Hopeless problem.

So, that’s it.

It’s ofcourse good to hear, even if im highly doubt it…. could just your mind fuck your dick up like that?

It could be that it’s still healing but me myself stop the process or maybe halt it.

Or it could be cured but my anxiety keeps the symtomps up? Still believing I have caused a very serious damage, the only hope for me is that it should heal (even if a month have passed) and i can’t se big improvements in anything, or all this is just in my mind.

Yes, the mind is so powerful, it even causes leaders of men to declare war on other countries for no good reason at all. Of course it can play tricks on your dick! So as sparkyx says: “Master your mind, and be a MASTERMIND!”

But all these symptoms could not just appear due to the mind? I jelqed and i noticed that my penis started to get limp, stopped the session and after maybe one minute the penis started a rush and it went limp and lifeless, just after this i couldn’t get my dick up either.

Your initial problem was due to over-training, or being too rough. A genuine physical cause. However after that, I guess the spasms started, and they have been more or less constant because of your state of mind. However, you DID get morning wood back, so your body is trying to conquer your mind. Why don’t you just be a little kinder to yourself, and help your body/mind heal.

I have to put this in my mind until it stays there and give it a try im not life-doomed yet =/, those thoughts I have had for the last days are not human, a problem I have is that I always have those “catastrof thinkings” with permanent damage, destroyed life, life not worth anything, why i did it, why me of all? bla bla bla. I guess those feelings not could be healthy for your mind nor body.

The positive things is that I had a good period during when I were happy, but on some wierd way I fall down in the trap again.
And is it high unlikely to cause permanent damage if your not doing anything extreme, it also were my third time i think. (even if there’s a possibility)

Gotta hope this will disappear!

Try doing a google search on “How to relax”. There are several threads there that might give you help on controlling your panic sessions.

Everyone is giving Maroshk good advice on this matter.

I had a similar situation where I damaged my penis, and afterwards started having nightmares, loss of night-time erections, depression, you name it.

I thought I would never get better, that I would regret it for the rest of my life. Just like you, Maroshk, I thought I was doomed.

It does get better. Take this as an opportunity to change your lifestyle by eating well, exercising and, above all, relaxing. Take the PE slowly.

The penis is such a central organ, the mind is so closely connected with it, that as soon as there is a slight problem your mind has the power to blow it way out of proportion until it gets exponentially worse. But rarely is it actually that bad.

“It’s all in the mind.” (Perhaps the only true statement ever made by a hippie, other than Jimi of course.)

Good luck.

Maroshk, all these feelings you’re experiencing. It’s normal I’d say to be experiencing them, as I went through all those thoughts that are occupying your mind. I was even puking I was so wacked out. But you’ll come to realize you need to just do what you can, and it’s not worth stressing over something you really can’t do anything about but let time heal itself. And take some supplements that promote healing in your penis, simple products you could find in store shelves in your area. But man, life does not revolve around your penis! I maintained a girlfriend the entire time since my injury to the present, I never been able to give her myself at my full potential like I once had. You’ll problem will get better, as I told you previously, we went through the same situation, and I’m getting better and it’s 10 months later since my injury, keep hopeful man. You’re going to the urologist soon as well, get on some viagra/cialis, the blood flow to your penis speeds your healing.

“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

I wonder, does that include syphilis? ;)

But seriously, daysdrag makes good points. Once you start obsessing about your penis, it’s pretty hard to go back, but it’s possible and definitely healthy. This in turn will help it get better.

“Learn to forget.” - Jim Morrison, taken out of context.

I have a good thread on the amino acid theanine, theanine is great for anxiety. Also lemon Balm is good to, not a cure but an aid! Also ginkgo biloba has a mild anti anxiety effect. Green tea is really good for anxiety. Green Tea contains the Amino acid theanine. I will pull it up.

Well i’m trying to live the life, but i can’t im getting anxiety attacks up to 10 times a day, it seems that my whole life resolve around the penis right now. I can’t take this anymore, I was at the doctor today and he gave me some good answers, I got home and was happy for 20 minutes and after that the panic started to take over me again…. I don’t know what to do i’m getting crazy, I have tried to tell myself that this will be alright but it seems that it can’t get in to my mind… oh god what I wish that this wouldn’t happen.. :(

OK. Try this when you have an anxiety attack coming on. Sit with you elbows on a table covering your eyes with the palms of your hadns. in a warm room.
Then force your self to breath in slowly and deeply. then exhale slowly and fully at the same time thinking to yourself relax (like relaaaaaax) Concentrate on the relaxingand put everything else out of your mind. Do this until your anxiety begins to fade.

But you must fully concentrate on relaxing as you breathe out. Don’t let your mind wander to anything else

You CAN do it if you really Try!

Try for a five minute session each time you feel an anxiety attack coming on.

Your Penis will get better You must be the master of your body and not let the anxiety attack take over.

Have faith in yourself.

Syphilis may well cause death. "If not treated, syphilis can cause serious effects such as damage to the heart, aorta, brain, eyes, and bones. In some cases these effects can be fatal." (Wikipedia)

Anyway,

Maroshk, go to Apoteket and buy the CD "Avspänning" - mental relaxation (you can also find it at https://www.veje.nu ). It’s pretty much the same stuff as NLP, and quite effective. But take your time, at least week on each "chapter" of the CD.

You might want to read this about KBT on the net:

and more here http://www.goog le.se/search?hl … %C3%A4tet&meta=

Seems that KBT via the net has about the same successrate as in person, and since KBT actually does help - get to it.