I do have a relevant comment, but first I would like to say that I am ecstatic about finding and joining this group. So much so, that I have literally spent the last three days scouring the threads, and I’m beginning to suffer from Info overload. I have had some form of ED for the past three or four years. I can blame it on a number of factors, ( I’m 45, overweight, an alcoholic, recently divorced, depressed, unemployed, etc.). Other than the occasional quick, semi erect tug in the shower, I haven’t had sex (with a partner) in over three years. My point is, that I am finally ready to turn my life around and pursue mental, physical and sexual health, and I am truly grateful for this forum, and for all of you.
Now for relevance. Many years ago, before I knew what “edging” was, I read an article about prolonging the orgasm and delaying ejaculation. The article stated that by squeezing the base of the penis at or during the PONR, You could alleviate the sensation and stop ejaculation. I had always been a Premie, so I tried it a few times. It worked, for the most part, but I could never control myself long enough to see any progress. I would always push too far; I never found the right timing.
Also, in the article, it stated that you could prolong the orgasm by performing a kegel at the PONR and holding it for as long as you could before losing control. And by slowly inhaling and expanding the chest during the process, you could internalize and intensify the experience. This I practiced, allot. Through trial and error, I found that, if I didn’t hold it long enough, or held it for too long, the sensation was not as intense. When I did it just right, my orgasms and ejaculations were mind blowing. I never timed it, but I would say for me, the magic number was about fifteen seconds. I’ve done this for so long that it is automatic, I don’t even think about it. So, to kegel or not to kegel. Some say yes, some say no. For me, kegeling is an integral part of the orgasm. If I did it at or near the PONR, then I would be “over the edge”.
Thanks to Kingpole, and the rest of you, I am excited about adding edging to my newbie routine. Now, If I can just get over the guilt about playing with my Peter all day, I’ll be well on my way..
Why would you feel guilty? The penis is the shaft of life. The worlds entire population would not be if it were not for the shaft of life.
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