I don’t think it is big at all. I statrted at 4 3/4, and am near 6. I can jelq up to 6.5, that’s when it looks big. I would say from 6.25 to 6.5 is big. If a woman has had six plus, anything under will not seem big to her. Now, if she is small inside, she may not want big. But, big to me is 6.35-6.5. I am going for 7.
If someone is wide, I think it can look big, but I think you need at least 2 1/4 across to look wide.