How to stop from kegeling during Masturbation

Perhaps from years of bad training, I find that I automatically kegel when I am masturbating, and just today I was experimenting to try and avoid this. I find that reverse kegeling helps, but if I do it hard I can’t breath, so this method isn’t cool. I also find that forced “relaxing” works.. Although I think this might be a slight reverse kegel. I guess the best way to describe it is I am ever so slightly pushing the muscle downwards or something. Anyway, as for my question.. If I continue practicing this, will it become natural? Or will I always have to focus on not kegeling? Because I think that would be very distracting during sex.

Kegeling during sex can be a turn on for the woman, because she can definitely feel it when your cock slightly retracts and swells during a kegel.

You don’t need to worry about Kegeling during sex. I do it too and it’s so automatic that it doesn’t bug me. Unless you have pre-ejac, there’s no real problem here.