Help a N00b

Hey guys,

Long time lurker, long time poster.

I’m wanting to start PE and I want to minimize risk over gains (I’d prefer to live with my small penis than to end up with a damaged one).

Firstly, my stats: NBPEL 5”, EG 4.75”, slight baseball bat (smaller girth at the base), straight but with a slight upward curve.

Secondly, questions about shape:

- I notice that quite a few PEers have curved penises. Was the curvature present before enlargement or develop over the course of enlargement? It seems that a left or right curvature could be caused by damage to one of the Corpus cavernosum (in fact, I believe that this can cause peyronies: the curve comes about because of in-expansible scar tissue formed during the healing process). Could this be caused by dangerous practices, over-enthusiastic jelqing, perhaps? My penis is currently straight (other than an upwards curve that I’ve always had). I don’t want to end up with a misshapen one that ends up curving left to right or ends up looking like a pig’s tail.

- I’d want to minimize any further baseball bat (or get rid of it). It’s not too prominent at the moment, but could get worse if one part of my penis expands at a different rate to the rest. Could jelqing make this worse (as I can’t fully grab the base, jelqing exercises mostly the end of the shaft and the head —> bigger baseball bat).

Consequently, I’m wondering about using a manual stretcher for length (jes extender or similar) and a pump for girth (bathmate, say). I like this idea because provided I don’t use them for too long, they’ll both apply force to my penis is a constant and predicable way: I can’t use either over enthusiastically provided I’m disciplined at the start.

Does anyone use a pump? Are they safe? I’ve heard horror stories about ED and permanently ruined penises. I expect this is a result of pumping too often and with too much pressure. The bathmate advertises itself on the grounds that it develops a more powerful vacuum than most air pumps (it says 0.4 bar on the box) and while it claims to be safe by design, what if I get a faulty model that develops too much pressure? As there’s no pressure gauge, I’d never know. Sounds a bit risky.

Any comments appreciated!

Thanks!

About jelqing: Jelq at 50-70% erection level. High erect jelqing is dangerous.
Grip should not be to tight and not too light. Firegoat said: Imagine taking a honey from a stick with your fingers(OK sign).
Slow strokes are beneficial, at least 3 seconds. Also, you should use heat when exercising.
Jelqing is the best execise in my opinion. You should use it in every routine.
About lubes: Do NOT use soap! I used and I got a dry penis and you don’t want that! You should use vaseline, olive oil, rapeseed oil, baby oil etc.
Good luck!

EDIT:

“like squeezing honey from a smooth stick” That’s the right sentence.
Sorry about my english.

What Kjdeet said. :thumbs:

Try the newbie routine for at least a month before trying anything else. It will condition your penis to do this routine workout and you will probably gain some mass and maybe some surprises too. After you have conditioned your penis it will take more abuse so it will be safer to explore other techniques.

Welcome aboard and good luck! Stay safe man, it is your only dick!

Most of people have curved penises. A 100% straight penis is the exception, not the rule. PE can actually help in reducing the degree of curvature.

Yes there are guys who pump here; we do have a whole pumper’s forum actually.

An extender is not a manual stretcher.

I suggest you start from here
Before You PE: A Penis Inventory

then go ahead reading this
START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info

Take your time reading the more you can before starting any PE activity. Than start either from the newbie routine or from the linear newbie routine.

For a while my penis was taking on a downward curve. Whatever was doing it must have quit because he is straight as an arrow now. The penis changes. Thank God or we would have no control over size.

If you do it the wrong way you can for sure curve or even break your penis. Thats why you can never be to safe and never over do it when you start out. I’ve had a few scares from over working my penis, whether from using the extender or even kegels. Kegels can be painful especially if your just starting out. My first day of doing kegels, an hour later I felt a sharp sting in what I would assume was my PC muscle but was only temporarily thank god! Even when I stopped smoking after a month I never thought I had an erection problem because I’m 22 yrs old but I even got my home doctor to check me out because I thought I had a thrombosed vein or whatever because I had a real good vein on the side of my penis that was just bulging. It was just the cause of a healthy penis and I had nothing to worry about said my doctor. Don’t use google to diagnose yourself because Google although is very useful can also give you nightmares lol. IMO use plenty of lube and never go over board, I thought I’m big n strong n my penis can take it but you want to see results not the opposite, and don’t forget a few rest days. I don’t even jerk it on workout days no more because I don’t feel 100% so I’d rather rest it and bust off cannon loads on my off days :)

Curvature does not equal peyronies disease. Its just curvature.

You said yours is upwardly curved, others are to the side. Peyronies is painful and debilitating and a pretty crazy angle close to 90degrees, usually prevents all sexual function. Also a treatment for it is ADS/ANS devices.! Or surgery.

The penis is actually pretty resilient in my opinion. If you think about trying to do these exercises on any other body part I don’t think it would cope very well. Problems arise when people don’t listen to their body and fail to take things slowly.

I would recommend the newbie routine first. If you want ADS/stretch/pump etc I would rec. Reading my very short logs in my signature. I am in no way perfect but I conditioned for 6 month and am now transitioning into a jelq/pump/stretch/ANS routine.

Injuries will happen if you don’t do it cautiously. And I would recommend getting a pump from a company which has customisable tube sizes (and personally to me the bathmate is more of a toy than proper PE equipment). Get a gauge too as its easy to get carried away.

Also JES is uncomfortable and mine hurts after a little while. I haven’t got one (Yet) but the VacExtender is a modified JES made by people on here and has good reviews. They also make an “AutoExleeve” or similar spelling which I have just purchased with my pump.
There is a lot of knowledge on this forum, read the stuff the experienced guys say and find an opinion you agree with or develop your own based on them.