Ex GF could never feel anything. Long Read. Appreciate any insight.
Here we go..
My size insecurities all started a couple years ago when I took my now ex-gf’s virginity, I was also a virgin. After putting on the condom and putting it in, she said “is it in yet” .. All I could think is.. WTF How could she not feel anything?
After this, we continued to have sex for years until our eventual break up (not sex related) — we tried all positions, and the only one where she would feel anything is her on her stomach, ass arched from behind where I could penetrate the deepest, but still, she would barely get anything from it. This didn’t interfere much with our sex life because she was easily stimulated with her clit, which would result in easy multiple orgasms if I would stimulate it while fcking her.
But I never understood why she didn’t receive any pleasure from penetration alone. I remember quite clearly I insisted we try her on top and she became frustrated and said “ugh why don’t I feel anything?” Quite the ego downer.
Faster forward to being single, my confidence sexually is out the window. It’s been months and have not slept with a woman since her, although I’ve had the opportunity to sleep with a new woman at least 15 times. After foreplay I would say I’m too drunk to fuck or something along those lines. Pathetic, but I just can’t fathom having another female “not being able to feel me.”
So here’s the kicker, I am NBEL 6.75” Length, 5” -5.1” Girth .. BPEL 7” .. Straight out with a Downward curve like a banana
I always thought her lack of feeling anything was my size, which led me to Thunder’s, but after researching it seems I’m average or even above? How could she not have any pleasure?
Maybe it is my size and she is just a size queen? But you’d think she’d still feel something being she was a virgin.
The only other explanation I can come up with is there wasn’t enough friction because she was so wet. She was very sexually inclined, definitely the wettest girl I’ve ever done anything sexual with. Could this really be the cause? I need to know an answer so I can finally get enough confidence to know I can actually pleasure a woman with penetration. It’s ruining my life.
Does anyone have an explanation?