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How do you approach the wife with wanting to do these routines

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Originally Posted by meatbuilder
Nail on the head! I’m with A-unit and sta-kool on this one. No doubt there are major advantages to open PE for some folks, but you would have to know a LOT about other people -and their significant others - to persuade me of a one size fits all philosophy.

Are you married? If you were not, I would NOT tell a girl friend. A wife yes, a girl friend, Hell no!
The minute she breaks up with you, your business will be all over the streets.

My wife said the samething you said yours would. “Your penis is perfect and I am happy with it.” But let me say it’s not perfect and I am sure she is happy. She could be happier. There is no doubt in my mind my wife loves the gains I have made. She now makes noises and faces she never made before. I can hear her get off. As far as a workout. 20 to 30 minutes a day is good enough.

Told an ex girlfriend about doing PE. She thought it was awesome and encouraged me. Never complained about size by the way. However sometimes those thoughts come creeping in that maybe she will say something to someone, then I just shake it off and get back to jelqing.

I won’t be telling any future girlfriends. I like the privacy, I have all you brothers to brag/talk to about it anyways.

I think some day honestly PE like this will be mainstream. We are just ahead of the curve.

Originally Posted by PatientlyGrowin
Told an ex girlfriend about doing PE. She thought it was awesome and encouraged me. Never complained about size by the way. However sometimes those thoughts come creeping in that maybe she will say something to someone, then I just shake it off and get back to jelqing.

I won’t be telling any future girlfriends. I like the privacy, I have all you brothers to brag/talk to about it anyways.

I think some day honestly PE like this will be mainstream. We are just ahead of the curve.


Funny that breast enhancement is perfectly acceptable, but penis enhancement isn’t.


Serious starting point: Nov. 2, 2009/BPEL 5.75 x 4.75 inches.

Current BPEL 7 1/2 x 5.5 inches.

Goal: BPEL 8 x 6 inches. Hell, if I hit 8, I'm going for 9!

The first night I started, I just got up and told my wife I was going to be in the bathroom for a while because I’d been reading about methods to get a bigger unit. She looked at me with a grin and said “Okay. Whatever works for you.” That was over a year ago. She has been very pleased with the results. I do it as much for her as for myself and she appreciates it. You’d be surprised what your spouse/partner may accept/understand/support. I realize that is not the case for everyone, but if you explain its importance to you (and the potential benefit for her) you may be pleasantly surprised by their response. Plus, if it is out in the open that you are doing this, it becomes easier to schedule rather than having to explain why you disappear for an hour at a time.

Originally Posted by Mr. Schlong
Funny that breast enhancement is perfectly acceptable, but penis enhancement isn’t.


Not so sure I agree with ya Mr. Schlong penis enhancement is acceptable, look at all the penis pills on television and over the internet. The methods and theories used here are not commonplace though.
I think the unacceptable part is society deaming men with small units as less of a man. Casuing him to not want to admit his insecurities or having a small penis and the world knowing about it for fear of being criticized and judged. Thats probably why a majority of men don’t know about this website and never will!

Women are leaps and bounds ahead of us in accepting their bodies and doing stuff to change them (Although I think both sexes realize most of the time it is just true grit that accomplishes the changes we desire). Also surgeouns probably make more money ( safely from lawsuits ) making breasts larger than risk injury of a penis.

I tried to hide it from my wife at first, but then one night we were showering together and I still had some moisturiser on my unit from a stealth session … when she felt that she was totally confused, thinking I was putting moisturiser on myself down there just for the sake of it. So I told her that I’d been doing some exercises with my penis and PC muscle to help me last longer and have more control with her in bed. Admittedly I did also add that I sometimes need moisturiser after we have particularly intense sex, due to chafing, but I focussed on the PC and penis exercises. I have to say that I am really happy that we had the talk, as she is now fine with me going off to the bedroom for half an hour every night to do my sessions. It makes it so much easier to have a regular routine that you don’t have to hide and rush through. Before our talk I would be jelqing too fast and cutting my workout down just so I wouldn’t arouse suspicion, and I wouldn’t feel good about my workouts. Now I can take my time and do a really solid session, and I’ve really felt a difference in my unit since then. I haven’t mentioned that the true purpose of the exercises is to increase penis size … but I have a feeling she knows that is part of it (the downside of having an intelligent wife). Either way I think she secretly likes that I do these exercises so that I can please her better, whether it’s just to last longer wit her, or to increase my size. I think it turns her on.

I realise that not all guys can talk to their wives or g/f’s about it, but in my case it has definitely made PE easier and more effective.


Began June 2013: 7" BPEL, 5.3" MEG Current: 7.4" BPEL

Mid-term goal: 8" BPEL x 6" MEG

Dream goal: 9" BPEL x 6" MEG

I was a closet PE’er for several months before my wife found out. I always wanted to discuss it with her but never had the courage to. I knew that eventually she would find out and I’d have to explain it to her. I really hate keeping secrets from my wife, I don’t think it right to do that. However, this is a very personal thing and not all women understand.

I wrote down all the reasons why I do PE and posted them here: My Story: Losing And Regaining My Confidence

I knew I couldn’t talk to her in the detail I wanted to so having her read about it made it much easier for me. When she did finally find out, I had her read my story and it really helped. She’s completely supportive and we occasionally discuss what I’m doing. She recently walked in on me during one of my hanging sessions. I usually keep the door locked but forgot this time. I asked her not to freak out (hanging 10 pounds off the end of your dick can look a bit freaky). She said she didn’t even want to see it but then asked if it was painful. LOL. She wasn’t disgusted, just a bit shy like that. She says as long as it doesn’t make having sex uncomfortable for her that I can do whatever I want.

As far as when you PE and how much time you spend, I’d pick a time that you cannot be disturbed by anyone and do a routine that gets you good results, regardless of how long it takes. I have committed to getting up at 4 AM to put in my 2 hours (takes that long with hanging, jelqing, and edging). I do this every day (not as early on weekends) and I still manage to get to work by 7:15 every day. Hoping that once I reach my expectations I can reduce my routine to less than an hour for maintenance only, but I’ve got quite a ways to go before that.

Good luck with your relationship and reaching your growth goals. By the way, if I wasn’t married I’d never tell my girlfriend about PE. I have to agree with others that it wouldn’t take long before it was on every social network available.


Wish I knew this when I was a young man! I can no longer accept the things I cannot change. It’s time to change the things I cannot accept!

My Story: Losing And Regaining My Confidence

Starting Stats: BPEL: 4.875" EG: 5.0" FL: 3" FG: 4.25 | 02/01/2013: BPEL: 5.875" EG: 5.375" FL: 3.5" FG: 4.25" | 05/11/2013: BPEL: 6.25" EG: 5.438" FL: 4.5" FG: 4.5" | 07/28/2013: BPEL: 6.25" EG: 5.5" FL: 5.0" FG: 4.625" | 09/17/2013: BPEL: 6.375" EG: 5.5" FL: 5.0" FG: 4.750"

Some of PE routine is way over the top and I would not attempt it let alone run it by a wife or girlfriend. I would not keep anything a secret though. If I had a girlfriend, I’d tell her that I need to increase my blood flow to the end of my cock and ask her to help by pumping it up, squeezing and stroking it to maintain fresh blood to my glans. I would not be keeping anything or lying or sneaking around in the middle of the night!


My current dimensions: flaccid: 8" x 6.5" erect: 9.5" x 7.125" glans: soft length:1.825" soft diameter 1.65" firm length:2.286" firm diameter:1.90"

Goal: flaccid: 9" x 7" (.1" length .5" girth) erect: 10" x 8" ( .5" length 1" girth) glans: soft length: 2.25" soft diameter: 2" firm length: 2.5" firm diameter: 2.25"

Ultimate goal: flaccid: 10" x 8" erect: 11.5" x 9.75" glans: soft length: 2.5" soft diameter: 2.25" firm length: 4" firm diameter: 3" In other words: A big, fat elephant cock!

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