I thought you might say this. I don’t know what to say, except to point out that there is a distinction between what an author intends to say and what he or she (in fact) says.
Ok…(read next quote)
Did you reach your goal? You lucky #$!@% (if you did reach it!).
Now this can be rather sharp. On this forum, we are happy if someone reaches their goals. I don’t see a smilie showing sarcasm in your post. What you said in the first quote applies to everyone, not just mem. If 8 was insulted by what mem said, he will say something.