Edging too fast

My questions are about edging.. I have read about the technique.

My question is regarding speed of masturbation.

For instance..
If I want I can masturbate and clinch my bc and get off in 1 min.
If I desire I can last for 30 mins.. Does it matter which as long as I edge?
Can I do 2 min - >ponr. / 2 min >ponr / 2 min >ponr and still see benefits?

The prob I have is mental and emotional- the minute I know my wife is enjoying it.. I blow. Not ideal

Can edging fix this?

I would also like to know the answer to this question, we’re pretty similar. When I was still with my girlfriend, the minute she really started getting into it I had to blow. It sucks. And masturbating for a long period of time is hard since I am still with the parents.

This is what I have been trying.. I will masturbate and when I am getting close I will focus on relaxing pc/bc muscle and I can feel the urge to blow leave. I do that repeatedly as I am hoping I will be able to reproduce this during sex.

Any help or suggestions would be great.

All day-your gains are impressive. Mind sharing your routine?

I’ve just been following several variations of the newbie routine. I jelq in the shower using shampoo(this isn’t recommended but I have noticed the only reason NOT to is because of a rash; which I have not gotten so.) for 5-10 minutes, pressure varying on how It feels that day. That is my ‘warm-up’ as well, and then I do stretches for 10-15 seconds each in random directions, followed by a lot of BTC stretches until it starts to ache while I sit around during the day. Sometimes I do sort of a hand-clamp(not really sure if what I do is even useful but it does make the girth feel huge while I’m doing it) but I’ve yet to notice any real girth gains, although the base seems a tad thicker.

WestLA-90069 - What is edging/ballooning?

When I first started out, I used shampoo to jelq in the shower myself. I didn’t get a rash right away, but ended up getting one a couple of times eventually. I’d recommend lathering the shampoo into your hair first (until it turns into small bubbles), and then use that to jelq. I’ve also noticed that conditioner dries out the skin less.

Ah yes, I usually put it into my hair first and use the suds/bubble or whatever. I also use a shampoo/conditioner mixed.

Then you’re set! Good luck.

That gives me an idea!

Why can’t they make a thick viscous lube out of glycerine that you can water down and jelq with in the shower? If you were smart you could hide it in a shampoo bottle and no one would be the wiser.

Imagine someone borrowing your shower and getting a hair full of lube :D
Would be awesome.

Still, be careful with shampoo/whatever down there. Tends to dry things out even if you don’t notice right away.

I always get shampoo in my eyes when I do this. Of course then I hear my mother’s voice:

“You’ll go blind if you keep doing that.”

Aha, yes that has happend to me a few times. I got a haircut recently though and I just try to slick it back every few minutes and rinse my face and then continue.

Dry jelqing irritates/pulls my stubble(I shave it all, semi frequently) and I just don’t have the privacy for wet jelqing outside of the shower, so it’s really my only choice. Sometimes I’ll break open some vitamin e gel’s, those are a good moisturizer no?

I have a question… when I edge sometimes I can’t stop all the semen and some drops comes out.. does this happen to somebody else? does it mean you edging session is ruined?

Are you sure what you’re experiencing is an ejaculation, or just massive precum? I get loads of precum when I edge, but I can tell that it’s not ejaculation ‘cause of how it feels.

I guess it could work, otherwise you could try investing in Shower oils, you get the clean effect of a shower gel but without as much dryness.

In my humble opinion there is no such thing as a “ruined edging session” - So what if you blow a load early? Enjoy it and better luck next time. Have fun, this is not about creating “performance anxiety” for yourself.

As to what you are describing, does not sound like you are having a “final ejaculation” — more like either pre-cum or maybe just a single spurt of ejaculate. That single spurt of semen thing happens to me occasionally if I have not blown a load for a while.