He Was This Big

When was the last time a girl asked you about previous lays that had bigger tits or a nicer ass?

My wife knows for a fact I have been around but any and every time the subject comes up, I know enough to answer that she was my first.
She is fully aware of the bullshit and may even slap me upside the head for being a smartass… but guess what, later that night or the next morning I know I am getting a blowjob that makes my toes curl and my butt cheecks tighten…. if I give any other answer, that is most likely not the case.

On the bright side, you aren’t married and this is a good lesson learned, don’t make the same mistake again down the road.
You can get over this and as has been mentioned, you can work on your self confidence… but unless you have a cuck fetish, this will most likely come up again.

The unique thing about this whole situation tho, BD mentioned it, you are at an amazing size already and maybe… maybe a half inch more length and girth (which is very doable with PE) puts you in that Goldilocks size range… but at the end of the day, can Pandora’s Box be Closed?
Only you can answer that.

Good luck,

Shes lying.

This guy gets it.

The only thing I will add is that she may be naive enough to not realize what’s she is doing here. If that’s the case just suck it up and realize that she’s simply clueless. If on the other hand she’s intentionally messing with you then I suggest you give serious thought to whether this is the type of person you want to be with.

Dude… no offense but you seem VERY insecure! Who cares if she has been with guys with bigger ”snakes”? 13” is insanely rare and it most likely was closer to 8-9. If it is one thing I have learned, it is that women have no clue whatsoever about estimating true size, they
exaggerate.

And what even tells you that 13” is something to strive for? I would think that in most scenarios is worse than an average penis or slightly below for practical reasons. There definitely is something called ”too big” just as it is ”too small”, none are ideal.

Work on your confident first and foremost and penis second, if you believe penis size gain will benefit you in this department, by all means, go get them gains buddy! :-)

In once fucked this pornstar and she told me I was 9 inches and this white guy she fucked on camera was 13 inches. The white gut was 7.5-8 (Chris Strokes) and I was around the same length as far as bp measurement. He was just in great shape. Point is, that broad was a moron and was clueless about real inches. And she’s seen thousands of dicks.

Troll 60%

You exaggerating 35%

Her exaggerating 4.99%

She fucked Jonah Falcon 0.01%

Considering they are less than a 200 men on the Earth (I checked the math and it’s right), I’d say no way. If he was that big and thick, he would have ripped her insides apart and she would be in terrible pain unless she stretched herself out with dildos over many years.

Size Of Your Dick (inches) / Percent Of Population With Smaller Dicks
7 = 91.3276667638%
8 = 99.4963792682%
9 = 99.9923286061%
10 = 99.9999709722%
11 = 99.9999999735%
12 = 99.9999999999942%
13 = 100.0000000000%*

Hope this helps to clarify.

Wait, you’re in Bulgaria? How would she know how big an inch is? She must have meant thirteen centimeters. That is far more believable.

Next time around in bed tell her that you’d once fucked a girl whose tits were like melons and ass kim kardashian’s. In all probability she will not draw comparisons in future. Women are equally insecure when it comes to these stats.

Get over about it, mate.

I asked my girl how big I was in her sight. She said 8,6’. I was 7’ BPEL!!
And she has been with a huge guy, because she said: “If it’s really big than it’s not good at all.”

Just give her the best time in bed. If she’s interested in penis size she’d be with Mandingo. Lol

Don’t think about it. It’s hard I know. Especially when you PEing for bigger size.
Fuck her right. That’s the key.

Work on yourself….be happy with who you are entirely. It’s got nothing to do with what she said but actually how you feel about this.

She didn’t have sex with that guy because of size she had sex because she liked him and now she’s with you and likes or loves you so be happy with that….like I said before do PE for you and no one else.

Sorry if I came across harsh….so many guys come on here going thru the exact same issue and when it happened to me it was because I was insecure and needed to work on myself and my head space.

My ex had a huge penis once and she said it was the worst sexual experience of her life because he was lazy and selfish and it hurt. It didn’t effect me but I was upset with myself for asking and for being an insecure dickhead, it’s not sexy it stinks of insecurity and women hate that!!!!

Why do you need to know? Can I not be happy with the fact the sex is great and I make her orgasm? Why have I let porn mess me up like this?

These are the questions you need to ask yourself.

Totally agreed.

Yesterday I watched a lot of bbc porn, just to see how girls react and enjoy the sex. I usually don’t watch porn with sound, except yesterday.
The girls all try to smile for the huge, I mean really huge dicks bangin them.
There can be girls who enjoy this kind, but they are pornstars. I can imagine how they stretch themselves at home just to be able to take those big horses..:D

So yeah, if you make her orgasm and the sex is great for both of you, then don’t worry.

Reading the replies, they are all helpful and supportive, which is great. I’m also facing this insecurity with my girlfriend, although she didn’t claim something so extreme. Guys say the best way is to be cool and keep the power, and I see that is a good suggestion but it doesn’t take away your insecurity. I am approaching it by making it an open topic. Maybe if I sort it out this time it’ll be gone for good. I’ve explained things to her, and she was surprised to hear that size might be an issue, and is supportive. That helps a lot because I am not holding on to any resentment or hate when I think about her enjoying a massive dong. I’ve also asked her what size she likes, if bigger made her cum more, etc. And the answer I got was that she was cumming the same amount from big and small but if she had to choose, she would go with a bit on the larger side (since it all fits, why not). And finally I asked her to try and pay me compliments and be more expressive about it to boost my confidence.

So overall this is working, in the sense that I’m not obsessing about it as much and can forget about it during sex. But I still have some way to go, hopefully I don’t fall down the rabbit hole.

If your relationship with your girlfriend has great communication, and you are both caring, and you feel that you can show weakness, then consider this way. If not, you’ll have to do it from toughening up! Good luck.