Getting discouraged (Page 3)

09-08-2008, 11:01 PM

Lord Harris

Nice post Invisible.

09-09-2008, 03:11 AM

mrclyde6051

Originally Posted by thecrow19

I’m so bummed right now. I love her so much but we aren’t working. Jealousy was brought into our relationship early on and I think it’s killing it.
She even hit me the other day over “tv crushes”. She says that I have too many “tv crushes” as in finding people attractive on tv. I’ve never once said that I found anybody attractive or had a “crush” on anyone in real life. But when she asks if I find certain people on tv attractive then I don’t lie. So she asked me if I ever had a crush on a girl in the movie and I said “maybe years ago but not now”. She then told me that she doesn’t know why she’s with me and that she was turned off by me. I got a little upset that she said that. Didn’t say anything to her but she could tell that her saying those things bothered me. Then a fight ensued where she said that what she needs from me is to comfort her over stuff like that. But she insulted ME and if I have to comfort her over that. Then probably anytime that I find someone attractive on tv I’m going to have to comfort her. It just seemed ridiculous to me. She finds people attractive too. So I told her that and she got so mad that she hit me. Her jealousy just seems retarded to me. Maybe I’m wrong here.
I’m so bummed right now. The thoughts of hooking up with someone new is scary. I couldn’t get a good erection for about 2 months based on size insecurity with her. I don’t want to go through that again.

My guess is your girlfriend wanted to hear you say that you thought that she’s attractive. Your post indicates that you love her; I hope she knows it.

09-09-2008, 08:49 AM

Mdrg

Originally Posted by thecrow19

I’m so bummed right now. I love her so much but we aren’t working. Jealousy was brought into our relationship early on and I think it’s killing it.
She even hit me the other day over “tv crushes”. She says that I have too many “tv crushes” as in finding people attractive on tv. I’ve never once said that I found anybody attractive or had a “crush” on anyone in real life. But when she asks if I find certain people on tv attractive then I don’t lie. So she asked me if I ever had a crush on a girl in the movie and I said “maybe years ago but not now”. She then told me that she doesn’t know why she’s with me and that she was turned off by me. I got a little upset that she said that. Didn’t say anything to her but she could tell that her saying those things bothered me. Then a fight ensued where she said that what she needs from me is to comfort her over stuff like that. But she insulted ME and if I have to comfort her over that. Then probably anytime that I find someone attractive on tv I’m going to have to comfort her. It just seemed ridiculous to me. She finds people attractive too. So I told her that and she got so mad that she hit me. Her jealousy just seems retarded to me. Maybe I’m wrong here.
I’m so bummed right now. The thoughts of hooking up with someone new is scary. I couldn’t get a good erection for about 2 months based on size insecurity with her. I don’t want to go through that again.

Look, dude, this isn’t about your penis size!
Your problem is not a small penis, your size is fine. Your problem is your mentality, which is all fucked up.
You mentality causes your insecurities, your inability to hold an erection, everything! Come on, just think about it, are you going to ruin your relationships and your life just because your dick and some stupid argument about tv crushes? What the hell?
Get a grip on yourself, man! You’ve got more than a lot of people will ever get in life. So yeah, you’d want and inch more in length, that’s what PE is for. PE is NOT for making you live your life by the penis.
Now, about the girl, if you think you love her and want another chance with her, just sit and talk to her, like a grown-up, listen carefully to what shes says, say what you have to say, and work together to find a solution to your problems. If you really think it’s over and you can’t work it out, go find another girl. Many fish in the sea, as they say. Start hanging around in places, flirt, wear your best shirt, and so on.
What I’m saying is, you have no problem with your penis, so just go out there, lift your chin, and face your problems like a man.

And good luck with it, too, we’re always here for support :-)

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