HELP: why do I lack motivation to persist?

My dick is 5.75” by 4.5”. About average length, but slightly below average girth.

I am 27, and somewhat of a late bloomer. I have only been with one girl (lost my virginity this year), and she absolutely loves my dick. I mean she cums and cums and cums while riding me. The sex is great.

I have always kind of wanted a bigger dick, especially for all those years I was a virgin, but the fact that the sex with this girl is so good, causes me to lose motivation. Plus, jelqing is sort of icky and time consuming.

Help me gain the motivation to jelq/stretch on a regular newbie schedule!

Was your girl a virgin at the time you had your first sex? If no, why don’t you ask her ex’s, and ask whether BIB (Bigger is Better), if yes, then you know what you have to do, giving her more pleasure.

Anyway, you only need 10-15 minutes per day for jelqing.

In my opinion,

if you have lost motivation and have wonderful sex life, it means you no longer need to PE

Well, I have a wonderful sex life with THIS girl. I know in the back of my mind, other girls will want bigger.

I know I could work myself into the state where I truly believe my dick is too small to pleasure a woman and I HAVE to PE. But that invovles an extreme loss of self confidence, so I am not sure I should do that.

Ahhh if only this wasn’t a long term commitment :)

I always had wonderful sex with my girlfriend before PE, absolutely amazing, she loved my dick. When I started PE she was opposed because she thought I would “ruin something that is already so good”. She said size didn’t matter. Well, an inch and a half later she is moaning like never before. The other day I asked her “I thought size didn’t matter?”. She replied “It doesn’t, It’s just really, really nice”. Proof positive that all my effort was worth it.

I guess I would just do a routine that takes a minimum of time and yet would still produce some results. The reason I say this is that I think it’s probable that your girl would start liking things even more, that you would be able to detect this, and that your erections and control from kegeling would also make sex more enjoyable for you too. I think only the slightest positive feedback from your girl as result of PE would instantly give you motivation again.

You obviously haven’t found out that your now ex-girlfriend had cheated on you with multiple people while you were dating for a year and a half. Now THAT is motivation my friend.

You’ll start it again when things settle down.

Isn’t it enough motivation to make your girl the happiest person in the world and when you reach that to even improve that happiness?

Maybe you can`t commit to PE because you do not believe it works?

Anyway, if you are in a happy place, you and your girl have amazing sex and everything is good, why bother with PE? Forget about your penis and just enjoy life! Stop reading at PE forums and occupy your mind with more important matters! Seriously! Sounds to me that you are a happy guy with a great sex life and good self esteem, enjoy life!

You either want it enough to do the work , or you do not .

This applies to everything in life , really .

If you ” kind of want a bigger dick ” , chances are you will never have one .

I want a bigger dick , so I put in my time , and reach my goals , no matter how long it takes .

I enjoy being healthy , so I eat healthy , and exercise daily .

You just have to want it , like Arnold said ” stay hungry ” !

I agree with beaver, if you want the results you have to put in the time, however from your position it seems you don’t need the results because you’re already set so I say why bother.. Now go and have some fun with your gf lol