I am new and here is my hopefully interesting story
I’m new to this forum and I am in need of some advice, but for that I need to tell you my story.
I think I got some interesting points and good questions, if not I am sorry for making this big post.
You won’t believe the difference in size I have between flaccid and erect, I give you the numbers below (just measured) !
Flaccid : Length 3 inch - Girth 3,15 inch (sigh)
Erect : Length 7,5 inch - Girth 4,33 inch
(I live in Europe and work with centimeters, for that reason I have 2 decimals)
And I’m being completely honest here, maybe its 7 instead of 7,5 but its really that much difference, if you want I make a video ..
Anyway, I’ve always been unhappy with the flaccid size and the girth, I still am.
My erect length is what people call ideal so no complaints there, but its really not fun not to be able to have a decent looking flaccid (not in public (soccer shower) neither in the bedroom)
But even the flaccid part I can live with, its just the girth that is really irritating me. If I didn’t have my erect length I would have prolly jumped off a bridge ..
2) Not many sex < 18
After I started reading a lot about PE I started thinking : maybe its because I mastrubated way too much when I was little ?
Or mostly : maybe it’s because I only had sex twice before I became 18 ? (After I became 18 I started to try paying for sex, but then its too late I guess because penis stopped growing)
3) GF says
I got a gf for 2 years now, and offcourse she says that she only had a one-night-stand with 1 person who had a really big penis. All her other ones (and those were relationships) had a shorter one, but sometimes more girth (prolly all if you ask me).
Now our sex live is great, I’m really a sex freak and alltough I should think about my own pleasure, I don’t.
The thing is, I can always make her come with penetration. She says I’m the best she ever had, and the first one to make her come with penetration.
I’m pretty sure she’s not faking it because one time I made her come 5 times, and I always make her come at least once before I go. That’s one of the things that can keep me from going into a depression when I think about my girth (and flaccid), because I also read that 80% of women can’t come from penetration.(In combination with the fact that I can keep giving it to her for more then an hour if we want to, because I hear most guys comes so quick ?)
Altough she says my penis is perfect I just know I lack a lot in girth, and increasing it would really pleasure her. Like if she comes, she makes quite some sound, but its not like she is screaming it out. And during the sex I sometimes get the feeling she is making sound on purpose just to try and make me come (wich has the opposite effect).
I already had the feeling there is enough space left in her vagina (sides)(not always actually ^^), she now recently had her first baby (14 November 2012). But now it feels just ridiculous how many space there is left .. That’s the reason I started looking up PE again and ended up here :)
5) Stat from other site
On this hyperlink you can check the ideal penis sizes : http://www.penissizedebate.com/page…-penis-size.htm
(Threw this site I came here)
To me it looks kinda reliable, so in in my case my length is more ore less ok (8 would be even better). But if I could get my girth up from 4,3 to 6 it would be perfect ! I would be the happiest man on the planet prolly. Any method is fine but I want to focus on girth, I also want it to be a 100% safe because I couldn’t live with myself if I became impotent or have a weird penis.
So I think Jelqing would be the best option ?
6) Q about jelqing
I once tried it long ago but there are 2 things that kept me from it.
1: Ur suppose to keep it around 80% erect but, when I’m at that point I usually tend to get to 100% fast or loose the erection. Hard for me to keep at 80% any ideas ?
2: when I release my upper hand I got the feeling all the blood goes down and I’m not doing it right/nothing is happening, I have the feeling I need to switch hands in a way the blood keeps stacking up towards the top ?
(3: the hair .. Pulling it hurts —> ill just shave it all and maintain it :) )
Sorry for any typo’s, I do think my english is quite good ?
Thank you for your time and any usefull comments :)