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Girth insecurity

Originally Posted by BigDanny
When my girlfriend is giving me a blowjob, I always get her to grab the base of my dick and squeeze as hard as she can. It makes the glans blow up like a balloon, and the veins bulge on the sides… feels pretty good to me, and looks great compared to her small hand. When she squeezes really hard, her thumb and middle fingers touch. She knows I like it, and she makes a mean face and acts like shes going to attack my dick with her mouth when she squeezes it.

I’m pretty sure that if she doens’t squeeze, she wont be able to touch the fingertips between index and thumb in your 5.6” MSEG.


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Originally Posted by HalluciNation
I’m about 4.5 inches mid-shaft erect girth, and about 4.4 inches at the base. I’m about 6.5 inches in length. I guess I fall in the average range, and I’ve been told by most of the women I’ve been with that I’m good in bed.but being less than average girth really bothers me!

I have been doing some version of the newbie routine on and off for about 2 years now and have seen only minimal gains.

You’re right, it is mostly in your head. I’m with the others, stop watching so much porn. It isn’t real, it is basically like Disney Movies for men.

I started with similar stats. I had similar results with newbie. I gained length with it, but nothing to speak of in girth.

I added pumping in about 4 months into PE. That’s what I attribute my girth gains to.

Yes they are permanent gains. I am stealth, so at some point I could not pump for many many months. The girth I gained stayed with me.

The way we pump at thunders makes it a very safe and gentle exercise. My routine was 3 sets of 10 minutes at low pressure.

So it might be worth researching the Pumping Forum.

That pumping data is pretty interesting. I have a thought about it that it expands the penis outward and if in this expanded state you jelq or clamp. The tunica is deformed and can lead to some serious girth gains.


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Metas:Longitud: 20 BP Grosor: 15 EG.

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Most of the guys do combine pumping with jelqing in the same workout. I do. The vets do not recommend combining clamping and pumping in the same workout though.

In my case I found better to keep jelqing to a minimum on pumping day. So I will do like 25 between sets, mostly just to massage and move blood around. If I do full blown jelqing on pumping day, EQ suffers and expansion seems to go too quickly. But your mileage may vary.

I always finish off the workout with a good 10 to 15 minutes edging. Good to get blood into the chambers, also a good way to tell if you pumped to long. This is from gprent. If you can’t get a good erection after your workout, that means you need to reduce the time or pressure.

Sta-kool, just curious.what sort of pump are you using?


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Such eloquent responses. I should really work on my writing skills.


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Nothing really much to add other than porn strikes again.

I used to watch loads of porn, though not as much any more. I do look at pics of beautiful women naked though, which I think is a ‘healthier’ visual stimulant. However, even that I keep to a minimum as it can get ‘boring’.

Porn, or rather the ubiquity of pornography on the internet, is creating such depression and unrealistic expectations in men that it can create very real depression. I am sure many of the members here are motivated to do PE at least in part due to the psychological harm that can be caused by porn films. I was convinced for a long while that my dick was never going to satisfy anyone, not unless it transformed into some mutant pussy destroyer of gargantuan proportions.

Moving to the issue of girth, I think that this is more important than length. In my view, if you have an average sized penis length (anywhere from 5 - 7 inches), just focus on the girth. A good ‘big’ girth is anywhere upwards of 5 - 5.5 inches. Should you pass this mark, I feel this is now entering ‘large’ from 5.5-6 inches and should you go over 6 inches, welcome to ‘enormously thick’.

Although the ultimate aspect of one’s penis remains EQ.


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It has been said before and it should be known, the great bundle of nerves in a womans vagina are in the first three or so inches.

Yes, going deep gives a sensation, but spreading those important first three inches is likely far more important.

Just my thoughts on the topic.


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Originally Posted by ivorytower
It has been said before and it should be known, the great bundle of nerves in a womans vagina are in the first three or so inches.
Yes, going deep gives a sensation, but spreading those important first three inches is likely far more important.
Just my thoughts on the topic.

This is pretty much what I think. If you can spread out those nerves, you will give the nerves more contact surface, which can/could increase pleasure for the woman.


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Originally Posted by ivorytower
It has been said before and it should be known, the great bundle of nerves in a womans vagina are in the first three or so inches.
Yes, going deep gives a sensation, but spreading those important first three inches is likely far more important.
Just my thoughts on the topic.

Exactly, girth gives more pleasure, there is no denying that no matter the argument.


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Metas:Longitud: 20 BP Grosor: 15 EG.

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Originally Posted by ivorytower
Sta-kool, just curious.what sort of pump are you using?

The pump I was using is this one: http://www.harborfreight.com/brake-…-kit-92474.html

DU thread about it here: Lap pump = harbor freight tools pump The Harbor Freight Tool pump is about $25.00. Very solid brass pump.

The pump I am using now is this one: $15 electric vacuum pump for anyone! Although if you read through the thread you will see it is good that I had the Harbor Freight pump in order to get the pressure set right. I will also still use the harbor freight pump. I don’t think I would advice the fish tank approach to somebody just starting out.

My first cylinder was this one:

Boston Pump Standard Design Cylinder
http://www.bostonpump.com/index.asp…WPROD&ProdID=12


Last edited by sta-kool : 05-05-2011 at .

Originally Posted by acer1683
Porn, or rather the ubiquity of pornography on the internet, is creating such depression and unrealistic expectations in men that it can create very real depression. I am sure many of the members here are motivated to do PE at least in part due to the psychological harm that can be caused by porn films. I was convinced for a long while that my dick was never going to satisfy anyone, not unless it transformed into some mutant pussy destroyer of gargantuan proportions.

I’ve posted this several times at thunders, but it addresses EXACTLY what you are talking about.

It is a blog post from Daniel Rose, who wrote The Sex God Method.

http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/sex/17…es-size-matter/

<SNIP>

Does size matter? Yes and no, but mostly no.

There’s myths out there that larger cocks provide better physical stimulation (”hit spots that a smaller dick can’t). This simply isn’t true.

Think about the vibrators and dildos that are sold for women to masturbate with. The vast majority of dildos that are sold are between five and six inches, with proportional girth — the size of an average penis. The twelve inch monster cocks are relegated to the joke section.

<SNIP> (HERE IS THE GOOD PART: )

So then, why is penis size such a frequent insecurity among men? The reason is that it is a vicious cycle among guys who don’t get laid very much. Their only sexual outlet is internet porn, which almost always features guys with freakishly large cocks. Seeing that size is the measure of your worth in the porn world, they begin to think that size is the measure of your worth in the real world too. This causes them to become insecure about their merely average sized penis.

When they do have sex with a girl, their insecurities ruin their Immersion. That is, they start to think and worry in bed, instead of just enjoying the experience and being in the moment. This makes them perform poorly in bed.

But, they don’t recognize that the reason why they are performing poorly is because of their insecurities caused by this limiting belief. Instead, they take their sexual failure as evidence that their beliefs about penis size are true.

They then go back and masturbate to porn that stars guys with even bigger dicks, and the vicious cycle continues.

Don’t get caught in this cycle. If you haven’t been performing as well as you’d like in bed, recognize that this is caused by your insecurities, not your penis size.

Now, I recognize that eliminating a deep-set limiting belief like this is not as simple as simply knowing that it isn’t true on a logical level. You have to debunk the limiting belief on a deep, emotional level in order to eliminate its hold on you.

<SNIP>

Originally Posted by WetMayo
This is pretty much what I think. If you can spread out those nerves, you will give the nerves more contact surface, which can/could increase pleasure for the woman.

Good point. Would be nice to give a chick a cul de sac orgasm too, so being well rounded (girth & length) is optimum. But if I could choose for my dick to be large in one way or the other, I’d definitely go with girth.

So basically we all don’t get laid enough. lol. I know I certainly don’t.


Re-Start 3.10.2011 - BPEL: 6.750" EG: 4.5" | Current 7.3.2011 - BPEL: 7.250" EG: 4.625" | Just made my first 1/2"!

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Your responses to my initial posts are incredible. Ares88 and sta-kool, a special thanks to you. You’ve addressed a key component of penis enlargement for me: the psychological. I think re-reading your posts frequently will help me avoid unnecessary negativity.

As far as gaining girth, I am still committed to trying. I am going to start by doing some form of PE every day - even if it’s just five minutes of jelqing during my morning shower. I get good expansion with the sadsak slinky, so when I am able to properly warm up, I’ll throw that in there too. Finally, I bought a pump a year ago and will start putting it to good use, with at least 1 session / week (ideally 3-4).


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Goal: April 1, 2011: MSEG: 4.5" , May 1, 2011: MSEG: 4.7"

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