Hello from a Newbie's Wife

You are awesome for lending your husband support. One of these days when I achieve significant gains I would consider telling my lady all about my involvement at Thundersplace =)

Welcome to the site JAswoman. Don`t worry, PE is perfectly safe as long as YOU help.

Yes welcome, he is very lucky to have someone so supportive and polite.

There are many guys on here that would never dream of telling their SO about PE through fear or embrarrassment, so to see you are supporting your man is a good sign and he is fortunate that you are so understanding.

Although you like him just the way he is, at least he will be able to open up to you far better on the psychological issues of men’s desire to get a bigger dick that torment a lot of guys privately, plus you can keep him in check if he overdoes things (like 10” puimping).

Good luck to you both. :up:

Thanks guys for all your kind words! I really wish more men would open up to their girlfriends/wives. For him to share this with me means a lot I would feel very hurt if I found out years after that he had been hiding something this BIG from me out of embarrassment. Being able to be open and honest about everything has really changed our relationship for the better and made us even closer. I hope every guy here finds the courage to let his SO in on PE, I think you will find a supportive partner in the process. :) While she might not understand the need/want to be bigger she will want to support you.

JAswoman:

JustAverage is a lucky man. Not all men are as confident in sharing about such a personal subject, and not all partners are as supportive as you.

JAswoman -
My wife is in on the deal, she is very supportive, and doesn’t seem to mind the endless attention I give my dick! Having said that, my dick gives her a lot of attention, so it seems like a fair deal. We have both gotten a huge amount from this site, that has nothing to do with PE. If you can be bothered to read this long thread: Does your woman have a vibrator?

you might be surprised :)

JASwoman —

I can understand why you might be concerned about PE and dickie damage— I’ve had more than one woman watch me engage in a little light PE oriented play just for shits and giggles— deep stretching, hand clamping, jelqing—- and they all inevitable freak out that I might hurt myself.

To the uninitiated it can look utterly brutal, particularly if you are a ‘bruiser’ ;)

As to the openness issue— I concur on a lesson I learned far too late.

JASwoman, welcome to the site! Its nice to have a womans perspective on here. Try not to give advice on PE like some of the other female members though…its hard to take it seriously if you haven’t had any experience in PE yourself, enjoy!

Maybe those females do have experience with PE?? I am helping my husband with his Newbie Routine.. I mean, he does need help getting the rice sock warm and placed properly, needs a “proper” massage and definitely needs my help getting to 80% erect, although it is hard to get him to not go to 100%. ;)

:)

Are you trying to make 95,654 guys jealous of your husband? If so, it’s working. :p

Lucky sumbitch ;)

Just curious but what are your husband’s stats that you’re already happy with?

My hubby’s stats (JustAverage) is below.. I did his BPEL and he says it is 6.9 but he is being modest, it was definitely a 7 on.the.dot. :)

BPEL-7
NBPEL is 6.5
EG is 5.5