Hiding PE from Girlfriend

I just put this up yesterday Told my gf about PE

I am so much happier she knows about it, for the sole fact that spending time with her doesn’t get in the way. I will say if she wasn’t a girl I was committed to and see a future with, I would hide it. I would never tell a girl about it who I was dating casually, or never saw it going long term.

I think it’s important to be protective, and I understand the fear of her blabbing to people. But once you get to a point that you’re “large”, if the girl says “he works out and it’s still small!” you can ask any of her friends if they’d like to see the proof. She will know the truth, and she’ll be quiet quickly. Besides, if she thinks you’re small already, then she still as the power to say that. If you change what your dick actually IS, then she doesn’t have anything to say. I told her to help my relationship, and because now scheduling is a non-issue, which is definitely was before. It sucks lying in bed next to your girl, knowing you’re losing the gains you’ve made because you can’t PE for 5 days in a row…just like last week.

My ex told her friends about my PE (back when we were still married), but she did it in an interesting way. She said she saw it as no different from a girl doing her kegels and it made sex for the both of us so much better.

I’ve told my current wife I do PE for many reasons, mostly for my benefit. I also somewhat schedule my exercises around our sex life since I seem to be out of commission for sex about 12 hours after I do PE.

As long as the growth doesn’t make sex a chore for her, than I think most women will take it as a kind of compliment.

This was a huge factor in telling my girlfriend about it. There were a lot of nights I would PE, then meet up with her and soon after we would have sex. I noticed if any amount of time passed between PE and sex, I had to get off fast or I would deflate. I explained to her that my dick was getting overworked and that was the cause of my problem, not anything she did “Wrong”. If I had more girth then it may be less of a factor, but no doubt it would influence the sex. I told her it’s probably best if I PE and we have sex right at the end (I’ll be biggest and fullest anyway), and then give him a break to recover.

With my sex drive totally off the charts in comparison to my wife’s, we do the exact opposite. I only PE when she’s not in the mood to fuck. This way, we can both be up front about when a good time for her is. And if it’s not tonight, that’s cool too.

My first wife always felt pressured to have sex with me, and I don’t blame her for resenting me for that. If I knew then what I know now, maybe things would’ve turned out differently.