Does anyone else think 5.5 girth is pretty damn big

I’m living proof. I don’t get it as much now but in the years I spent in the 8 and change BPEL range? Girls went for ego shots like James Harden on free throws.

It’s totally legitimate and one girl copped to it if I recall correctly. She validated that it’s an official tactic when I questioned her and said it’s a girl thing they definitely talk about.

Man DL you are probably right about that and boy did it work. Just when I started to actually see my size realistically, she puts me in my place and leaves me feeling like a “have not”! It’s almost like she took pleasure in me being humbled by her statement. I know there are bigger guys out there than me, but she didn’t need to remind me of it.

It isn’t an almost. Letting air out of us is part of how they control us. It’s key.

My girth is around 5.5.. naturally. I want make it bigger anyway

Sorry to ask this as I really don’t wan’t to be a partypooper of any kind but did you ask for their opinion?
If you asked them you might receive a bit biased observations on your size. If everyone of your partners are voluntary commenting your size it would be very rare indeed.

I have found it to be safer not to ask any comments on size of my own or previous partners dicks. One time going bad is enough to get hurt for a long time.

Just a fun fact….joking around with a female friend who had to take various measurements for some reason…I got her to measure her wrist, and it was 5.5”. She’s not particularly small either (smallish frame but about 5’9”), so I was a little shocked when I heard that one.

I sometimes think this Don Logan,
I think women will keep your ego in check on purpose by what they say.
My girlfriend once said
‘I don’t want you to get an inflated ego’
She’s a size queen.. Do I believe her when she said she’s had bigger?!
Absolutely yes.
Apparently I’m ‘up there’ among one of the biggest.

Using lies, cuz they work is common but anything will work.

She prefaced you not having an inflated ego then deflated it or attempted. Your stats are incredible so I highly doubt she’s had bigger. Statistically it defies logic.

Likely the biggest but she just said, due to you possibly getting an inflated ego, that she would never admit if you were the biggest. A statement based on the typical power grab women make to maintain control.

It’s pretty silly, but it’s how it is. Some shadowy figure *has* to be bigger.

I’m naturally 6”+ in girth and I never asked my wife until recently what she thought of my size. When I was younger I had no clue what a normal dick was because I’ve only ever seen them in porn and I didn’t play sports as a kid.

When we first got together sex was great but would hurt us both. She would get sore and I would literally get friction burns on my dick so we would have to take days off. It never registered with me because I felt small.

After asking her, she told me she had 2 previous partners who were 1/“2 or 1” longer than me but I’m the thickest she’s ever had. Now 10 years later she has adjusted and neither of us ever have a problem.

I asked her how that one inch effects things. She said I reach the end just like they did so the length is not something that matters. She really loves the girth though because she loves that “completely full” feeling as she put it. So basically, my girth was a problem in the beginning, but now she really appreciates it.

I’m with you there. Well kinda lol. I’m 5.5” natural girth and sex with my girlfriend at the beginning was painful for her and I’d get friction burns as well. But we’ve learn that foreplay and quality lube helps a lot. I’ve asked how I stacked up against what she’s had and she said that I’m the second thickest she’s had. She said the thickest she’s had couldn’t reach that “spot” but I can reach it and fill her up more. But honestly that girth makes all the difference and I’m glad to hear that my girth is considered big.. But I’m shooting for even more girth and length cause like mentioned I have an ego and want to be the biggest.

Ya I think any girth over 5” is probably going to take some adjusting for most women. I too have an ego so I’m going for another 1”+ in length to be the biggest. She did say though if I get too big she is going to ask me to stop, which I will. Yes she knows that I do PE

Yea I guess as a guy I never listen to my girl or any girl when they said I’m thick. But It wasn’t until coming on this forum that I realized that every girl I’ve been with was actually being truthful when they said it was thick.. And my whole life I’ve seen my size as pretty thin but the porn industry ruined that for me. I told her to basically tell me when it’s getting to be a chore to fit it in there.. I think my motivation is the visual appeal of what it’ll look like with an extra inch all around jammed in there

Love that

This is interesting. Many years ago when I was single I bought a penis extender and it made my penis 7 inches in girth.
I knew a girl who was 22 and was escorting on the side. It was a real struggle getting the damn thing in but once we did my god she was literally cumming with every stroke. I have to say it was a painful pleasure for her.
The next lady who I used it on was someone I used to work with. She was early 30s and had 2 kids. I strapped it on and for the lube out and she said you won’t need that. My god she was right, it slipped straight in and she took it to my balls. This is a 7 by 7 extender and it shows how some ladies want and even demand the bigger unit and others would prefer something more average.

I haven’t used it with my wife because she said no way so it is now in a box at the bottom of one of my drawers.

Saying that since PEing a few months ago she said my unit was girthy (we had a bit to drink so I know she was being honest). In 12 years together she had never said that. Last time I measured I was 5.3/5.4 inches girth

Gentlemen keep in mind Vaginas come in different sizes also