First time for everything

A whole lot of women do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse unless one partner is stimulating the women’s clitoris manually or with a vibrator. In my experience about half of the female partners I have had have been able to at least with some frequency. If you look around the internet, you will find surveys of women that suggest that anywhere from 50 to 80% of women don’t orgasm from vaginal intercourse (or rarely do), depending on the survey.

But all the women I have been with who weren’t able to come from vaginal penetration only still enjoyed it. I have a difficult time reaching orgasm from getting sucked off, but I still love it.

I’ve been married a long time, but before marriage I was about 7 inches long and there were a couple of girls that had discomfort from me ramming their cervix, so 7 1/2 inches could certainly be too long for some.

And I agree, for those women who did regularly have orgasm from vaginal intercourse only, a key was maintaining firm pelvic contact with their clitoris with a lot of rocking and grinding motion.

Like what one of these guys on here, in order for a woman to achieve an orgasm, there has to be someone of an attachment to the man. It’s ALL emotional with chicks. It’s kind of annoying, but what are you going to do about it. I remember the first time I got my girl off vaginally, it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. How long have you been going out?

That is so funny :mutley:

I tried keeping contact with the clit while having sex but nothing..

We’ve been going out for three months now and been exclusive for about two months. We had sex a few time and one time we had an all-nighter (at that time I did not know about her orgasm deal). I thought I was laying it down.
Anyway, two days ago I go down on her with intention and she orgasms from that. After that, when have sex and then she tells me that she can’t cum from penetration. That’s why I posted the thread, it made no sense. And today she tells me her cherry never popped.

Like I said, a lot of women are just not going to orgasm from vaginal intercourse regardless of penis size. Those women whose clits are a further distance from their vaginal entrance will be less likely to.

My wife of more than 25 years consistently orgasms from oral sex, but rarely does from intercourse. When she does, it takes both of us by surprise and we don’t have any clue as to why she came that particular time or why she didn’t the other 500 times we did it in exactly the same way. And she says I’m the only man she ever had orgasms with that way, despite having had at least 2 dozen other partners before we married, at least one of whom was considerably larger than me.

If you want your girlfriend to come from vaginal sex, either you or she may have to manually provide some clitoral stimulation. Cowgirl position is good if she is willing to stimulate herself. Doggy style usually allows either of you to do so. This is something some women are bashful about doing in front of their partner initially, so you might have to build up to it.

As for not having her cherry popped, some women don’t have much of a hymen so they may not feel anything giving way with initial intercourse, but I don’t think that has anything to do with her ability to orgasm from vaginal sex, or not.

And if she doesn’t come from vaginal sex but does from oral, so what? It doesn’t mean she won’t still enjoy being penetrated.

Fareah,

Agree with Redbear52.

“I tried keeping contact with the clitoris while having sex but nothing..” All I can say is keep trying. Three months of contact/dating is not a lot of time to get to know and trust someone at least for women. Give her more time. Like has been said before, women are emotional creatures and need that connection. And even after that she may never cum through vaginal intercourse. Some women never cum via vaginal intercourse. :( Again there is nothing wrong with you or her. This is very normal for many women.

“And today she tells me her cherry never popped.” I really question this statement. If she has had a 9x6 from you, it has been popped! She may not know some things about the mechanics of “popping a cherry,” or in medical terms breaking the vaginal hymen. Again no two women are the same in this area either. I also agree with Redbear on this, it has nothing to do with a vaginal orgasm.

The “cherry” or medical term “hymen” (a thin mucous membrane that completely or partially covers the opening of the vagina) may not exist in some women and can be broken completely or partially before they are ever sexually active with a man. If it exists and is broken it can cause some bleeding in some women. It can be broken during vigorous sports/physical activity, but I think it most likely, now days if a girl ever uses a tampon she unknowingly breaks the hymen when inserting the tampon into their vagina during their periods. There is already blood present, so they don’t notice the little additional blood or possible discomfort from breaking the hymen because they are already cramping, etc.

Bottom line: For practical purposes her “cherry was popped” the first time she had sex with a man and she was no longer a virgin.

Take care and good luck.

Thanks fellas, I will keep trying.