How big is too big?

Opinions please. You can see in my Sig I am aiming for the 8x6. Now If I understand right the vagina can stretch to 8 inches on average. I’m wondering, what would be too big. I would ask to ask your wives and girlfriends but most will try and spare feelings. If you feel you can get a honest answer then feel free to post back. It seems allot of people believe anything over 8x6 would cause pain for the woman. But I’m not too sure about this. I am also wondering if the size of the woman makes a difference in their preferable size. For some smaller women a 8x6 might be too big?

So I guess I do want to make this kind of a research thread. And like I said if you feel you can get a honest answer then feel free.

I believe the best place to start would be a woman’s health site. Something that would be able to give you the stats of measured vaginas of many various types of women. Obviously there are a lot of variables because the vagina stretches by so many ways: position they are sitting/standing in, level of arousal, certain time of the month. For a dick to be too big I believe it would have to be unable to fit into any woman's vagina period. If it fit into a horses vagina but not a woman's vagina it is too big because you can no longer reproduce with your own species without artificial insemination Say your 10inches by 9 inches I am willing to bet there is at least one woman in this world you can still have sit on your dick. However if your 16inches by 12 inches and need to fuck an elephant to orgasm you lose.

Well honestly asking a woman whats too big/ideal won’t work for 1 simple reason……: they f’kin suck more than we do at estimating sizes.

There’s no such thing as too big. There will always be a woman some where that it fits perfectly.

As for me I’d like to have the largest size that still pleases the most women and I believe that would be 8x6.

If you have a partner, you should really be asking them that question. If in the theoretical, I think 8x6 is getting close to the limit for a lot of people, at least that much girth anyway.

It’s unwise, IMO, to go much above 7” NBPEL. Much more than this, and you are going to lose pubis to pubis contact that is so important for female orgasm. As for girth, I can see myself possibly continuing on to 6”, one day, depending on the female I end up with for life.

8x6 is probably too much for most women to handle on a regular basis. Almost any woman could take it no problem if it’s the first time in a while that she’s had sex. Also, women who are on birth control can’t handle much dick at all because of the messed up hormones, whereas most women not on birth control could probably handle a baseball bat with enough foreplay. Moral of the story: every woman is different, but 8x6 is gonna be too big for most to take every day.

Depends on your partner.. Mine is a pretty small girl and I hurt her (in some positions) sometimes and I’m really not long at all. I’m hoping to Gain all girth and no length.

Could you expand on that thought? Is that a common experience? This is my first time hearing about this. My woman enjoys my big dick and can even take a thorough pounding, but she has been on birth control pills for years.

Most women will not know the precise measurement when a penis crosses over from the big category into the too big category.

If you can actually get a woman to answer this question she won’t respond with a NBP/MSG measurement. She will probably recall on an experience when she had bad sex with a large penis and associate that with being too big. But the sex could have been bad for a number of reasons that had nothing to do with the size of the penis.

No he gave a perfect example. If your 16x12” you will not penetrate a human vagina.

Just curious, has anyone been able find information or start a thread (going to search immediately after this post) for the average length and width of a vagina? I know in the move “Pool Hall Junkies” (an excellent movie that I recommend to everyone) has a short scene of some guys talking about average lengths of penises and vaginas, something I recall is that the actor said ” the average length of a pussy is 7inches” and that there is a certain number of virgins in the world so if you do the math it comes out to be something like over a 100 miles of virgin pussy in the world. I think the best penis size would be just larger than the average vagina size, that way you can pleasure more than the average number of women. Just a thought.

In my opinion, women can take more than we think. With that said, most women can achieve a mind blowing orgasm with three to four inches of length/girth.

Its true. Its about how much you get into her head! However the excitement and lust factor behind a nice body and a ideal dicksize for her may get you far into her head by default!

There is no doubt that there are some ladies out there that can accommodate some enormous penises, so you would have to be really big to be too big for all women. But I am also of the opinion, based on my experiences with prior lovers, and what I have been told by women (not men), that 8 inches of length and 6 or more inches of girth is too generous to be ideal for a significant percentage of women.

When I had about 7 inches of insertable length and about 5.75” of maximal girth, I was a little bigger than ideal for vaginal sex with a few women. Granted, they were in the minority, and I wasn’t too big to have sex with them, but for two of them I went too deep when we tried doggy style, and for two others they occasionally got sore after sex, and sometimes had superficial vaginal skin tears that meant no sex for a few days. In my book, if your dick size results in you getting laid less, rather than more often with the woman of your choice, or prevents you from using your favorite position, you are too big. With about 7 inches of insertable length I would bottom out in about half of the female partners I have had sex with, at least in those positions that allowed close pelvic contact, so my guess is that average vaginal depth in fully aroused women is somewhere in the 7 - 7.5” range. Obviously, some women will be able to allow full penetration of somewhat longer cocks, but I believe that is because they are either unusually deep and/or tolerate a degree of vaginal stretching.

I agree that if you are too long for complete insertion with a given woman that you are “too long” for that particular female. Women do like close pelvic contact which becomes impossible when you are too long to completely insert your cock in their vagina. A lot of them have told me they also really get off on the sensation of your balls slapping against their ass when screwing face to face, or even better, against their clit when going at it doggy style. I have never had 8 inches of insertable length, but having had a couple of partners for whom an inch less was a bit too much, I would have to believe that it would be longer than ideal for a significant percentage of women.

And one thing I am certain of: if you ask a bunch of men what the ideal penis length is, and ask a bunch of women the same question, the answer given by the women will be at least an inch shorter, assuming they are able to judge length close to accurately.