How big is too big?

8 nbpel x 6+ girth is too big for the majority of woman

You will fit though in most of those women, and maybe an inch out or so.

On what do you base this assumption?

I think that 9”x6.5” BPEL is perfect for the majority of women.

bigfin87? You’ll crack a majority of them “balls deep”?

I have currently started having sex with my ex again and let me tell you even at my dimensions we are having trouble. Sex does not often last longer than 10 minutes due to discomfort and pain. Length is also a big issue and many positions are too “uncomfortable” for her All I want to say is, yes a lot of women will be able to take me more comfortably but be aware if your going for big girth in particular and you want to be in a sustainable long term relationship you may want to re-think your goals. In some twisted way I enjoy all of this because I know she cannot handle me for long and I really do stretch her out which gives me a huge sense of power over her and gives me a lot of confidence, albeit a rather strange way to gain it. But guys seriously think your goals through because I do run into many obstacles and is sometimes a mood killer for us, so think over what your doing and realise, bigger is not always better.

I was about 0.75” shorter when I last time had sex and then I had no trouble. I still got 0.75”x0.6” to go before I reach my goal size and women’s ideal size. ;) LOL.

My own opinion? Eight by six is right at the upper limit for most women. Anything more in either direction you may start to have problems. Check saiyan’s sex thread out. Most of the women he fucks can only take 7-7.5 of his 9 NBPEL

I am actually incredibly happy that after a good few months of no PE, my length has actually gone down from 7.7 to 7.4(BPEL). At 7.7 (7.3 NBPEL) length I felt I was actually a little too long for my now ex girlfriend. It was annoying since I hadn’t reached my girth goal of 5.7” yet was over my length goal; it’s my belief that length work accentuates girth gains.

Now that my length is down to 7.4” I can add in some length/girth combo exercises! I’m seeing girth gains already.

I agree with everything you have said and my limited experience and multiple conversations with women about size matches your comments. I do have some questions; With the girls you were with that had trouble did they have children delivered vaginally? What was the height, weight, and age of these women?

At 6.5NBP X 5.4MSEG, occasionally long sessions with the one girl I had sex with ended up with her asking “are you done yet” because it was becoming uncomfortable yet, this was even after she had an orgasm and was dripping wet. She was 18, 5’4” and 110lbs with no children. She also commented without me initiating it that I was big, huge, large, ect.

Honestly I think 7”NBP X 5.75 MSEG is a good goal and would be ideal for the most amount of women, in most situations, most of the time, on average. This allows for almost any position while penetrating deeply in most positions. At this length you are also not likely to fall out with fast thrusting when you’re in the heat of things. That girth allows for blow jobs to still occur and spreads the vagina open enough to give a good stretch, yet is small enough for regular sex with most women. Although with women that haven’t had children or who are smaller 5.75 MSEG may be on the larger side. Again just my opinion.

With that said there is no perfect size even for one woman. One woman’s ideal size is different for different situations, different moods, different times of her cycle, different positions, ect. This is just one woman, not to mention all women.

A vagina is meant to make a penis ejaculate and have an orgasm, that is it’s one and only purpose. A penis’s purpose is to deliver sperm, not to specifically make a woman orgasm. This fact seems to have some interesting implications.

Reading stuff like this remains me what friend of mine, a successful psychiatrist with a private practice in downtown Chicago, once said after having quite a few glasses of wine at the party.

During a polite conversation with a group of other guests she answered a few questions about her line of work. At one point of it someone asked her if being a psychiatrist has any other advantages in life than an apparent financial aspect of it.

I don’t remember her exact words but with a smile on her face she said something like:

Without completing four years of college, then four years of medical school and, finally, four years of psychiatry residence training, I would have never realised on my own that deep down 95% of men are just primitive rednecks… and 95% of women are emotional idiots.

It appears she knows her business quite well…

None of the women I referred to had had children. Interestingly, my wife before she had kids did not particularly care for doggy style as it was frequently, but not always, uncomfortable. I also had to be careful not to jab her cervix in other positions. After she had our first kid it was no longer an issue, and at this point I’m sure that I could be quite a bit bigger and she wouldn’t bat an eyelash.

My wife did have an ex before we met who sounds as if he was pornstar size. She didn’t have any idea of absolute size, but in comparison to me using the combined length of her hand and middle finger as a measure she estimated him to be at least an inch and a half longer and a little thicker which would have made him probably about 8.5-9" in length and 6+" in girth. She said it was usually uncomfortable, sometimes hurt like hell, and they broke off when she developed vaginal bleeding from a cervical erosion she acquired from the cervix battering that resulted from having sex with him. It doesn’t sound as if he was the most considerate lover, and maybe it would have been different if he had been.

I don’t think anyone here can comment on what size is best for, or how big is too big for "most women" inasmuch as no one has come close to screwing them all. But women frequently select smaller ideal sizes than men do.

I have posted this link to a favorite penis size survey limited to women a couple of times, as have others. It appears on a forum that caters to exotic dancers and strippers who might be considered to be pretty "salty" women who have encountered a penis or two: http://forum.st ripperweb.com/s … ead.php?t=42900

Sure, some of them selected sizes of eight inches length or more as their favorite (one in three to be exact) but more selected a length of six inches than did eight, and seven was the clear winner. Other similar polls from more conservative groups of women usually have a somewhat smaller favorite size result.

Haha. Deep down maybe I am a primitive redneck?
Either that or I’m way twisted.

It’s simple. Women’s pussies are as varied as men’s cocks. Apparent height, weight, body, foot, hand size are somewhat indicative of sex organ size but much less than we think.

Beyond that, some women just aren’t that impressed with a big one. Some are.

Answer: It is impossible to tell without ESP. I hate that.

Sex with women is like spelunking(Potholing) an undiscovered cave. You have no idea how big it is until you strap your helmet on and “journey to the center of the earth”.

That’s right, I made a Jules Verne joke.