Does the vagina permanently stretch with a big one?

Ok, I need some honest replies (both women and men’s response would be greatly appreciated!)

My G/F’s 1st real Boyfriend that she dated for 6 years before me was hung like a horse..(10+ inches long .. probably 6.5” girth)

Shes very thin (5’6” 110 lbs).

Im currently only 6.625” NBPEL and 5.0” EG

QUESTION…

Is it true that once a girl has been with a guy that big, the vagina stretches and makes it more difficult for her to have a “vaginal orgasm” with a smaller guy like me? Ive heard that girls can go from a smaller guy to a bigger guy, but not the other way. I love my G/F to death, but this is eating up are relationship. Please dont spare my feelings with your answer.

Hmmm……that’s a good question. But I don’t have the answer.

What exactly is eating you up about it?

Did she have orgasms with the last boyfriend and not with you? If not, then why does it matter?

Even if she permanently enlarged, if she still has just as much fun with you, what’s the point of worrying? And if she doesn’t have as much fun, then it’s a good thing you’re here and can solve the problem with time.

To answer your question, I don’t think that the vagina will permanently enlarge, per se. If she had no problems taking the previous rod, then it seems obvious to me that she was able to accomodate that size anyway, true? In which case, he didn’t expand her at all, just took advantage of more of her natural size.

Well my girl can orgasm from coitus (insertion of the penis into the vagina) and then orgasm again from a single finger (and no other stimulation) within the same love making session. Maybe I’m just extremely lucky :D

props for being able to know that and not want to end the relationship right there. Im 8”, but if i knew my g/f was with a 10” dude before, id end it, but im paranoid about that stuff

But to answer you question, yea, im pretty sure it shrinks over time. We still cant go at it hard because it hurts her too much, but if we go a few days without sex, we have to take it really slow. Plus, think about women who have babies….that would be like a foot and a half long dick that about 30” around haha. Im pretty sure they shrink

My wife has had 3 kids and I still hurt her with my 7x5 (pre PE.) Although I’m the biggest she’s had (she says,) , I’m sure that if she had bigger before, it wouldn’t matter much now. If the other guy was really 10+, it wouldn’t really matter that much to her, unless she was a size queen. I say, stop worrying so much about it and build yourself the biggest dick anyone’s every heard of on this board and go make her scream.

1) how accurate are her measurements? Like I’ve said a million times before. Unless you actually PE or are a doctor…chances are people measure wrong. I’ve seen people measure from the bottom of their balls, etc…

2) A girl can get off with yer finger. Size doesn’t matter unless u have micro penis. Seriously, as long as u can stimulate a woman, it doesn’t.

Thanks so much for everyones input! TPS, you are one lucky man!

SECJAY: what eats me up is that Im only able to give her a vaginal orgasm when I push with all Ive got (really really fast) in the conventional position (her on bottom)

Wouldnt having 10+ inches be enough to give her intense orgasms in any position? Its a real task to make her cum, and Im quite sure her X was able to achieve that alot easier than me. She’s told me that sex was really the whole basis of there relationship before.

u ??

YOu sould like a decent size, above average. I mean a woman can accomodate a baby head or a finger, they are elastic, what you have to worry about is dating a woman that has several kids through natural child birth, now that’s a helluva girth. I wouldn’t worry about it.

I’ve also been to askmen.com in the past and a sex doctor said that if you stick your finger in a woman for a couple minutes, her vagina walls will tighten to accomodate your finger, then once this happens and you have sex, your penis will feel larger to her, as it got accustomed to the smaller girth of your finger.

Anyway no expert there, but I’ve read some good stuff on askmen.com, no I don’t work for them(lol) but thats a great place to get advice.

As far as comments from guys that have big dicks and are paranoid about dating girls that have had bf’s with even bigger dicks, I’d have to say that I have heard of women like that. They actually go from one guy with a big dick to another, and the guy that has the girl at the time gets paranoid b/c he thinks if another guy comes along with an even bigger dick, she’s dump the guy she’s with to get with this even bigger guy. I can say I’ve never had to worry about that. LMAO!

There was a website out there, can’t remember the name but it referenced Thunders and I found it like 2 years ago. Anyway there was a guy with a large dick that was complaining b/c he was constantly dumped by size queens b/c they were always after the bigger dick. That’s crazy. 8 inches, thats big whether you’ve had 10 or not. I mean damn women’s canals can’t be more than 7.5 inches on average. I wonder how much of the 10” boyfriend hung out of the girl why he was banging her.

Bottom line if you go a dick near 7 inches and at least 5 inches in girth you have a respectable member. Who friggin’ cares if the girls had bigger, she’s with you for a reason. Unless she met you on a nude beach or something.

Please move this post to rant and raves at craigslist.org pulease, just kidding.

First, I think her vagina WILL shrink and accommodate you just fine.

Second, (to help your ego) take a piece of paper and roll a tube 9”-9.5” long and 6-6.3” around (use darker paper) and show it to her and ask if the ex boyfriend was bigger than that.

Yeah im kinda sure the vagina gets smaller again over time , for example when i dont have sex with my gf for 4 days it gets really tight again, when i bang her 5 days straight once or twice a day she gets bigger and bigger, So im sure the vagina gets tighter, but im not too sure about the depth.

Thats a great idea SPARKY91! Although as much as I hope she is exagerating his size, the response that I got from her when I asked about it was:

“he was enormous”
“he was huge”

I think shes probably telling me the truth. She’s also swore up and down that it doesnt matter to her, but she’s after a “ring” pretty bad, so I’m guessing she’ll do her best to spare me feelings and try to comfort me.

No matter what I try, I cant seem to cope with being second best to the X-boyfriend… especially in that category.

Thanks for the input REYWDSUTY. I’ll be sure and check out those sites.

A. The vagina does stretch somewhat to accommodate a bigger penis, but it does not remain stretched.

B. Ten inch dicks are extremely rare. He probably told her it was that big and she believed him.

C. Her telling you he was huge and enormous is a power trip. Your negative reaction and constant worrying about it feeds it.

D. If he was so good, why is she now with you? You obviously have qualities she appreciates.

E. Let him go. He’s in her past, you are her future. Work with her and learn how you can give her more orgasms with what you have and stop thinking about how he did it.

F. Continue your PE exercises to make yourself larger so you feel better about your size.

My wife has had five kids and I’m sure that they were all alot bigger than 10x6 and she has always returned to what is normal for her. Although she may not be as tight as a teen she has always returned to a very fun size for both of us. Big dicks are overrated anyway. There will always be someone bigger and better out there but can they give her what you can as a total package? That is the real question you need to answer. My wife could have gotten someone better looking and better built as I could have done likewise, but we both fell in love with what we brought as a package.