he finally, finally, found someone that said weight lifting makes you weaker. Then chose to ignore the tens of thousands of guys telling him how to safely and effectively work out to gain strength.

We are making them all up; all of us are making them up for 10 years now. One of the very few true non profit sites on the web, with zero advertising of any kind. Just so we could eventually sucker you into doing PE![/QUOTE]

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Damn it Iamaru, you revealed the secret! We are trying to convince guys to do PE so we can laugh at them! ;)

Life is too short to hate your life over anything, let alone your dick size. And you should consider yourself lucky, because not all of us are able to actually get a girlfriend. Hell, I’m 6.7 inches, do you think my dick size has been able to somehow make me more confident in approaching women? Absolutely not. I’m 22 and have been single all my life…

You should heed the advice of the other posters and believe them when they tell you: Never, EVER share your penis-related insecurities with a woman. EVER.

The truth.

I wonder if he’ll ever come back to actually read the 3 pages of awesome advice everyone’s giving him..

She loves you for who you are and what you have. If she’s young and inexperienced that works in your favor. Gives you plenty of time to increase your size before she might ever think if she’s missing out.

Also don’t underestimate your ability to give her orgasms without even using your penis.. Don’t rely on that so much to satisfy her. You got fingers and a mouth don’t you.

See this thread for more info on that..
How to make her orgasm?

Pe works. This sounds like a confidence issue more than a size issue. Remember kiddies pe is not a race. It takes patience dedication and consistency.

One thing for sure is to not listen to the people who say STOP feeling blah blah blah, as you are actually dealing with a very real issue for you and having people ask you to blank out the facts of that reality your indeed dealing with is not only un-compassionate and really annoying to be honest. It is indeed Impossible for you to actually do that and will just lead to further feelings of depression and hopelessness, unless maybe you take drugs or get drunk enough to forget your problems. The real answer is right where you are right now, YOU must be absolutely dedicated to the hard work ahead of you, you can’t fake that either.

You must pay very close attention to your PI’s ignore this and you will go backwards, your erections must be getting harder and stronger or your off track.

I had exactly the same size as you when I started so I know precisely what your going through, I was an extremely hard gainer. But rice sock warm up is definitely a key you can’t skip out on, didn’t
gain until I was consistent about that. Plan on your first year just learning everything you can and conditioning your penis for heavier work, I personally didn’t have any significant gains until I started hanging. So focus on Solving your problem for real.. not blanking out. Everything you need to know is right on this board!! Lots of people are here to help you as well. Stick with the Newbie routine and keep on learning, be flexible in your approach, but try something for at least a few months solid so you know if it is really working or not, measuring bone pressed is key, temporary swelling can get you excited but it isn’t real gains!! Also that can lead to overdoing it if that excitement translates into more action and over-training.. again watch the PI’s. Yes PE is very real and you will gain, but you must be stubborn and NEVER give up if you want to get there! Its taken me a very long time to find what works for me, but once you find your grove, there is no stopping the gains you will see! But the first year is about learning and conditioning, and you might get lucky and see some quick newbie gains, i was not that lucky.

One thing for sure is to not listen to the people who say STOP feeling blah blah blah, as you are actually dealing with a very real issue for you and having people ask you to blank out the facts of that reality your indeed dealing with is not only un-compassionate, it is really annoying to be honest. As it is indeed Impossible for you to actually do that and will just lead to further feelings of depression and hopelessness and hating your life even more, the real power comes from knowing you can change yourself for the better for real. The only way you can truly blank out reality is by taking drugs or getting drunk enough to forget your problems, but you don’t want to go down this road, trust me. The real answer is right where you are right now, YOU must be absolutely dedicated to the hard work ahead of you, you can’t fake that reality either.

You must pay very close attention to your PI’s ignore this and you will go backwards, your erections must be getting harder and stronger or your off track, you must learn to listen to your body and what it is telling you. Working out at the Gym, taking vitamins, and protien powder can give your body the raw materials it needs to rebuild the damage you are doing to induce growth.

I had exactly the same size as you when I started so I know precisely what your going through, I was an extremely hard gainer. But rice sock warm up is definitely a key you can’t skip out on that, I didn’t gain until I was consistent about that. ( Put the rice sock in a zip lock bag so the steam doesn’t burn you.) Plan on your first year just learning everything you can and conditioning your penis for heavier work, I personally didn’t have any significant gains until I started hanging and manuel stretches which take some time to get the feel for it, study where the nerves are in your penis so that you don’t damage them with Manuel stretches. Avoid the vacuum hangers at heavy weights as they can cause discoloration to the end of your dick, great for ADS after hanging, but get a redi stretcher, then a bib hanger for hanging, worth the money invested. The homemade versions are just plain painful by comparison after having tried pretty much everything on here. So focus on Solving your problems for real.. not blanking them out. Everything you need to know is right here on this board!!

Lots of people are here to help you as well. Stick with the Newbie routine and keep on learning, be flexible in your approach, but try something for at least a few months solid so you know if it is really working or not, measuring bone pressed is key, but do not measure more then once every two weeks or your just going to drive yourself nuts. Temporary swelling can get you excited but it isn’t real gains!! Also that can lead to overdoing it if that excitement translates into more actions that you should not be taking and over-training, be consistent and stick to your plan religiously. again watch the PI’s. Yes PE is very real and you will gain, but you must be stubborn and NEVER give up if you want to get there! Its taken me a very long time to find what works for me, but once you find your grove, there is no stopping the gains you will see! But the first year is about learning and conditioning, and you might get lucky and see some quick newbie gains, i was not that lucky.

My edit timed out, thanks for deleting the first one mod’s! Hope this helps you!

Very motivational speech Growing28!

Awesome tips, I didn’t know the heat (rice sock) was such an important aspect. Sounds like you know your stuff.