Help Needed

Hello guys. First of all sorry for my bad english. I put it in newbie thread because I can’t post in other forum. So my concern is that I don’t know if I have to believe girls or studies on penis size. By exemple, I talked with two girls recently and showed them pics of my unit like they

Want to see. One slept with 10guys and the other approximatly 50guys. The two girls told me I was average, not big or well endowed. But I’m close to 8inches NBP and have 6,1inche girth, so what the meaning of all this?? And they were not the first girls who said I’m average.

So wtf?? Why every girl I talked seem to have many bigger than me and not so much tinier than mine. So who to believe?? Girl in real life or penis studies on internet?? If I follow studies, I’m not average at all. What you think about it? Maybe studies no so represent the real life??

Or maybe guys in age of 18-30 got bigger one than the old generation of 50-60?? Because girls I talked about slept with guys in the scale of 18-25years old. Because maybe the size of dick increase from generation to generation? Like in 1930, guys were not as tall than we are right

Now, maybe its the same thing happening with penis? Lol I just put ideas to explain why much girls said I’m average, because I really don’t understand this. It seem to be common to have cock of 9 or 10inches like they said they had many bigger than me. What you think about it?

Did you have girls who said the same thing about size? Like that 8inches is average and 6inches is small?

A pic doesn’t give them a very good perspective. Poking it in their butt would.

In seriousness, the size of your body, the angle of the photo, the quality, light and shadow etc. can all affect their perception. You are way above average.

You expect a girl to say “wow you have a big dick?” when you are showing them pictures and asking? Weird. Firstly pics are crap at showing how big you are, secondly why would they be trying to inflate your ego?

You are above average but if you are expecting to get a girl to say that you’ll either have to Spanish Inquisition her or have a longer term thing and wait for the sly comments.

Some girls are very bad to estimate lenght. Once, I asked a girl to show with her fingers that how long is 20cm. She showed, and it was 16cm max. We PE’rs know better since we measure alot.

There’s one thing I’ve learnt about penis’ and girls is that they wouldn’t have a clue as to what is what even when put in front of them. Unless they measure dicks for a living..

Your well above average, just don’t go looking for attention directly aimed at your wang. You will be let down majority of the tie, especially by women.

Memento You really don’t understand the situation.. Its not : Hey girls wanna see my dick and tell me how nice and big you find it?-_- . And its not about inflate my ego. So I don’t think they will lied just to not ”inflate” my ego. But yeah maybe its because of pic but even in real life

A girl said I was average. Maybe I just met girls who are size queen lol

Maybe you just met girls.

The fact that you are worried about it is the problem.

I’ve been told that I have a little dick and a big one and my NBPEL was 5.5” at the time, so go figure.

i.e.: I was hanging out with an ex-GF and she said, after being with a few guys after me, that I was big. I always felt I was small and then felt bad for the other guys because they were smaller than me. Another ex-GF of mine had told my friend that my dick was small which only fueled my insecurities.

Just like many stories on here I have, and still do, insecurities about my penis size. I have given up a lot of things…talking with beautiful women, playing sports, hanging out at wild parties. I completely avoided situations where there could be a remote possibility of my pants coming off.

You are already bigger than my goal so I find it amazing how society has fucked us up no matter what size we are. A big thanks to TP for helping me with my perspective and giving me a way to build a little more self confidence.

Fizzerald

With those stats you can simply ignore all size discussions and focus on the goal to make them feel your dick - inside them!

I simply can’t imagine a situation where I would show pics of my erect unit to third parties without making a first dick to vagina (or wherever) impression.

A good picture can make your dick huge or small. So unless you decide to have erected pics printed as business cards, which would mean a good investment in a highly professional porn photographer is necessary, I would never ever take a pic for other reasons than PE growth documentation at TP.

Women should measure your dick with their hands, mouths ad other body openings, but not from a picture. It is simply too abstract.

And by the way: 8x6.1 is huge in any statistics, may it be from today or the thirties. Ignore all voices saying 8x6 is the standard - they have no clue or are using porn tape measures and rulers!

DUDE YOU’RE HUGE! Most guys are looking to get to what you are. I don’t have a big unit but I’ve been told I’m nice and thick, you’re thicker!

You have NOTHING to worry about my friend.

I’d like to repeat and add to a few things that have already been said:
Did you include any kind of standard object in the picture that the girls could relate to e.g. A ruler, a phone, your elbow to wrist, an empty toilet roll - or 3 in your case, their own hand.. If not then you’ve seen picture of people pretending to squash the leaning tower of Pisa.. There’s no way that they could tell the scale of your manhood.
How do you know these girls? Are they close friends or total strangers? Either way I think it’s unlikely that girls will be willing to say “wow, yeah, that’s huge” (which by the way it is). They would probably be cautious about how it would effect your relationship with them, as it’s about the most direct thing to do with sex you could possibly talk about! If they say “wow, yeah it’s really big” they may think that they are saying “wow, yeah it’s really big, at some point in the future I want to have sex with you”
We’re very tactile creatures. I’m sure that if they were to feel your penis they would think very differently.

I’m sorry if I my English was too difficult to understand. I get that from my English friends sometimes!

Anyway I wish you all the best, and I wish I had a cock as big as yours ; )

Ciao for now,
Wrangler101

I haven’t read the answers but there is no way you can compare “showing a picture” with “having sex”. No way. If you had sex with them they probably would say you are HUGE, like the biggest they have been with. The least a girl can say about your size is that it is BIG, and that is if she’s by coincidence just sleept with guys with big penises. But showing a pic, come on… It’s like showing a pic of a tiger and asking a person if they are afriad compared to put that person in the same room as a tiger and ask again..

And dude, you are huge.

A woman will fuck with your head given half a chance.

And you gave her a whole one!

Hope you learned your lesson.

She would have done the same thing if you’d shown her a picture of your car.

Thanks you all for your answers. Yeah its seem to be unanimous that pictures are not a good to see the real size, I tought it was. But its true that someone can just zoom in and we don’t really see if its the real size or not. I should like you said, put it in their ass and see if she will

Think I’m average haha, I think it will be fun! But I agree with you, girls can fuck up our head if we listen them. Should listen you guys! Thanks!

@John_J: Really laugh about the tiger thing! Haha good example!

The tiger example is mythic and legendary on first hit, I admit.