Motivated may have a point here. True I sometimes bash women just in general with no direction toward any particular person, especially if I’m around men who are doing this when no ladies are present, and sometimes I even crack jokes about my EXs, especially the last one I lived with who was certifiably insane. But I don’t recall ever stooping so low as to make fun of any woman’s genitalia. Belittling pussy size to them is hitting below the belt. I think to women, knowing or believing they are “TIGHT” is as important to them as it is to us to believe that we are “BIG” in our women’s eyes. I know saying to a woman that some past lover had a tighter pussy would do as much harm to her as her telling some men her EX had a bigger dick.
Even regarding women I hate, (Which are very few considering the number I’ve been with) I have never made nor would I ever make a comment that their pussy was loose or big, that would just be a cruel thing to do even if it were true, and I HAVE seen some big ones, (No Names.) I guess the reason I draw the line with female bashing there is because I equate the “Cow Pussy” comments with penile belittlement. There are just some things that should not be said, ever because they can never be taken back.
Here is a good example, although a little off topic. In Jacqueline Susan’s book “The Sensuous Woman” she talks about women faking orgasms. There are times when it is most definitely appropriate to do this, but a woman should never, NEVER EVER under any circumstance, no matter how mad she gets with her man, admit to faking it. Because the first time she does, he will never believe her again, even when she does have an authentic orgasm. The same goes with genital size belittlement. Once a careless statement is made, especially if it is made to mutual friends, the damage is unlikely to ever be undone, even if the guy makes his dick bigger.
The only way such a disaster could ever be fixed, would be if the man dramatically increased his size with PE and then exposed himself to set the record straight, so to speak, such as the situation with my dad, or a similar situation where member 8-ball, after his enlargement surgery, says he wants to get with a girl now who belittled him in the past. As immature as it may sound, I honestly believe this might very well be the only way to overcome such situations. I often think that exposing myself to my dad now would be immature, but until I do, nothing will ever change the way he remembers my size, or better yet, the way I remember it.