That would be an overhand grip. Makes it easy to jelq downward and straight out. This grip lends itself to keeping pressure off of the dorsal nerve, and it’s fairly easy to go light on the CS as well. I find my CS tolerates much less pressure than the CCs do.
Just tried this in the shower and it didn’t feel like I was jelqing at all (I did the upside down you grip; thumb on right side of penis, index and middle finger on left side, jelqing towards glans). I didn’t see any expansion in my glans.
I usually do an overlapped ok grip (my erect girth is abysmal) with the palm of my hand facing my fat pad, is this good enough?
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