I was a closet PE’er for several months before my wife found out. I always wanted to discuss it with her but never had the courage to. I knew that eventually she would find out and I’d have to explain it to her. I really hate keeping secrets from my wife, I don’t think it right to do that. However, this is a very personal thing and not all women understand.
I wrote down all the reasons why I do PE and posted them here: My Story: Losing And Regaining My Confidence
I knew I couldn’t talk to her in the detail I wanted to so having her read about it made it much easier for me. When she did finally find out, I had her read my story and it really helped. She’s completely supportive and we occasionally discuss what I’m doing. She recently walked in on me during one of my hanging sessions. I usually keep the door locked but forgot this time. I asked her not to freak out (hanging 10 pounds off the end of your dick can look a bit freaky). She said she didn’t even want to see it but then asked if it was painful. LOL. She wasn’t disgusted, just a bit shy like that. She says as long as it doesn’t make having sex uncomfortable for her that I can do whatever I want.
As far as when you PE and how much time you spend, I’d pick a time that you cannot be disturbed by anyone and do a routine that gets you good results, regardless of how long it takes. I have committed to getting up at 4 AM to put in my 2 hours (takes that long with hanging, jelqing, and edging). I do this every day (not as early on weekends) and I still manage to get to work by 7:15 every day. Hoping that once I reach my expectations I can reduce my routine to less than an hour for maintenance only, but I’ve got quite a ways to go before that.
Good luck with your relationship and reaching your growth goals. By the way, if I wasn’t married I’d never tell my girlfriend about PE. I have to agree with others that it wouldn’t take long before it was on every social network available.
Wish I knew this when I was a young man! I can no longer accept the things I cannot change. It’s time to change the things I cannot accept!
My Story: Losing And Regaining My Confidence
Starting Stats: BPEL: 4.875" EG: 5.0" FL: 3" FG: 4.25 | 02/01/2013: BPEL: 5.875" EG: 5.375" FL: 3.5" FG: 4.25" | 05/11/2013: BPEL: 6.25" EG: 5.438" FL: 4.5" FG: 4.5" | 07/28/2013: BPEL: 6.25" EG: 5.5" FL: 5.0" FG: 4.625" | 09/17/2013: BPEL: 6.375" EG: 5.5" FL: 5.0" FG: 4.750"