Hiding PE from Girlfriend

I was wondering if anyone else is hiding PE from their gf. I am waiting for her to be like “where did that come from?”

A lot of people do. But it seems to me that it’s better for those couples that have a “OK honey, do your exercises and come right back! ;) ” kind of relationship.

I’m going to presume this is a live in girlfriend?

I recently told my girlfriend about it, not because she noticed anything, but because I wanted to. Her response was similar to “I really like the fact that you try to improve yourself and dont stay stuck at the same level as you were before.”

I told my wife from day one because PE was for penis health.

If your goals for PE are to get bigger then I can’t see why you would want to tell your girlfriend. Unless you live together and would make PE easier.

Most gals, if they find your PE stuff, will freak out and assume some weird, freaky and sick shit is going on. I think a preemptive strike is better.

Like CK said, tell her that you find as you get older that you find you aren’t as hard as you used to be, and you read an article that certain exercises keep the penis strong and healthy. THEN, if she is curious, show her what you are doing. OF course, don’t make it look too sexual, so for example, if you pump, don’t moan like crazy and cum all over your tube…that will make her think you are lying to her! :)

At some point if she notices you are getting bigger, you can say “yeah, I noticed that too, and I kinda of like it, what do you think?”

Some guys have gotten their gals to actually help them with their routines! God, I would love that! Lucky bastards.

That’s easy. Say to her that you like a particular kind of masturbation which is jelqing and squeezing.

:nodding: Sometimes when I’m naked with a chick and she’s anticipating me entering her, I will do a few erect jelqs. She’ll think I’m just masturbating in an odd way, but in reality I just like the look on her face as I plump up even bigger :D

Hmm I don’t know, why not tell her now? And I don’t get the hiding part, if you don’t see her for 6 months or more and she’s like “wow” but for normal and regular relationship with sex, how? The dick can’t grow over night.

I agree with the school of thought that says, “go ahead and tell her.” Most women don’t care THAT much about the size of your unit to start with. But, if they know that you want to improve yourself, and it ultimately will spice up what you already have, it should be all good.

My wife knows, but does not talk about it, and if she sees me stretching or whatever in the shower, she just kind of shakes her head. (she thinks I’m a little weird, but in a good way)

There are a couple of downsides, though:

1) Some members here have gotten, yes, TOO BIG for their spouses (another reason to tell her about it)

2) You better not injure yourself getting over zealous, or else you will pay

AJ’s 2 cents

Same here. And they seems to like such a weirdness, also.

I’m happy many of you have relationships with understanding women. But there is no way I’d ever mention PE to my wife!! She already thinks I’m perverted enough just for being male.:p I’ll just let her enjoy my gains as they come.

Why the hell you revealed her you are a man!

I wouldn’t. I have not told my current girl as well as my last one. I will try not to ever tell any of them.

But I do try to time it out where I finish my PE and she gets over shortly after. I have gotten a few comments like is your dick getting bigger, but I just play it off.

I know that all the complements are for real and not just confident boosting things that nice girls say.

Do as you wish but I would not say anything.

My girlfriend shows interest in what I do and supports it. She loves the size I’m at now, but we give each other 100% in our relationship so we pretty much support each other in everything, no matter what.

Yeah, I’m bragging a little :D