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Edging 101

Originally Posted by tuslack
Hello all,

I do have a relevant comment, but first I would like to say that I am ecstatic about finding and joining this group. So much so, that I have literally spent the last three days scouring the threads, and I’m beginning to suffer from Info overload. I have had some form of ED for the past three or four years. I can blame it on a number of factors, ( I’m 45, overweight, an alcoholic, recently divorced, depressed, unemployed, etc.). Other than the occasional quick, semi erect tug in the shower, I haven’t had sex (with a partner) in over three years. My point is, that I am finally ready to turn my life around and pursue mental, physical and sexual health, and I am truly grateful for this forum, and for all of you.

Now for relevance. Many years ago, before I knew what “edging” was, I read an article about prolonging the orgasm and delaying ejaculation. The article stated that by squeezing the base of the penis at or during the PONR, You could alleviate the sensation and stop ejaculation. I had always been a Premie, so I tried it a few times. It worked, for the most part, but I could never control myself long enough to see any progress. I would always push too far; I never found the right timing.

Also, in the article, it stated that you could prolong the orgasm by performing a kegel at the PONR and holding it for as long as you could before losing control. And by slowly inhaling and expanding the chest during the process, you could internalize and intensify the experience. This I practiced, allot. Through trial and error, I found that, if I didn’t hold it long enough, or held it for too long, the sensation was not as intense. When I did it just right, my orgasms and ejaculations were mind blowing. I never timed it, but I would say for me, the magic number was about fifteen seconds. I’ve done this for so long that it is automatic, I don’t even think about it. So, to kegel or not to kegel. Some say yes, some say no. For me, kegeling is an integral part of the orgasm. If I did it at or near the PONR, then I would be “over the edge”.

Thanks to Kingpole, and the rest of you, I am excited about adding edging to my newbie routine. Now, If I can just get over the guilt about playing with my Peter all day, I’ll be well on my way..

Tuslack

Why would you feel guilty? The penis is the shaft of life. The worlds entire population would not be if it were not for the shaft of life.


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I have really big hands and my penis isn’t that big so I can’t really masturbate only the base of my penis any recomendations? Also sometimes when I reach the point of no return and stop some semen leaks out does this mean I am stopping later than I should be?

Originally Posted by aboveaverage91
I have really big hands and my penis isn’t that big so I can’t really masturbate only the base of my penis any recomendations? Also sometimes when I reach the point of no return and stop some semen leaks out does this mean I am stopping later than I should be?

Try using the tips of your fingers more. A little semen leaking out is ok.


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Originally Posted by aboveaverage91
I have really big hands and my penis isn’t that big so I can’t really masturbate only the base of my penis any recomendations? Also sometimes when I reach the point of no return and stop some semen leaks out does this mean I am stopping later than I should be?

As kingpole said, use the tips of your fingers, it prolongs the entire experience for me.

That also happens to me, I stop, and then some semen leaks out, about half of a normal load. This I found for me, means I went too far and it seems like it’s a half orgasim if such a thing exsist. Really it depends on how much leaks out in my opinion.


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I think as long as you stop most of the load then it is fine - you will get better and you will lose less and less. Squeeze just under the glans, push your penis between your legs and squeeze a huge kegel to keep it all from erupting :P


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Originally Posted by tuslack
Thanks to Kingpole, and the rest of you, I am excited about adding edging to my newbie routine. Now, If I can just get over the guilt about playing with my Peter all day, I’ll be well on my way.

Ok, for someone who was a tad skeptical about edging, I’ve been giving it a more serious go and have found that my libido has gone through the roof. Worse, sometimes I just cannot keep my hands off my dick. Yesterday, I found myself sitting as a passenger in someone else’s car and surreptitiously stroking my semi erect dick — something I never would have done before — and trying to carry on a rational conversation with the driver, pretending my focus was on him and our discussion. Little did he know.

More than that, my dick seems to be constantly fuller when flaccid than ever before and, maybe, bigger when erect (I have not measured it lately). It’s like it’s saying to me, Hey Bud, pay attention here; I need some activity.” I just hope I don’t get caught by anyone. Oh shit!! I just can’t keep my mind off my Willie and, if I get a chance, hands as well.

I think I now understand why ejaculation is not good for rapid PE gains. I’m going to buy a fleshlight early in the New Year. That’ll test my metal, eh?

You sit next to someone you are not attracted to in a car and pleasure yourself? Damn man, get a room, lol j/k. ;)

Edging is a big test, it does make you more eager for sex. It also allows for some monster ULI’s :D


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How is edging a form of p.e? Could someone explain to me

Edging doesn’t directly make your erect length and girth permanently bigger, but it allows your penis to become FULLY engorged with blood a hell of a lot easier. This aids with ULI’s as you are able to keep erect for much longer.

I suppose edging is an automatic ULI, it pushes your penis to the limit and keeps it there until you become flaccid again.

This isn’t scientific, just a passing opinion.


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Originally Posted by Herballist
Edging doesn’t directly make your erect length and girth permanently bigger, but it allows your penis to become FULLY engorged with blood a hell of a lot easier. This aids with ULI’s as you are able to keep erect for much longer.

I suppose edging is an automatic ULI, it pushes your penis to the limit and keeps it there until you become flaccid again. This isn’t scientific, just a passing opinion.

Yes, Ulis only require one hand that really does not move much at all, except for a rest every 30 or 40 seconds (change hands). That means the other hand is free to stroke my Willy and do a kegel with each one — I stoke slowly, once each two or three seconds from base to head and do a kegel with each stroke; it means my dick is fully engorged (read rock hard) for the whole 30 minute session apart from when I change hands, even though my mind might wander sometimes. It also means I hang like a horse when I’m done and I probably have more of a donut than might otherwise be the case. The hardest thing for me is tired hands — but I’m gaining in strength and stamina there so it is not such a problem now.

I used to have problems with my PE grip. I wrapped my “ok” grip round a tennis ball and squeezed the crap out of it for 10 seconds about ten times a day. Now I have a relentless PE grip. Give it a try :D

n.b. It won’t look like an “ok” grip with a tennis ball because it is so big, lol.

If you have small hands then use a smaller ball (preferably a ball that isn’t rock solid, you want it to deflate so you don’t damage your fingers)


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“Through trial and error, I found that, if I didn’t hold it long enough, or held it for too long, the sensation was not as intense. When I did it just right, my orgasms and ejaculations were mind blowing. I never timed it, but I would say for me, the magic number was about fifteen seconds. I’ve done this for so long that it is automatic, I don’t even think about it.”

This makes a lot of sense because when I edge I don’t always have these mind blowing orgasms that people talk about and I would think maybe it just wasn’t for me. It didn’t really occur that maybe I wasn’t doing it right. Looking back I would say that I would just slightly exceed the ponr giving myself the impression that I could continue to prolong the session even thoe my time was up and so I would be trying to hold in my orgasm so to speak while it was coming whether I wanted it to or not which probably took away from the intensity. Does this make sense to anyone else?

Ok sooo ever since I started having sex I’ve had some problems with premature ejaculation. Some times I would come really fast sometimes I would go forever some times it would be in the middle. But recently with this new girl I’ve been coming super fast like today I came 3 times each within maybe a minute or so and then one last time after taking a shower and feeling like a chump that lasted maybe 3 minutes tops it was so embarrassing (idk what I would have done if I didn’t have a super short refractory period). The thing is though that I’m able to edge for half an hour or more before blowing my load so why can’t I last at all inside this girl. I tried everything to slow breathing slow pace staying inside her and not moving it’s just she’s so tight and wonderful on the inside that sensation doesn’t stop and is just barely slowed. Basically my question is, does edging really help make you last longer in the sense that you can have continuous sex and take longer to reach the ponr or is it just to help you be able to prolong sex with the start stop method which just doesn’t cut it anymore for me. I ask this question because maybe I’m not doing right and if I am I hope to find a new better method capable of meeting my needs. Some back round info to help in responses I’m 18 I have good erection quality I am over weight but very active I just eat to much, I was not nervous, I’m not stressed, I did jelq the night before and, I did edge 2 days prior, I didn’t eat that entire day up till having intercourse, we have had sex before and this did happen the first time but I figured it was so unexpected I figured I was just overly excited. Any sort of help is very much appreciated sorry for the length I’m just really upset about this, she really likes me and I don’t want this to ruin anything between us, and I can’t just keep having sex for 60 seconds and then eating her out to make up for it : /

Originally Posted by aboveaverage91
… . it’s just she’s so tight and wonderful on the inside that sensation doesn’t stop and is just barely slowed. Basically my question is, does edging really help make you last longer in the sense that you can have continuous sex and take longer to reach the ponr …


Wanking is not the same as having sex with a person who really turns you on. You can edge ‘til the cows come home sometimes, but when having sex with your GF, you are soooooo turned on by what’s happening that you cum very fast. That’s normal. Edging does help VERY much. It teaches you control that you wouldn’t otherwise have. Don’t give it up. You’ll get better with your GF, but have to be patient. Believe me, you’ll be MUCH worse off without it. Well that’s my thoughts anyway.

And that’s the danger with porn. You can end up being so turned on by it that you can end up not being able to have good sex without it. It’s all about conditioning. Your mind is conditioned to have good sex with a GF. That’s good. Build on that.

Just work on edging for as long as possible, squeezing your BC muscle and holding just under the glans until you feel the urge to ejaculate subside. After edging, don’t finish with ejaculation. This will train you to hold back your orgasm.


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