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How do you approach the wife with wanting to do these routines

Originally Posted by Cock Kent
Can’t imagine being married to someone where there isn’t 100% honesty or the hassle of sneaking around doing things.

Guys, it is not like we are not talking about an extra-marital affair here.

When you get down to it, PE is basically equivalent to an advanced form of masturbation. My wife knows I masturbate, but she does not want to know the nitty-gritty details. Not sure she needs to know them either.

Honestly I think there is room for mystery in a good marriage. Keeps things exciting.

Additionally, I think in general that newbies should keep PE to themselves until they know that they are going to truly commit to it.

Originally Posted by sta-kool
Guys, it is not like we are not talking about an extra-marital affair here.

When you get down to it, PE is basically equivalent to an advanced form of masturbation. My wife knows I masturbate, but she does not want to know the nitty-gritty details. Not sure she needs to know them either.

Honestly I think there is room for mystery in a good marriage. Keeps things exciting.

Additionally, I think in general that newbies should keep PE to themselves until they know that they are going to truly commit to it.


sta I uber respect your opinion, but disagree with you on this point. Like I said every marriage has its own dynamic. I do consider it to be on the level of lying/cheating. You’re not being open and trying to alter your sexual parts that are for your partner to enjoy.

It’s hard to relate PE to a woman, but I’ll try to make a poor attempt. If my wife went to a doctor for breast implants or vaginal reconstruction behind my back, divorce would be the first thing on my mind.

I’m not married, but I don’t understand why you need your wife’s approval.
If you started lifting weights to improve your physique and she said no, would you stop?
If you wanted to go to school to improve your mind and she refused, would you not?
Just how much of your personal life does she control?

Some might argue that your body is partly her business since she has to take it during sex, but being realistic,
Its not like you are going to become so big she can’t take it.
In all reality, you probably won’t gain more than an inch at best, and .5 - .75 inches in girth.
Is that going to kill her?

Originally Posted by tinytim
I’m not married, but I don’t understand why you need your wife’s approval.
If you started lifting weights to improve your physique and she said no, would you stop?
If you wanted to go to school to improve your mind and she refused, would you not?
Just how much of your personal life does she control?

Some might argue that your body is partly her business since she has to take it during sex, but being realistic,
Its not like you are going to become so big she can’t take it.
In all reality, you probably won’t gain more than an inch at best, and .5 - .75 inches in girth.
Is that going to kill her?


Going to school is a poor comparison. PE has to do with the physical not mental.

It’s not about about control, but approval/ turn on of body. If my wife started lifting weights it be ok unless she got into body building, I would have a problem with it. Huge turn off for me. Not something she could hide from me.

I gained a .5 inch both ways and yes it started ruining a good thing.

Our marriage dynamic is that my body is hers and her body is mine. We talk about differences of opinion.

I started out by telling my wife I read an article that talked about as a man grows older he produces less testosterone. This can cause loss of muscle mass and penis shrinkage. After seeing her raised eyebrows, I told her that I was going to do exercises to counter the affects of growing older. I started out being very private with it. But now it has gotten to were I just say I’m going to the bedroom to workout. At first it would kind of shock her when she walked in on me, but now she has gotten so use to it she will knock on the door and come in the room and have a conversation with me while I’m jelqing (that took a few times for me to get use to that). Every time I have tried something new she will ask “now what is that doing?”. She has seen me pump, hang, jelq and stretch. And trust me - I have a very conservative wife.

My wife was supportive.

I kept it secret for 3 months. In that time, she made comments about how much tighter she felt during sex. I just kind of smirked, thinking, ok maybe the gain isn’t all in my head! During oral sex a couple weeks ago, she exclaimed You’re absolutely huge! Man, was that awesome - big confidence booster!

Last weekend, I was seriously engorged (my biggest ever), and she literally stopped the action and asked point blank why I was bigger. We’ve been together 19 years, and the great beginner gains I’ve acheived were pretty obvious. So, I took a deep breath and said, Yes it is bigger. Which started a discussion..

She sees it as win win for us both, but doesn’t want me getting bigger than she can take. Those are my boundaries :-) I do notice her eyes seem to fixate below my waist this past week, and I’m liking that!

I’ve always been medium in size, but now can barley fit it into an empty toilet paper roll when erect - I don’t know what possessed me to use that as to test my girth - visual comparison I guess..

At any rate, it may become obvious at some point. I wish you luck with your PE and with telling or not telling your wife.

You should surprise her with your gains


Starting: 1/1/13 BPEL 6'' EG 4.75'' BPFSL 6.25'' FG 4''

Short Term: 1/1/14 BPEL 7'' EG 5.5''

Long Term: 1/1/15 BPEL 8'' EG 6''

Originally Posted by Cock Kent
sta I uber respect your opinion, but disagree with you on this point. Like I said every marriage has its own dynamic. I do consider it to be on the level of lying/cheating. You’re not being open and trying to alter your sexual parts that are for your partner to enjoy.

It’s hard to relate PE to a woman, but I’ll try to make a poor attempt. If my wife went to a doctor for breast implants or vaginal reconstruction behind my back, divorce would be the first thing on my mind.

Bad analogy, CK. Breast Implants = Penis Enlargement surgery. If you or I went to a doctor for that, our wives would have every right to divorce us.

Better analogy would be if your wife started doing kegels to surprise you. She is self-conscious about losing vaginal tone.

She is keeping quiet about it initially because she is not sure it is going to work. Once she sees results, she tells you about it. Or maybe she just doesn’t say a word and lets you enjoy the results.

Or say that after about 15 days she gets totally bored with doing the routine and never logs into vaginaplace.org ever again.

I seriously doubt divorce would be the first thing on your mind with either of those scenarios.

Anyways, don’t want to argue with you. It is just my opinion that newbies need not rush out and do full confessions initially.

Because a) I don’t think PE works for everbody and b) most newbies are not gonna last more than 30 days.

Originally Posted by 10ingoal
I’m having a hard time finding “alone” time to do any routine consistently. I haven’t told my wife about wanting a bigger penis because I know she will say that I’m big enough for her and I satisfy her. How do I go about getting her on board. These routines are pretty time consuming and I have a normal daily routine. How long do I need to set aside for good results.

Read my thread in my signature. I told my wife from the get go, and she ended up participating
in my PE routine. She thought it was odd at first but accepted it.

I told my wife straight up - I want a bigger dick and I’m going to have to make some things or buy some things to accomplish this.


Serious starting point: Nov. 2, 2009/BPEL 5.75 x 4.75 inches.

Current BPEL 7 1/2 x 5.5 inches.

Goal: BPEL 8 x 6 inches. Hell, if I hit 8, I'm going for 9!

Originally Posted by Mr. Schlong
I told my wife straight up - I want a bigger dick and I’m going to have to make some things or buy some things to accomplish this.


Up front and honest is the best approach.

Read my thread in my signature. It is all documented on how I told my wife and what happened from there.
It actually was one of the best times of my life until I got greedy and wanted more.

Be up front, that way there is no question on dedication and consistency since privacy won’t be an issue.
I also believe the gains will come much faster. In my case my wife actually motivated me. I posted in my
threat that ms tnt went to Denver for a weekend break and to my dismay, she packed the clamps.

Wouldn’t tell my wife for any reason, and encouraging anyone else seems unethical to me.

I am pleased that some have had good experiences telling their wives, but please don’t assume we are all the same.


Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.

As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.

Going for the magic 8"x6"

Originally Posted by a-unit
Wouldn’t tell my wife for any reason, and encouraging anyone else seems unethical to me.

I am pleased that some have had good experiences telling their wives, but please don’t assume we are all the same.

I personally am not assuming anything, go back and re-read 10ingoal’s opening post okay. He asked how to approach
his the wife with wanting to do these routines and, we as brothers are answering his question. So a-unit, let us not
assume we are encouraging but posting of our experiences, okay.

Unethical, huh? Why? If your wife told you she wanted a breast enlargement, would that be unethical? Women do
it now in this age, they don’t care, or who gives a shit, so why should males. I told my wife, women want bigger tits
and I want a bigger dick, Boom, the gains came because I did not have to hide in allies yanking my cock because I am hiding
of something I wanted.

So to all, let us not be confused, I am not here to tell you where to hide to yank your shit, nor am I here to encourage anybody to tell
your partners, I am posting here at this particular thread of my experience, talking to my wife about what I wanted and it worked.

10ingoal asked, I gave him the answer that helped for me.

Now then, I am here to encourage and give guidance to members who ask for PE help and advise and to Heed caution, and if these kind of questions turn
up, I will post of my experiences. Why is PE such a dirty thing, and why is masturbation accepted. It could dam near be the same thing
except that one of those is an exercise, a harder pull, and what about edging? Think about it.

10ingoal If you want to approach your wife about PEing, just do it. Let her read some of these threads, you might get as lucky as I
and she might just jump in and help you, it’s up to you brother.

Originally Posted by a-unit
Wouldn’t tell my wife for any reason, and encouraging anyone else seems unethical to me.

I am pleased that some have had good experiences telling their wives, but please don’t assume we are all the same.

Nail on the head! I’m with A-unit and sta-kool on this one. No doubt there are major advantages to open PE for some folks, but you would have to know a LOT about other people -and their significant others - to persuade me of a one size fits all philosophy.

She probably wouldn’t care that much at the end of the day. I suppose if I was in this position, I would be “experimenting” as far as she would know.

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