Hello, a question, and a thankyou
My fiance is on this board somewhere. I’ve joined partly to lend him my support, and partly because he’s said that the guys here sometimes appreciate a woman’s point of view. He talks a lot about this place, his progress with the newbie program, and how supportive everyone here is. I think it’s really helped him a lot to be able to talk to other men who really understand where he’s coming from concerning certain issues. For that, I want to thank all of you for being so supportive and honest and willing to share your own experiences. :)
I’m curious though, and I’ll admit a little worried, about why my SO seems to think he needs to do this in order to “improve” himself. I think he’s perfect just the way he is and he’s the most amazing lover I’ve ever had the privilege of being with (and I’ve said so). I mean, I’m 100% supportive of whatever he feels he needs to do.. But I am a bit afraid that he might hurt himself. How often does that happen, and what sort of harm can come with that sort of injury? Also, I wonder if you could give me some feedback as to what sort of things a girlfriend/wife/lover can do to help/support her SO.