How long does one last

I was wondering how long does the average guys last for before he cums while having sex, since I’m a virgin I wouldn’t know.

As long as they want if theyre relaxed enough… putting a time limit on it will only make it worse for you if you’re a virgin ;)

How come I can’t last that long when watching porn I stay relaxed. One might say there’s alot of excitement that’s why, but if that’s the case isn’t there going to be excitement during sex?

Oh yes there is, and alot of it. Chances are, you’re not going to last very long your first time champ. Don’t sweat it, nobody ever did. Just take off the rubber, clean off your wang, and go at it again 5 min later and you’ll last much longer.

If you’re still worried about it, a word of advice I can give you is to not train yourself to rush to ejaculation while you still can. Meaning, everytime you masturbate, don’t just rush to orgasm, you’ll train your penis to be trigger happy. Instead, make it last, which will train your gear to relax.

And kegels.

About 5 minutes, apparently: How quickly do men cum? A study

On the Internet, however, the average man lasts for days, weeks, months, possibly even years. ;)

Do you mean when I’m at the point of no return to kegel, or to masturbate slower than I normally would and then when I reach the point of no return to kegel?

To answer thy question Suh. I cin only tell it from personal experience.

Ah was 18 when Ah lost my cherry to Sandy. Took 2 hours of wiggling the tush. Finally we settled into the doggy style and it started to happen.. Finally. This overwhelming feelin’ in de groin. It was overpowering. Whooa!. Naw.. More then that. I lost it. Flopped on top of her out a’ control. Squished de poor girl even. Then de thingy finally popped. Man oh man. Once in a life time thing. Never been the same. Ever

For the next 3 years I was Jesse James. I could draw and shoot faster then anybody else. Yes Sir-rie! The fastest gun on the continent.

Today? Over 50 I can do as I please. Total control.

But I think I know why:

Question 1:
What’s the difference between a husband and a lover?.
About 35 minutes.

Question 2:
What’s the difference between a wife and a lover?.
About 35 pounds.

Drop the cute crap Jonesey. Please.

No, my good man, if you are “AT” the PNR then it is Tooooo late! The ejaculatory response at that point cannot be controlled or stopped. The key is to learn how to recognize your bodies signs. Particularly pay attention to your breathing patterns. When you notice your breathing getting shorter, more rapid then mentally focus on slowing it down and relaxing.

The point made on masturbation was a good one that I preach all of the time. Do not train your body to “get to the treat” so to speak. If you spend your life hurrying to cum when your whacking, then chances are your body is going to do just that when it sinks balls deep in a hot wet box!

Premature ejaculation is caused by anxiety, can I last, gotta last, damnit! Oops! It is also a learned response from hurrying for the prize as a young man. Good news is it is easy to cure if you just focus!

IMHO you shouldn’t really care all that much about how long you could last the first time..

I, personally, had erection problems the first time because I was “thinking too much”..

My advise - go with the flow..

This is why our parents always talk about “trusting your partner the first time blah blah blah, etc.”.. They actually DID always have a point - if you trust your partner - you can relax knowing that even if you fail you will not be judged or made fun of..

Knowing that will not only make the sex more pleasurable for both of you (and in THAT way stay for the rest of your life in good memory), but WILL also make you less prone to failure.

Do kegels, that’d strengthen your PC muscle, that means more endurance. The stronger, the better.

Ok

Wilco!