I think it depends on the woman. I’m pretty thick, 6.25” mseg, and my wife definitely gets sore after a good fucking session. I generally get only one or two all out poundings in per week and maybe one or two ten minute quickies. I need more, but she is always sore.
I have had lots of trouble getting good head. Almost every girl gets me with her teeth and they all get sore jaws pretty fast. When I was single, the “huge” comments were pretty common after PE gains. I also heard rumors at work that I have a “huge” cock. All very good stuff for the fragile male ego. The downside of big girth is the illusion of less length. At 7.75”-8.125” bpel, I probably look about 7” in length.
Measurements: 11/06: 7.75" bpel/ 6.25" mseg.