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Feeling Suicidal

I tried PE on and off for 4 years. I finally stuck to a routine after my divorce. During that time I did a lot of self help to build confidence.

I’m lucky to be a fast gainer but it only happened after really sticking to it. Started out at a barely hard 5 with 4.5 girth.

I stuck to it and am close to hitting 7

Don’t be a quitter, work on all of you all the time. Escape the negativity

Originally Posted by oMefs
Don’t beat your self over it, I mean I feel the same way because I’m Hispanic and black. Though I am bigger than the average I still feel that I’m not big enough but that’s ok, there’s always room for improvement. The main thing to remember is consistency.

That’s why there’s no significant gains

Just have confidence in yourself.

I always stopped because I would get a slight injury from the tiniest things and was forced to take long deconditioning breaks. It seems like even the mildest stretches or jelqs would screw up my dick (I always did manual exercises) and lead to horrible turtling or hard flaccid. That’s the other part of this I probably should have mentioned— it would almost be worth it if I never gained an inch but I got raging hard erections on cue. The fact that it’s small AND dysfunctional makes it as if I might as well not even have a dick.

I’m going to spin up the newbie routine for literally the 4th or 5th time— I must say I’m tremendously discouraged that it will result in anything that’s life transforming, but I will try to give it a fair 3 month shot.

I don’t know where I’ll land if nothing comes of that….

Just start off easy and add more every two to three weeks. If you’re getting injuries it’s probably because you’re doing something wrong. I’m sure if you explained exactly what and how you did it, one of the vets here could easily help you correct that and you’re set :)

The best advice I have is working towards centering your life around something bigger than your penis. I know that’s what helped me when I felt the same way you do now.

Yes it’s all I your head the same way it was mine. I learned over time that my penis is truly the smallest part of who I am. It took developing relationships with safe people. These people love me just as I’m am.

There’s nothing like the spiral of feeling like your not enough. I understand, I really do. It impacted my ability to have a decent erection. Then I found this place and acceptance.

I hope you listen and understand that your life is so much bigger than a dick.


Started 7.75x5.75

Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread

Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!

Originally Posted by Titleist
The best advice I have is working towards centering your life around something bigger than your penis. I know that’s what helped me when I felt the same way you do now.

Yes it’s all I your head the same way it was mine. I learned over time that my penis is truly the smallest part of who I am. It took developing relationships with safe people. These people love me just as I’m am.

There’s nothing like the spiral of feeling like your not enough. I understand, I really do. It impacted my ability to have a decent erection. Then I found this place and acceptance.

I hope you listen and understand that your life is so much bigger than a dick.

Titleist, I would say you qualify for the category I discussed about legitimate “all-in-your-head” candidates. Frankly, your starting stats already exceed my long term end goal for PE (7.5x5.5), so no offense but I have a hard time believing you really understand. If any cold-hearted woman ever made any dehumanizing comments to you, I’m confident that you were able to gather enough evidence to the contrary to conclude that she was in fact just being cold-hearted. For me, I get burned EVERY TIME. There’s only so much pep-talking one can do before the burns leave permanent scarring, and so between that and comparing my stats with the scientific reports, and concluding that most men on the planet actually do have a larger dick than I, I have to accept there’s something to the comments.

The saddest part is I really WANT to believe my life is so much more than a dick. I’ve been getting the rest of my life together pretty decently actually, but that’s what keeps coming back to tear it all down. From what I understand, girls like them large, but generally don’t care otherwise unless it’s really tiny, which is basically a dealbreaker. I’M REALLY TINY.

I think you missed the point. If someone my starting size can be made to feel like less than a man, anyone can. That’s where the mental part comes in. I remember feeling insignificant by the comments my ex wife made. It took a long time for me to realize I could be comfortable in my own skin. I know it’s something you can do as well.

We are sexual beings, but we aren’t having sex 24/7. There’s so much more to like than your penis.


Started 7.75x5.75

Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread

Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!

Consider getting dermal graft (not silicon) implant surgery if it will make your life better and keep working on your PE.

Originally Posted by Titleist

There’s nothing like the spiral of feeling like your not enough. I understand, I really do. It impacted my ability to have a decent erection. Then I found this place and acceptance.

I’ve been there before I know that all too well. Sometimes, it’s the innocent, off the wall random comments that push us into the spiral.

My help comes from professional therapy. I’d definitely recommend it.


4/16 BPEL 7.2 MSEG 6.0

1/17 BPEL 7.75 MSEG ~6.2 BEG 6.75

Size anxiety is the mere response to viewing other males as a threat and the corresponding jealousy it causes. Realize that your feelings are a response to a perceived threat and the anxiety will disappear. My log: Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

Don't give up

You definitely have more going for you than you give yourself credit for. You’re well spoken and express yourself clearly. You’ve got enough swagger and good looks for women to approach you and/or accept your advances which is, in my opinion, a lot more difficult to address than increasing your penis size; having a big dick isn’t very useful if you’re not using it.

You never said your size, but in the month I’ve been doing PE, I’ve had flaccid gains.
.25 BPFL
.50 FG

I’m incredibly happy with my gains, and I have a much taller mountain to climb than a lot of men on here who are just looking to pad their already impressive endowments.

My NBPFL stuck straight out like a tight spring at 2.75 inches most of the time. Now - only one month in - it’s much looser and relaxed and hangs the majority of the time between 3.00 and 4.00 inches. My flaccid girth was fine, in regards to proportions - starting at about 3.50 - but I’ve already increased to 4.00. Obviously my newbie gains will slow, but it’s very encouraging. My NBPEL and girth haven’t budged, sitting stubbornly at an even 4.50. But I’m patient and optimistic. It’ll grow. Really surprise me and say you’re smaller than me.

Someone who lives their life by stereotypes is willingly ignorant and not someone who should take up a significant space in your life. We all have them and come in contact with them in our daily lives but it’s up to us as to how much credence we give them.

Consistency, small goals, and long-term vision is my mindset. Keep your head up, man.

There is more to life

My friend,

You are not defined by your dick. Every single person on earth has value and that includes you! We are all imperfect, we all have strengths and weaknesses! Just like me and everyone else on here, there are guys that are bigger and guys that are smaller, so what! If women put that much importance on on cock size, every woman on earth would be taken by the 1% of dudes packing an 11+” unit.

Women want security above all else! A fat dick does not make them feel secure!

Man please reconsider the suicide talk, you are a valuable human being and your less than average dick will only ensure that the woman you do find (and you will) loves you deeply and unconditionally.

Hang in there brother.

Peace.

Originally Posted by Sober_woder
If women put that much importance on on cock size, every woman on earth would be taken by the 1% of dudes packing an 11+” unit.

*0.01%


4/16 BPEL 7.2 MSEG 6.0

1/17 BPEL 7.75 MSEG ~6.2 BEG 6.75

Size anxiety is the mere response to viewing other males as a threat and the corresponding jealousy it causes. Realize that your feelings are a response to a perceived threat and the anxiety will disappear. My log: Big Booty Extravaganza (and Log)

If you are so fragile that you are unwilling to post stats anonymously online because fear of getting mocked you have much bigger problems then your penis.

My advice is to focus on improving your entire life. Eat better, exercise more, go to church, take a class or join a club.

Start a noob routine but do not try what has already been tried with out good results. Modify it and approach very seriously and with caution.

Lastly maybe consider hiring a coach.

I sorta feel your pain, but I know I’m different. But I can honestly say that I would never what you have initially posted I’ve had a tremendous life change and I’m pushing on. I have had to learn new ways, nothing is easy in life. I know I’m not you but if I can keep pushing ihave faith you will over come this. There are many helpful members here who do care and try to help as best as they can, I’m thankful for everyone of them who replied to me. Having positive people around helped me I hope it will help with you.

You need to try and learn how your body works.
Lately I was getting overtraining symptoms all the time.
What I have decided to do is to give more time to my body to heal. I am doing an 1on, 1off routine days. For now (1 week) I think it’s better. I hope to see some gains in the long run also…

So what I would suggest you to do, is start from doing 1on 2off days routine. If after 1-2 weeks you don’t have any problems go on 1on 1off.

Also you should do some health exams. If you don’t have good enough erections this could be from some minor health issue like high cholisterol.
Try to eat healthier also. And workout…

And stop watching too much porn if you are doing that. It does damage your libido…


Starting messurements: 6.0 BPEL , 4.80 MEG ---- June/15

Milestone :7.1 BPEL , 4,85 MEG ---- June/16

Goal (Maybe??): 8.0 BPEL , 5.5 MEG

I personally haven’t had sex in a little over 3 years, and it was with an ex where the sex wasn’t good. It’s been way longer than that that I’ve had good sex. And it’s probably been even longer than that that I’ve had an actual girlfriend, this is coming from a guy with a 7.25-7.5” BPEL.

Yeah it sucks not getting laid, or hell, just touching a boob, haven’t done that in forever. Or just being touched by a woman for that matter as well. But being bald, unattractive, having to wear glasses really makes it hard to even have a woman notice me, but despite all that, I still go on living, never contemplating suicide. I’m to the point that I’m even considering paying for sex, just to be able to remember what pleasure feels like again, and the touch and scent of a woman.

My life sucks, but I couldn’t imagine the pain I’d bring to my family, especially since I am an identical twin. And considering I almost lost him once to an accident, actually losing him would have been devastating, so him losing me would probably be the same, and same goes for the rest of the family. So just because things aren’t going your way, remember, there are people out there going through much worse times.

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