HELP me : I'm getting depressed small

Maybe when I’m older and wanting more from a stable relationship .but thanks for the offer anyway

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I completely understand. The offer is always open.

On another note, would you mind working on the punctuation. We are made up of many “English as a second language” members and we enforce spelling and punctuation to make to forums more accessible to them. It doesn’t have to be perfect but do the best you can.

Cheers,,
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Oh we’ll make fun of you but not about dick size thats all.

Sorry if this has been mentioned Normal, but look up some of Zaneblue’s recent posts here ( Zaneblue, which steps to vaginal orgasms? ) on what a WOMAN can do to feel tighter for her man (and improve sex for herself at the same time). The most important thing is to find someone who loves you and that you love. You can work on you, and she can work on herself. I’ve been PE’ing on and off for a couple years, and have improved some (I’m a bit thin like you, and girth has been tough). My girl LOVES my size, but would have loved it before PE too. She also is willing to work on herself (just bought her a Gyneflex) for both of us. She already feels great, but tightening her vaginal muscles and adjusting her diet, will make it even better for both of us. I’ll continue to work on me too, for a little more girth.

It’s all about finding the right girl. I’m engaged to my current girlfriend. She is the one for me. But my last girlfriend was also very kind to me about my size. Both had guys in their pasts who they remembered as thicker than me. On that point, I would STRONGLY advise you to NOT ask her about her past, unless you really need to know. For me, the curiosity is unbearable so I have to know, but that has been a curse for me, when I’ve learned some hurtful truths.

If you find a genuine and kind girl, you might want to say something like this early on: "Let’s agree to not discuss each other’s sexual pasts in detail for now. I’ve got a sensitive soul when it comes to that, and it would be better for me, if we just focus on each other." Someone who really loves you would respect that I think. I’m not one to fire out a lot of advice, so please respect others’ opinions too. Good luck!

Hm, not too sure what the horror at a woman’s having had one-night stands is all about, unless she had them while dating you. If a woman’s not in a relationship and in the mood for cock, what’s the problem? Toys don’t always do the trick. Maybe I’m just not getting something.

Just popping in here to say you are normal, you are average, you will not raise eyebrows. Plenty of guys out there having sex who are your size. If by bad luck you are with a woman who is inexperienced and has only been with a couple larger men she might be surprised, but the odds are firmly on your side.

Women have no idea about how the cock talk hurts men. Most women talk about past penis sizes with innocent conversational interest—in the female mind talking about a past boyfriend with a nine-inch cock is like talking about a past boyfriend with webbed toes, just something freakishly amusing.

Welcome to Normal. We’re glad you’re here.

I’m with you zane, but he’s young and obviously conservative in his belief system. It’s his right. I would think that this attitude would preclude him having many interesting and sexually broadening experiences, but that too is his choice. It sounds like he could have possibly had a nice thing with that girl - even if she was going to move or whatever. Each to their own.

My hope is that he didn’t make her feel judged and slutty because she shared something with him that he found distasteful or undesirable.

RootCap had some good comments for you, Normal. Particularly that she trusted you enough to share that with you, it says a lot about how close she felt she was to you. If someone gives us their trust it seems only polite to honor it and them. Again, each to their own.

True enough. Others have said it too.

Well, young women have no idea. Older ones seem to clue-in at certain point.

At times either sex is guilty of taking a trip down memory lane and getting a far-away look in the eyes, possibly misting over… This is potentially devastating to the current partner. We should all be a little sensitive to this.

All comparisons are cheap.

I don’t completely agree.

I would say that what she’s referencing is a generalized comment. Although I see your point too.

It’s equally true that men and women both will say things to be hurtful or gain power in a relationship, but when this happens it is usually so pointed that it can’t be misinterpreted.

I think her general comment has a lot of truth.

Yes, I think context determines it. Some women get the picture, and especially if she says anything at the same time about your size, she’s out to take you down a peg, but generally women have no clue about how extremely important men’s penis size is to their psyche.

Probably I only knew women which “dimensions count”.

Or at least you thought they did.

Thanks once again :)

Unfortunately I did make her cry and feel judged/like a slut .I did try to make her feel better (I did it in a nice way, I didnt just say “YOUR a SLUT” or anything like that).anyway she doesnt hate me so it’s all ok.

Zaneblue , I don’t think all women are that way (as you said yourself). Those that are not like that are the ones I’m looking for (and those that are, well, ill have none of that, there are plenty of other guys for them)

Thanks for the sex tips Air. :)

Also I’m not Normal now, but my goal is to be normal :)

Thanks for all the help, it really seems like you guys/girl can “read me like a book” , it’s good though, your giving great advice

Thanks :)