I guess we should watch out for body dysmorphic traits in our selves.

Just my own thoughts here after being on this great forum for a while !

I’ve come to accept my penis a lot more since being around here. I realise now that my own is actually not that bad in terms of how it looks, and how big it is in relation to average size.

I’m working away on clamping, jelqing and a beginner hanging routine and enjoying the process and early results and also the kind of idea that I can actually do something to improve my size.

Something that I decided a few years ago is that ‘ME AND MY PENIS ARE ALLIES, YOU FUCK WITH ONE OF US AND YOU FUCK WITH BOTH OF US’ !

I’m not being silly or trolling. It was a few years back when I caught myself in my thoughts thinking of my penis in a really negative way. Kind of “oh your so small, ridiculous, scrawny” and on and on, and it really messed with my head and my perceptions of my masculinity.

This particular day I asked myself if my penis could talk back to me how would it reply?

The answer was along the lines of “hey fuck you! You are the one in charge here, the one who puts me in perilous situations and makes a fool of us” I was sort of shocked.

And you know what? The old penis was right! I treated it like a misused car or something.. Never getting an oil change or a service, leaving it out in the rain, putting cheap gas in the tank, and when it failed to perform calling it a piece of junk. But how much is down to the car and how much is down to the owner?

I think it’s important to have a good respectful friendship between me and him down there. We were born this way and we’re in this for life through thick and thin! Comrades on the battle field of life. You fuck with one of us and you fuck with us both!

And it’s so much better to be that way than to just run away and abandon my penis buddy every time someone or something tries to have us feel inadequate, or ashamed of the way we were born.

Where as before I might have been much more likely to put my tail between my legs and scurry away and turtle, now I’m more likely to stand up tall and be like ‘fuck you’ and mean it.

Fuck taking on that body shame.

Good post humptydumpty62.

Each of us should love and appreciate our body the way it is; and take care of it. Feed yourself with positive thoughts, and good food. Get regular exercise and plenty rest, and your penis (and the rest of your body) will thank you. Appreciate what you have, and don’t be afraid to share it!

That’s my 2 cents. Happy PEing.

Good post. Like you, until recently because I don’t have a 10” king size love rod I kind of looked on my penis in a negative way and I now realise, even if subconsciously, due to it not being massive it’s stopped me progress certain relationships over the years. A shame really as I’m now 45 and so many opportunities missed either just for fun or possibly more serious.

I’m now looking at things .. And my penis .. Differently. Yes perhaps some of that is due to a new found optimism I’ve gained via this site and by starting PE, however there’s more to it than that in my case.

Good luck in your PE journey :)

Powerful post! You know, this is something that so many of us do, and may not even realize the perception we create in our head. We look at it, and it’s small, a girl looks at it, and truly believes it’s big. Perception is huge, and it correlates to the power of mentality. Women love confidence in men right, not necessarily because of what they are packing, but a lot of men who are packing have that confidence because of what they have! Just like when you see a not so good looking man with a beautiful woman, well besides other assumptions, a fair assumption could be he is very confident in himself, small penis or not!

My brother, has a smaller penis then me, around 5.5, (Being teenagers with a bunch of friends we have had the size talk before). But that kid acts and walks around like it’s 9 inches, and gets woman, and truly is confident in what he has. He’ll crack jokes like, “yea it’s small, but I’ll make her go crazier then that dude with an 8 incher.” And I love that, it’s amazing the power of mentality and what it can do for you. And that goes for anything in life, not just your confidence in bed! Good post brother.

Yeah it sometimes annoys me to think of the opportunities I’ve missed to ‘have fun’ during my teens and beyond due to having exactly the opposite mentality to your brother :(