How to tell a friend who might use a little growth

So, I can’t really complain about what God (or life, the Goddess, the universe, mom and dad or whatever) gave me. I’m PEing for fun and why the hell not. OK, I want a big fucking cock as opposed to pretty big. Started out a hair under 7” bpel and 5.5” eg and am a little up from there after a month and a half.

But.

I have two friends who have small units. Small. One of them is a pal from back in college and I remember at the time him complaining about how he had a really small dick etc. Didn’t seem to slow him down a lot, and now he’s married but I wonder if this’d be good for him.

And then I’ve got a friend from work who apparently has a small cock, from what two of his ex’es told my girlfriend.

And I see stuff like the guy in Thunder’s before and after stuff, and think that I ought to tell them about this thing of ours. But is that rude, particularly for the guy who I heard about second hand? Or would they be thanking me like when you’ve got a friend with something in their teeth and you tell them and they’re like, “I can’t believe people let me go around with that spinach in my teeth all afternoon - thanks.” ? (Thunder - what’s the proper punctuation there?)

Anyhow, I don’t think I’d say anything til I know that this is really really working for me. I seem to have gained 1/4” and some veinage, but I wouldn’t want to give somebody false hope.

Thoughts?

Certainly don’t tell the guy from work. You don’t want word of your PE circulating at work. Also, he hasn’t asked for your help and might find your attention to his penis weird, inappropriate, and offputting. It might even be sexual harrassment.

The college friend is a closer call. Since he previously complained to you about his feelings about his penis, some might consider the door to be open on the subject. Still, it’s hard to bring it up without insulting him or weirding him out.

Especially if it’s been a long time since college, I suggest you keep quiet. If you see him again and he complains to you again about his penis, you can always mention your discovery and what it has done for you. But I wouldn’t volunteer anything out of the blue.

I would have loved for someone to have told me about Thunder’s Place the moment I hit puberty. However, I do see how it would be awkward for both you to tell your buddies and them to listen about it. I don’t think I’ve ever once talked to my buddies about penis size. But since your college buddy actually brought it up, go ahead and tell him. As for your coworker/friend, leave a note on his desk in an envelope with the words “private: open in a private location” or something to that effect. I highly doubt he would go to your boss or human resources saying that someone gave him a link to a penis enhancement web site.

I guess you’re right, Modesto. Certainly the work thing could be strange, and I wouldn’t want to embarrass him. I wouldn’t even leave an anonymous note to someone with halitosis.

My college friend, J. Used to get drunk and sad and sometimes this would be the subject of his wallowing. We’re pretty close though - he tells me as his marriage has ups and downs, we commiserate and celebrate when sex life is crappy and great.

PE does seem like one of those things I’d like to have known about before I stumbled into a mention online of the word jelq and thought it was jilk (like milk, right?) and then kept looking around searching until I found Thunder’s. It’s crazy the money scrum around penis satisfaction and so good to find a place where it’s about healthy bodies, healthy minds and community. (Except for the occasional meathead, but then I’m a meathead sometimes too).

I don’t think its that difficult. Just be like, “yo I found a way to make my dick bigger!”

Perhaps a mysterious note on the desk? Just explaining that you are a co-worker and he should check this out? Who knows. I too have thought about telling my friends, perhaps I will when I’m 8 x 6!

Gimli

Hopefully He won’t recognize his handwriting!

I like Big’s approach. It’s not insulting that way and it will invite him to say, “how?” Which will spark his interest without you hurting his feelings. If he doesn’t care then so be it. “Girl talk” is one of the reasons why I hate relationships because WHOEVER your woman hangs around with knows everything that the girlfriend does.

I have had this same issue I am in the medical/fitness field have been all my life. So back in the eighties before Ed came and shrunk up my dick. Well, anyway I had a job at the college working with the disabled helping them with swimming and other exercise classes and their was the locker room episodes. Well I always had a decent flaccid and it got a few comments. Knowing I was in the health field the men often asked is their an exercise that makes your dick bigger. And being ignorant at the time I said no. It’s not a muscle.

Now beings I’m back up and passed former flaccid glory 6” and have knowledge of these PE exercises and applied them toward the ED issue that came up in my life. I would say yes you can grow your penis. In fact I have, I would recommend TP two these prospective newbies.

From ED my erections shriveled to 5.5” and that was by straightening the bend to 8.25 where I am now. Before ED I was about where I am now perhaps a 7”. Mine was something to be proud of. Because of my knowledge I feel I can offer hope to these men who feel they need to make theirs bigger. At no cost.

But I would only impart the information if the guy asked for it.

I think that it’s a very sensitive subject, but I have to second GoldsGymRat. I would of loved it if someone had shown me this site 4 years ago. It certainly would have saved me from a lot of doubts, awkwardness and sometimes even heartache.

I started PEing about a week ago and I have already noticed some positive signs (PIs). I now turtle a lot less often, my flaccid girth has increased (I think so, I haven’t measured because I promised I would only measure after 4 weeks of consistent PEing), I’m getting a lot more spontaneous erections, my erections are harder and they even kick in faster. Some people might think this is not a lot, and maybe it isn’t, but it’s a great deal for me.

I think the suggestion about the note is kind of impersonal, but I think that actually works for this specific situation. In my case, I have a very good friend to whom I told about my PEing, not as a suggestion for him, but as something I was doing for me (but I knew in my gut that he would also want to, because many times I’ve heard him talk about size and stuff, and I thought he probably would love some more cms in that department). He’s going to start PEing today ;)

When I talked to my friend about this, I just told him quite simply what I was doing. I said that it worked, that it’s great for your penis health and that a couple of extra cms wouldn’t hurt.

I agree with Modesto, don’t give any unsolicited advice. It being small troubles him that much, then he would search PEing on his own and get himself going.

If you leave a note the guy will think everyone knows he has a small dick. Big’s approach might work but you can also start the conversation by complaining about all the penispill spam you’ve been getting. Ask him if he would take these pills assuming they work (which they don’t) and for how much he would still buy magic pills which add 2”. Then ask him if assuming you can enlarge your dick for free he would stretch his dick everyday for 20mins.

You all rock. I think it might make this thread a splice to the “Should PE be public” but I think a lot of it is about who gets let in. This has been going on a long time (centuries in some cultures) but somehow still I want my friends and loved ones let in so they can gain vs. the mean. Right?

I don’t think so. You realize how deeply the thought “its impossible to enlarge your penis” is dug into people’s heads. Most don’t want to waste time looking up subjects like this and those who does probably wouldn’t find natural penis enlargement before they find some scam that doesn’t work. It’d be better if he just told his friend that he made his dick bigger and from there the conversation will arise wether his friend wants to enlarge it or not.

Al right, point well taken, but still stand by what I said I do not give out unsolicited advice about these matters to jst any one. An extremely close friend, family OK, but not an aquaintance a work buddy. THings seem to just explode out of porportion when you tell these guys.