Do you tell your girlfriend/wife?

Too funny! So when she wraps the rice sock around her neck you can tell her it was being wrapped around your dick earlier in the day!

I’d like my wife to say goodness but your getting big. Nope! Yesterday she gave me another one of those digs about being 6” in my dreams! I wanted so much to haul the tape measure out and then shove my dick down her throat. There now honey. Don’t choke it’s not even 6” long. Aren’t you lucky? (Not really but the thought went through my head .) :) Well I like to dream about her sucking my cock even though she won’t!

Some people their manhood stop them from telling their partner, Because they think ohh I tell her now and she may think that I gained all this from that. Just tell your partner as long as you know she loves you, It will feels good when your partner heat the rice for you, hand you the clamper, clean the pump for you, its cool man, For me I just hide my facebook :D the rest is okay

You talk about PE on facebook?

I like the rice sock story :D DD

I still haven’t told my girl anything, and since I’ve started to jelq without having tons of red spots on my dick - I doubt I will tell her. Another Issue no one has mentioned is your new big dick not being natural. We probably all prefer natural breasts on a girl, even though we will of course still be attracted to fake tits all up in our face. I think there’s something deep down, knowing this person has great genes, not just working hard for it.

I started to think about this cause I lost some muscle weight after a few months of unintentional neglect (+ the shits for 1 week) - and my girl asked me ‘so this is what your body is like if you don’t go to the gym?’ and ‘so you have to keep going to the gym to have this body?’ these questions were asked with a hint of disappointment, and I guess it’s true - as animals, we would prefer the natural to the unnatural.

Anyways, since I’ve started to dry jelq - with no red dots or tired dick I will keep quiet about it. Only if she sees me and asks - then I will be happy to explain it’s just a gym for my dick.

I do not share any private information with anyone. But what I meant is, why would you lie and create a lame excuses, just tell your partner if you feel she, s worth to know it. If your married for a couple of years, are you gonna be shy to tell your wife? I don’t think so. For my personal opinion, I’m that guy who say what ever he want and if my partner accept it or not, I don’t care. Honesty is on the top of my list. With the person who’s in title to know it. So now you know what I mean.

I’ve been married for two years and wouldn’t think for a second about telling my wife about PE. As I’ve said before, she is a very sensitive girl and would find a way to blame herself somehow for me needing to PE.

And.. A lot of women are like this, so be careful before you wreck a good relationship by taking a 100% open do ask, do tell policy.

I’ll tell you what. I told my son this weekend and thought hard about it. Why haven’t I told my wife? The answer? I really don’t know how she would take it and I’m not willing to risk anything with my marriage. I like our marriage, love my wife and I want to keep it that way. It could hurt her. She could take it to mean somehow that I don’t love her? It’s just too risky for me. I’ll buy some lottery tickets but I won’t tell her. And when I’m dead if my son wants to tell her then he can. That will be his choice to make.

Yes, my wife knows.

Let me begin by saying … Apparently I was wrong!

Also … sorry for the longish post … but this is the post that I have been looking forward to making for over 8 months

I have previously posted on this thread that I was substantially against the idea of sharing my PE efforts with my wife.
I’ll admit that my position was softened by some of the feedback that I received, but up until this past weekend I remained
cautious and largely not in favor of the idea of sharing.

By way of background … the last 4 years of my life and my marriage has been pretty awful. Long stretches of unemployment,
a failed start-up business, significant challenges in blending 2 sets of kids in a second marriage. The long story made short …
I have not had sex with my wife in about 4 years.

The past several months however, has seen the stars align a little bit in our favor. Our financial crisis, while not over,
has shown significant signs of hope and the wife and I have been enjoying a great deal more openness on the road to reconciliation …
and this weekend on a romantic weekend in NYC … we had sex for the first time in many years. This was the first time that she
had seen my post-PE penis up close and FULLY ready for action. In my 8 months or so of serious PE, my measurements have grown
a bit more than an inch in length and a bit more than a half inch in girth … and I was showing every bit of it with an EQ of 10-Plus.

The sex was OUTSTANDING! She was vocal, dirty and loud and while we laid there in the afterglow of a very sound fucking …
she sheepishly turned to me and said … “I know it’s been a while … and maybe it is my memory … but your cock feels significantly bigger”.
This was most definitely something that I LOVED to hear … but I wasn’t expecting it. I cautiously responded;
“Does it? … Hmmm … do you like it?” and she said “Absolutely !!! It’s gonna take some getting used to … but I loved the way that
you filled me and pushed against the back of my womb”. She also talked at length about how much wider she needed to stretch
her mouth to get my cock inside.

Suffice to say … I was ecstatic!

We had sex many more times and through the course of the weekend and I spilled the beans regarding the majority of my PE efforts. What a relief!
She was not at all freaked out or judgmental … not even a little. She asked that I PLEASE not make ANY more efforts to grow my girth
by even another millimeter. She also said that she didn’t need any additional length since I was already going deep enough that it got
uncomfortable a few times during sex. After that discussion though, and in the days that followed, she has spent an inordinate
amount of time with her hands, lips and tongue checking out my enhanced tool. Far far more time and attention than she had
ever paid before … even as newly-weds.

So here’s my plan. I am going to take a decon break for a month or so and focus less attention on growing my dick and a good deal more attention on USING it.

Thank you Thunders !!!

I am on the ‘wait and she if notices’ plan with my wife. I actually told her that I was doing some exercises that would make a change in my body and I was waiting to see if she notices. I have only been doing PE for 2 1/2 weeks now so certainly not enough time for any changes but I am psyched to see if she says anything on her own. Of course if she catches me I will own up and after six months if I have noticable gains and she hasn’t said anything I will tell her.

Printman,

That is freaking awesome!

My ex was unsupportive when my business was struggling and it got to the point where I was sleeping on the couch in the back office while she went out with her friends. She would do all she could to demean me for changing careers and even when I got some financial stability she was relentless.

She did me a favour though. I met my current wife.

I wouldn’t tell my ex or my current wife about PE, as you never know when or how it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Better safe than sorry.

I’m with whynottry11 - going to see if I get any gains and if my gf notices.

Same here. I have spoken to her before about wanting a longer unit, and like a good girl she told me I was more than adequate for her - bless her. However, I am going to try and stretch the little blighter and see if I can get some growth out of him and hopefully, all going to plan, she will notice the gains in a good way.

That said, I would have no qualms telling her what I am doing. I am sure she would have some insecurities about why I would want to do it and who it is for etc. But I am also pretty sure I could reassure her she would be the only beneficiary.

That said, I know that some of the women I dated in the past, there would have been not a chance in hell of me telling them about PE activities as like others have mentioned, when things go wrong it is really too much ammo for them to have against you. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Believe me, never a truer word said.

That said, my current partner is a peach and I would have no trouble letting her know when the time is right (or sooner if she catches me) :-P I think it’s all down to the individuals involved.

I agree hohum, when the relationship is swimming along nicely, one has this thought that she could do you no harm, but things can change in a heartbeat when it comes to the wee wifey, and some planning with that in mind will set you in good stead over time.

There is a position amongst some, and I call them male feminists, that buy into the idea that women have the same sort of integrity that a man would have about things like this, and that no matter the tone of a break-up, a man’s activities with his penis are sacrosanct.

As much as I deeply despise the mother of my children, there has never been a time when I have made disparaging remarks about her personal issues. I have made mention of her psychotic behaviour on several occasions as I have needed the assurance that it wasn’t something I precipitated, and over time I have realized she is of a type, but to discuss things she entrusted me with during our relationship I feel is out of bounds even though if she knew I was involved here she would have included it in her legal disclosures during our divorce.

And maybe there is a woman out there, who upon the breakup of a relationship with a man, wouldn’t divulge his PE escapades, but not on this planet.

I haven’t told mine, not for fear of her telling someone else over time, but that she would find a way to blame herself for having me hang weights of my dick.