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Going to Doctor. Need Help

Okay well I finally had made an appointment with my doctor. This is what my problems are:

I haven’t had a full erection in a few months. I have no libido whatsoever, no morning wood, no spontaneous erections. Etc.

What kinds of things should I ask for? Should I get a blood test? What are some things I should talk about? I want to make it a very helpful doctor visit. I don’t do PE, except for a few stretching or jelqing. Nothing to be bothered about, and I haven’t done anything in a few weeks.

I also have noticed that my penis has begun to shrink a little bit.

I am “18.” Way to young for this to be happening to! I do not do drugs. I drink alcohol every once and awhile (every few weekends).

My supplements that I take are:

GNC mega men
Flax Seed Oil
L-Arginine

My sleep is okay, and my diet is iffy. I do exercise occasionally. But even so, I should have somewhat of a libido with these conditions right?

I am so confused. This has been happening for awhile. I also noticed that some days I wake up very depressed and just feel like crying or something.

I don’t know whether I am depressed because I have no libido and I can’t “get it up” or I can’t get it up because I am depressed!

Help!
Thanks


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Good you made an appointment. No erections in months is not normal for your age.

Write down all the symptoms you have before you go in. Make a copy for yourself. Hand one to the doctor. You can go down the list together. This will help him focus on your issues and find out what’s happening. He may or may not suggest a hormone panel. Make sure you discuss the No Libido thing with him. And try to go back in time a bit and figure out what was happening in your life when your libido and erections went all phlooey. That can be good information, too.


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It’s possible that it might be some kind of depression causing it. I had some minor depression a couple of years ago due to a bad relationship and I lost interest in sex and had a hard time getting it up.. Could be something similar. Don’t hold anything back from your doc, just tell him exactly what your feeling and whats going on.

I agree, when I was depressed I lost all interest in sex and couldn’t get it up at age 20.

It’s totally depression dude.


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Originally Posted by avian304
It’s totally depression dude.

I realize this is your opinion, however, unless you are an MD, do not make statements like this without a qualifier in front of it.

I’m very glad the young man made an appointment with his doctor, something is amiss in his body. At 18, he should be spouting wood at the sight of a lovely young lass. It could be depression yes, only a doctor can make that determination. It could be his hormones are out of whack for what ever reason. Let his MD diagnosis what is wrong with him.

tunder05, I wish you the best of luck, listen to Avocet8, make a list, make a copy of said list, go over list with doctor.


sunny A day without sunshine is like a day without laughter :sun:

How often do you masturbate?

I had stopped masturbating for a month and it seems like I stopped getting morning wood and it was harder for me to get up. I don’t know if this happens for anyone, but it happened to me, maybe it’s a similar issue?

Depression is also likely. Like many of the others that responded bad relationships lead to depression and lack of erections. Id also tell the doctor about your current diet, what you do for exercise.

I know you’re young (I am too) and it might be an awkward subject, but consider talking to your dad about it. If the doctor can’t conclude anything it could be part genetics.

So let me update this thread..

I went to the doctor today. He didn’t really say much, ask me any questions, Didn’t really let me speak.. I really think he is useless. Ha-ha. I waited in there for like an hour to see him for less than 10 minutes.

Oh well, I will be getting blood a blood test soon.

But something strange happened. I had gotten 2 fairly normal erections and had sex two times yesterday. However if I try to masturbate it doesn’t work.

I don’t know if it’s depression, maybe it’s just A LOT of stress?
I also have read about “Sexual Exhaustion.” Is there any fact to this at all or no?

I appreciate everyone’s responses.

Originally Posted by tunder05
I also have read about “Sexual Exhaustion.” Is there any fact to this at all or no?
I appreciate everyone’s responses.

Sexual exhaustion… Well every time you orgasm there are slight hormonal changes in your body. Its a perfectly normal response that your body goes through during/after sex. Problems can occur if you are continously abusing your body without giving it any rest to set the hormonal balance right. A messed up hormonal system can have adverse effects on your erections, Libido as such. Generally, this is described as sexual exhaustion, IMO. So if you are randy and spurting your seed all the time like a sex obsessed teenager, you may want to give your system some rest to restore the hormonal balance.


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Originally Posted by godofdeviltry
Sexual exhaustion… Well every time you orgasm there are slight hormonal changes in your body. Its a perfectly normal response that your body goes through during/after sex. Problems can occur if you are continously abusing your body without giving it any rest to set the hormonal balance right. A messed up hormonal system can have adverse effects on your erections, Libido as such. Generally, this is described as sexual exhaustion, IMO. So if you are randy and spurting your seed all the time like a sex obsessed teenager, you may want to give your system some rest to restore the hormonal balance.

Yeah, I’m with you on that. I’m also concerned about the depression. I too have been through that where you just feel like crying for who knows why and my depression was accompanied by a feeling that I would describe as finding out a really hot girl whom you had no business being with anyway is cheating on you kind of feeling. I don’t know about anybody else, but having that feeling kind of puts a buzzkill on sexual thoughts and erection.

Lastly, are you an avid porn watcher. If so, stop. I have a feeling that this next generation of computer porn watchers is going increase the percentile of younger people having erectile disfunction. I rarely watch porn now and only use my imagination or my wife when I want to knock one off. I have frequent erections from only mild stimulation now.


Gut Scramblin' goodness.

Heh Tunder,

For what it’s worth I believe that 99% of sexual issues are psychological.

You need to be in tune with your fantasies and to establish a fantasy world in which you are aroused. This will provide you with your greatest clue to any erectile dysfunction.

Usually when this happens at such an early age sexuality issues are involved.


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Thanks again!

I don’t masturbate anymore. I used to have sex at least once a day. Almost every day. Maybe that could of done it? I took like a week and a half off from my girlfriend and I started to feel better already (we then had sex twice that day) doh! I think when I don’t masturbate my mood definitely improves the next day. I really hope it is just sexual exhaustion or whatever. If not, I will be getting a blood test tomorrow, so I will post updates when they are returned.

To be continued!

I also have problems with my libido. They are a bit different though. When I´m with a girl there´s no problem whatsover. I get rock hard and horney. But during the days when i don´t have a girl I´m totally lacking libido. I never jerk off. I never feel the need to do it. This is very weird and not normal in my eyes. I am not able, for some reason, to get horney without a girl. The fantasies and porn that i trie to arouse myself with doesn´t make me horney. Isn´t that weird?

I am overweight, and I used to have the same problem. I did not see the doctor but I walked 5 miles a day, ate low fat food, and drank a lot of green tea and water. Now I feel better, I guess.

Good thread to bring back b/c I’m going through something similiar, tho not as severe.

I’ve been an avid masturbator my whole life, never had any injuries all through highschool besides maybe some soarness if I hit it too many times in a day.

Ever since I went to college I’ve been experiencing random but rare injuries. A few occasions I had that mushroom effect where your shaft goes skinny and your head stays the same from doing a horse or uli.

Usually backing off for a few days would do the trick. I remember one time that lasted a few weeks though.

4 months ago I had another random injury, where my dick (when flaccid) would get somewhat rigid rather than hanging plump and normal (like if I tried to bend my dick upward it would feel as if I was bending a semi-erect penis instead). For awhile I thought it was effecting my size too, erect as well.

Anyway, I’ve tried once or twice to take a week off. Tried the whole drinking alot of water thing (knew about that before when I was doing ballooning).

My theories are as follows:

A.) PE’ing in the past created scar tissue that’s only kicking in now.

B.) Depression/anxiety from being kicked out of my house after quitting college.

C.) Masturbating too much in adolescence is finally catching up to me; need to take it easy?

Or maybe a combination of any of those 3.

I’m gonna take that advice and write my feelings about all this down before scheduling an appointment with another urologist. For the record I saw one a few months ago and all he said was that, ya, there was some stiffness on the side but other than that it was fine. Prescribe some Vitamin E to prevent Peyronie’s Disease, hot soaks (which I suggested not him), and to take 2 weeks off from touching, masturbating, sex, which I never was able to do.

My libido isn’t nearly as high as it was when I was in highschool, my morning wood is weak. I’ve always dealt with alot of stress b/c my mom’s pretty crazy, but maybe this anxiety is new and different so it’s having a real effect maybe?

All I know is this is only making me more anxious.

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