How to find time and a place for consistently practising PE?

Hi guys, so I found this forum a couple of weeks back. I thought OK I’m going to do this.. Did a few sessions and was impressed by just how much better things looked just from the extra hang I got when flaccid.

Then I got busy working my construction job and also some sessions at the gym I’d booked with a personal trainer and my jelq sessions stopped there due to just not feeling like doing it I guess.. Kind of tired and the dishes pile up in the sink is usually my indicator that it’s been a busy week.

I’m thinking that this possibility of increasing size is such an important one for me that I really should figure out my plan and method and stick to it! Make it a priority.

Of the times I’ve done it I tried it out as follows;

1. Laid out on the bed after a shower, coconut oil for lube.
2. I have this small home infra red sauna, so tried it in there.. Coconut oil for lube but sauna so hot it just seemed to melt to nothing and also made a bit of an oily mess of sauna.
3. Tried just sitting on the couch watching TV . It was OK, but I sort of kept losing wood and had to get my mind more involved.

Q. How do you guys go about it? Long term guys, what was your plan and how did you stick to it?

I keep an excel spreadsheet with the dates running down the left column followed by stretch time, then jelq time, then a tally. My PE cycles run 6 weeks on 2 weeks off. I have this drive to do the best job I can in 6 weeks. I have no fixed schedule. I try to hit 1 on 1 off but rarely do because life gets in the way, my cock feels too fatigued, or I’d rather have sex with my girlfriend. That being said I manage to average 3 ish sessions per week consistently over time. The ‘best’ I’ve done is 1 on 1 off the ‘worst’ is 4 days off in a row lol. .. Embrace the inconsistency!

Simply put; you just do it. Wake up 20-30 minutes early and get it in. You can make great use of your morning wood.

I found staying consistent happened for me when I saw growth. It doesn’t need to consume your day. Carve out the time and you’ll be glad you did.

I’m agree with a previous comment. Regularity is the most important thing in this case.

The best time for me is in the morning since you definitely want to take advantage of your morning wood. Plus, your penis is somewhat warm from being under the blanket all night. Here is my breakdown to start my day.

1. Throw my rice sock or microwavable heating pad in the microwave
2. Then go to the washroom, do my #1 and #2 or depending on what I eat the night before a possible #3
3. then wash him up
4. Go to my PE dedicated area, grab rice sock and warm up unit
5. My station will have a phone (for the timer), laptop, scissors, surgical tape, theraband wrap, etc.

I normally have about 1 - 2 hours free time in the morning for myself and I try to cut out a small session in the evening. If you really want it, you will find a way, otherwise you will always make excuses.

Thanks for the replies.

I hadn’t really thought about mornings to be honest.

And yes, morning wood for sure! Rather than after a hard day at work and feeling like I can’t really get motivated to do it in the evenings.

PE is a lot like practicing is for a serious musician. The rules for musicians who really want to progress is that ‘practice comes first’. That may mean first thing in the morning (you’ll find you still have time to do everything else in your day, whereas if you do everything else first, practice is what gets left out… and you still find enough time to watch porn!), or it may mean straight after work, before you check your emails or facebook or take a shower. Samr for runners, or gym rats. Discipline is needed for consistency, but if you make it an unbreakable habit, it requires less discipline.

I am struggling with this now actually. I am doing the newbie routine 2 days on 1 off but the way I am doing it is when its an on day I will take a HOT shower in the AM and use the shower head on my dick for 5-10 mins as hot as I can stand it then do 10 to 15 mins of stretching and 5 mins warm down. At night another hot shower with 10 mins of stretching after warm up then 10 mins jelqing and 5 mins warming down. The problem is my GF is starting to wonder why I am spending 2 hours in the shower a day lol. She is kinda a jealous type and if she found me doing PE would assume its cause I want to fuck some other chick so I rather not broach the subject.

Most men don’t get after it.

Great men do.

Get after it.

So you have 2 options that I can think of

Option #1 - Telling Her
*You can tell your girlfriend about PE but how you can introduce it is by talking dirty to her while having sex. I.e. “do you like big cocks fucking you?” etc… or be straight up and tell her that you are increasing your penis. However, by talking dirty to her and getting her to agree with what you are saying it will ease up the actual conversation about you doing PE later on. She should be more receptive to the idea of you doing PE.

Option #2 - Rearrange Your Schedule
*So work out all the fixed things that you do in a week. So job hours, sleep hours, laundry, grocery shopping etc. From here, you can plug in things that are considered easier to live without for the short term. i.e. spending time with girlfriend, hanging out with friends, playing on the xbox/computer/etc. So basically you are trying to find a fixed time in your week that will fit in your PE either with privacy.

Either go get what you deserve or sit back and learn to appreciate what you have. The choice is yours. Good Luck Brother

Oh no I’m definitely doing it lol the question is how to be more discrete about it. I know the PE convo won’t go well with her because she has a quirk in her anatomy that makes her very tight to the point that even with a good amount of lube like 30% of the time we have to stop and I just get a blowjob. Anyways me telling her I’m working to make it bigger would not be well received lol. The next question will be why would I want to do it then. Because its my dick not hers lol. And I would like to see it bigger same way I’m now losing weight and working out etc.

Well, if you want to be more discreet, I’m guess that you two live together? If so, you are probably going to have to find a pocket of time in your schedule where she is working, in school, or whatever so that you can do your THANG.

In terms of her being extremely tight, my girl was the same but after some good foreplay, she does loosen up and can take more but again, each women is different. I didn’t mean to question your foreplay skills but normally for me, good foreplay makes it easier for my girl to take more of me in.

However, if you are taking the route of telling her why, just tell her that you are at a point in your life that you don’t want to wonder the what if’s and since there is a way for you to achieve or dismiss this goal of yours, why not do it? It is no different then a woman wearing a push up bra but claiming its meant to keep them elevated (bunch of BS) or women wearing leggings because they claim its comfortable (so are loose track pants but it doesn’t make them look good) so all in all, your girl may have some insecurities that she is addressing indirectly by her own choice of clothing that she wears. She may be blinded by her natural reflexes of choice, the only difference with you is that you are aware of your insecurities and you want to address it head on. Sorry about this long ass explanation but I want to keep this short as possible but failed obviously. Anyways, hope this helps?

I live on my own privately but in a house where others live above me and below, and there’s no way I want to be seen with weights hanging off my cock.

So far my routine goes a bit like this.

1. Wake up and take advantage of morning wood for 10 minutes clamping while still in bed.
2. Use hanging kit I bought on line at Zen hanger for 15 minutes in a.m. By kind of somewhat discreetly hanging the weights down the leg of my pyjamas while I wash the dishes and brush my teeth. 20 to 30 minutes hanging in evenings is quite easy as curtains are closed and easier to fit it in.
3. Jelqing in evening, not to difficult to find time/place in private.

So far so good, I have the start of a new habit that I think will stick around and into by about 2 months and I can see the difference.

I know this is not related to the OP but here goes….

If you love this girl and plan on spending the rest of your life with her be open and honest now so that down the road if you do marry her things like PE aren’t a big deal. Trust me I’m talking from life experience. I hid so so much from my then girlfriend now wife of many years and so even little things are sometimes hard to discuss now. After many years of hiding things I finally and reluctantly became more honest and open with her, not completely but a lot more so she knows I do some form of PE. She doesn’t know all that I do but she knows a little and she’s ok with it. Rewind 15 years and I would have hid all of it, then she would have found out and thought the exact same thing you said, she would have said what other girl is it for…