Hello, I am insecure about my penis

Let me just start off by saying I have never had sex.

I think my penis is in the normal range, but I still don’t believe it. I have an unhealthy relationship with my penis I believe.

On a full erection, my penis has measured 7x 5.5 and around 5.1 at the base.

However, this number is not consistent. It can sometimes measure 6 inches long or even 5.9! I know that that is “average” but it doesn’t look average to me and it worries me.

I can say you have a 7 inch penis and then whip out a 6 or less! But sometimes it IS 7 inches! The girth varies too! Sometimes it cannot fit in a toilet paper roll and sometimes it can.

I think it is about as big around as a banana maybe a little more, just a little. But is that small? That feels pretty big in my hands when I hold the banana but not when I hold my penis.

The thinner base really bothers me. Mid-shaft, when I wrap my hand around it, the fingers touch but I can feel my dick all the way around. But at the base there is space. I have a space base.

I know that I am “normal” but I’m not sure that is good. I mean is a normal man balding? Or fat? Or poor? Yes. So I don’t think a normal penis is good!

Sometimes the middle will be 5.0 and the base will be even thinner!

I think I will make a pro/ con list for my penis for you to see.

PRO:

It’s uniform color.

Has a proportionate head

Is straight

CON:

It is THINNER at the base!

Really tiny when flaccid. Sometimes 4 inches but most of the time it’s 2-3

Does not curve up. Sticks out straight or slightly down when standing up

Loses erection if not being stimulated. (This may just be from not being aroused)

The size varies. Like sometimes as much as an inch.

Also, should I be able to wrap my fingers around my penis?

When I measure, should I measure from the top or the side? Push to the bone or not?

Is a thinner base really as bad as I think? I think it’s because when I jerk off, I have always jerked the middle/ head. I have NEVER jerked the base. Not once. I always jerked off dry and so stroking from base to head was hard so I just touched the middle.

Can I show pics on here? I have some but I’m not sure if I can. They are on tinypic.

I have never tried jelqing, but can that help me? Help my girth?

Thanks and sorry for the huge post.

You can send me pics if you like :) . I’m shooting to get to your size so I’d say you have a great size. I have comparable problems with size variations depending on EQ. You are actually in a good size range, so don’t let it get to you.

Many pornstars are about your size. My penis varies a lot in size too, and it is thinner at the base. You can post pictures of your penis, just start a new thread naming it ‘Dig Bick’ pictures’ or something like that.

Jelqing can help your girth; the newbie routine can help for all your ‘issues’, except the mental side maybe.

You are above average. There are many guys out there, me included, that are on this site to grow there dick to attempt to get to your size so don’t be to conscious of that.

I think the fact that you haven’t had sex could make this weigh on your mind, doubts as to what a girl would like and if she would like it. So two things, you are above average and stop watching porn if you do. Lol. They always have monster cocks on there that does nothing but make guys self conscious lol ;)

I do watch a lot of porn. I think that hurts me. I watch these girls WOWED by a dick they can’t get there hands around and I can wrap mine around just fine. Maybe with a little room left over.

On one hand, I want to get bigger. On the other hand, I don’t want to get pumps or stretchers or anything. Just maybe jelqing.

And I tried putting a banana in my mouth. The banana was 5 round and it was almost uncomfortably big in my mouth. I’m not gay and I haven’t done that before.

Maybe my biggest problem is self distortion or something

Also, thank you for all of the replies

7 x 5.5 is defiantly big, especially the girth. Also condoms would fit more comfortably on your base, i would that as a advantage.

You’re a great size, and it’s porn being your only experience that’s distorting your views of yourself. You may not get many “wow comments” or “gasps” that it’s just soooooooo huge (because life is not like porn), but I’m fairly certain that just about any girl you get with will be more than happy at your size being well above average.

Your flaccid size is also very normal. It’s common to fluctuate wildly. I wouldn’t worry at all about that. Things like fowfers, pumping, and really any of the PE exercises can and do contribute to more consistent flaccid sizes, and sometimes, actual measurable increases. I haven’t really got any “gains” in flaccid size, but my fluctuation in size has been drastically reduced and I’m more likely to be toward my maximum flaccid size more often as a result of different types of PE for around a year.

Losing erections without direct stimulation can be an indicator that you may be losing EQ due to lifestyle, age, or other factors. I know I was starting to experience similar things as I got older, and now, the best result of PE for me has been a return to the great EQ of my younger days.

I’m not sure how old you are, but the deeper you delve into a porn-only lifestyle, the tougher it will be to ever find the motivation to meet new people, experience rejection and the normal ups and downs of relationships, and “deal with” some of the more difficult parts of actual relationships that are wonderful and necessary and a part of real life. Porn is just instant gratification, a never ending parade of variety and sensory circuit overload that never produces any real actual satisfaction or fulfillment, and like a drug, it can become pretty easy to become addicted to it.

So, I’d vote for cutting down on the porn, get out there and meet some women, and put that thing to good use! The women you meet will be happy you did!

I’m 18.

I can get raging boners or hard boners that last. But most of time I am flaccid and I just say “hey I might as well watch some porn since I have some free time”

And I can’t get a full or long lasting erection without constant stimulation.

At the same time, I am not aroused at all.

And yet last night I had to pee so bad. And I had the biggest raging boner in a while.

Oh 18? You can pretty much throw out everything I said. You’ll be just fine. Hell you may even still be growing. You have absolutely nothing to worry about at all.

I am not sure if this is allowed because I don’t think this is actually "porn" but this is what I look like as of now. These pics are me at different stages. None of them are fully flaccid.

Sorry if that is against the rules.

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Start a new thread creatively titled Dig Bick’s Dick Pics or some such. Upload the pictures using the Manage Attachment button below where you are typing. If the pictures are to big use IrfanView - Official Homepage - One of the Most Popular Viewers Worldwide on them.

Firstly, by all standards you are big, or at the very least, bigger-than-average in all respects (length & girth).

Secondly, you are young and impressionable, and pornography has had a seriously negative impact on your sense of self-image. If you continue to allow yourself to think this way, you can develop body dysmorphic disorder, a mentality not much different than an anorexic who thinks she’s fat.

Thirdly, you are still growing, so there is potential that you could become even bigger! But even if you don’t grow anymore from this point on, you are still MORE than adequate in the penis department.

Fourthly, if your concern is wowing chicks, and you somehow fail to, it had nothing to do with your size. Pornography is fiction, so don’t use that as a point of reference. Women want affection, attentiveness, and ample foreplay too! You can’t expect your dick to do all the work for you. If I were you, I’d forgo penis enlargement pursuits and focus more on improving erection quality & consistency as well as stamina in bed…those will go much farther in wowing your partner than gaining another 0.25” here-or-there!

Lastly, while I genuinely love this site and all its rich content, I don’t believe it is healthy for the young & endowed to be scouring through its threads. This forum has an occasional habit of reinforcing body dysmorphic tendencies in those already susceptible to it. This is not a knock on this site at all, it’s a reality. I’ve been a PE Forum enthusiast for many years, and am saying this only out of concern for the youngins. Only when you are older, more experienced, and have developed your critical thinking skills should you revisit this site. That all being said, my personal & sincere advice to you would be to cut back on pornography, pursue a healthy & fit lifestyle (all of which improve erection quality), and focus on matters more pressing in your age-demographic…like school! :)

Good luck, and again, you’re huge buddy!

I think that is your problem. You are supposed to have relationships with people, not your penis.

10 pts for the NES controller :)

My unit varies in size like that.

Are you a crazy person?

Right. Ignore my question above. :rolleyes: I don’t know if this particular kooky is common in the general population; but, it is rather common in these forums.

Doesn’t matter if you are 5"s trying to get to 6, or 8"s trying to get to 9. PE is a form of self improvement, and the guys all help each other out when and where they can. Most normal guys, if they learn of PE, don’t see it as something worth bothering with. By your mind set you are already abby-normal and one of us!

Always measure on the top. For keeping track of your gains push the ruler in until it hits the bone.

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