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Do you tell your girlfriend/wife?

Okay I will stop with his thread :) But did he or didn’t he told his gf? :)


Start July 07 2011 = Length 6.5 Girth 5.3 ---> 07 / May / 2012 = NBPEL 7 In / BEG 6.2.5 In / MEG 5.8

Goal : All the way --- And no this is not my photo :D

Hello everyone. First time poster here. I just began PE a week ago and came across a dilemma where I was pretty much forced to tell my wife. I had jelqed early in the morning and the wife wanted to have sex about an hour and a half later. Well, needless to say it took a couple tries to get a good enough erection and I was completely sore afterwards. Well she thought that she did something wrong, so I flat out told her.

See, in the beginning, my wife wasn’t the nicest person (still isn’t, but better) and just flat out told me that I wasn’t big. I tried to play it off, but she kept saying it. So, when I told her that morning, of course she didn’t remember that conversation at all. It really didn’t help when I caught her lying to me about texting a friend she had sex with a couple of times in college. My wife doesn’t have any friends, so I knee something was up. Why keep up with a guy 5 years after college and try to keep it a secret? Anyway, I told myself that I may or may not be with my wife for the rest of my life, but she sure as hell will be the last person to say I’m not big. I mean, I’ve never had any complaints before her. Of course she told me I was fine the way I am and to stop. I told her that I wouldn’t. She can look at me however she wants to. I really couldn’t care less. I, like many of you, am trying to be the best man I can be. If she don’t like it, the next one will!

bigstith85

I’m glad you told her. At least she doesn’t think she fucked you sore. Sometimes jelqing can be better for the EQ. Maybe you are pulling a little to hard if it gets sore. Or is it a dry vs wet jelq and your chaffing? I don’t know how her old boyfriend fits into your relationship. Just from what you said it seems to not! Are we correct? Well I hope you two can have some good sex and make the relationship a little better by establishing the trust. Telling her has got to help in that dept..


Pre-PE 11/11 BPEL 5.9 EG 5.3

Started PE: 3/12 BPEL 6.0 EG 5.6 * Current: BPEL 7.0 EG 5.9 BPSL 7.4 Nut Lgth 2.5" * Goal: BPEL 7.3 EG 6.3 BPSL 8.00

Mind over matter. All of life is transitional.

Originally Posted by bigstith85
Hello everyone. First time poster here. I just began PE a week ago and came across a dilemma where I was pretty much forced to tell my wife. I had jelqed early in the morning and the wife wanted to have sex about an hour and a half later. Well, needless to say it took a couple tries to get a good enough erection and I wasjuju completely sore afterwards. Well she thought that she did something wrong, so I flat out told her.

See, in the beginning, my wife wasn’t the nicest person (still isn’t, but better) and just flat out told me that I wasn’t big. I tried to play it off, but she kept saying it. So, when I told her that morning, of course she didn’t remember that conversation at all. It really didn’t help when I caught her lying to me about texting a friend she had sex with a couple of times in college. My wife doesn’t have any friends, so I knee something was up. Why keep up with a guy 5 years after college and try to keep it a secret? Anyway, I told myself that I may or may not be with my wife for the rest of my life, but she sure as hell will be the last person to say I’m not big. I mean, I’ve never had any complaints before her. Of course she told me I was fine the way I am and to stop. I told her that I wouldn’t. She can look at me however she wants to. I really couldn’t care less. I, like many of you, am trying to be the best man I can be. If she don’t like it, the next one will!

What was your size that got that comment from your wife?

Originally Posted by bigstith85
Hello everyone. First time poster here. I just began PE a week ago and came across a dilemma where I was pretty much forced to tell my wife. I had jelqed early in the morning and the wife wanted to have sex about an hour and a half later. Well, needless to say it took a couple tries to get a good enough erection and I was completely sore afterwards. Well she thought that she did something wrong, so I flat out told her.

See, in the beginning, my wife wasn’t the nicest person (still isn’t, but better) and just flat out told me that I wasn’t big. I tried to play it off, but she kept saying it. So, when I told her that morning, of course she didn’t remember that conversation at all. It really didn’t help when I caught her lying to me about texting a friend she had sex with a couple of times in college. My wife doesn’t have any friends, so I knee something was up. Why keep up with a guy 5 years after college and try to keep it a secret? Anyway, I told myself that I may or may not be with my wife for the rest of my life, but she sure as hell will be the last person to say I’m not big. I mean, I’ve never had any complaints before her. Of course she told me I was fine the way I am and to stop. I told her that I wouldn’t. She can look at me however she wants to. I really couldn’t care less. I, like many of you, am trying to be the best man I can be. If she don’t like it, the next one will!

You need to clarify precisely what your wife’s intentions are with this old boyfriend. As difficult as that type of conversation can be, it is essential for your relationship’s health for all of that to be on the table so that there are NO future misunderstandings.

And if she told you that you “flat out weren’t big”, then there are issues you need to resolve in that department also, although you did ask, right?

Women are emotional and clever and tricky all at the same time. We put our fragile emotion trust in them, and for the most part it can be wonderful, but if there are issues between you that aren’t resolved, all manner of things can ensue, such as your ego can be terribly hurt by insensitive comments about your dick from your wife.

Trust me, I know.

The mother of my children used to sing songs about big black dicks to me as if I was supposed to find it funny.


Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.

As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.

Going for the magic 8"x6"

I told my wife. She’s been home, injured so i had NO time to PE w/u her knowlege. and she found my pump a while ago. Of course, I only do it for improved erection quality, ahem. :D


07/08/08 nbp 5.75; bpel 5.93; eg ?;fsl >6.25

07/31/09 nbp 6.5; bpel 7.0; eg 5.93 ; fsl 8

08/24/10 nbp 6.75;bpel 7.25; eg 6.0; fsl 9.0-Too bad PE doesnt work =D

Originally Posted by firegoat
You keep asking people not to bring it up again. Take your own advice and let it die, permanently. Or please leave and stay at pegym; your choice.

What I was trying to do was point out how bad of an idea it can be to tell a significant other about PE. What I keep objecting to is people bringing up the subject as a means to attack me. I make a distinction between the two. Having said that, I will drop the subject now.

Originally Posted by Bubba101
I can relate to what Metamorpho said: “I am working on loosening her Puritan ways.” My wife is a very sweet and very sincere Christian - one of the best things about her, and one of the reasons I married her 26 years ago - and, while she enjoys sex and has been a willing and satisfying partner over the years, she always has a bit of a problem with anything that smacks too much of pure hedonism.

She had seemed OK when I confessed to using generic viagra last year, but recently told me that she didn’t really like the “happy pills” because she misses the feeling of me going soft inside of her after cumming. I’m happy that she can be honest with me about what she likes and what she doesn’t like, but I fear that there is a deep sub-text to her concerns that involves not doing anything that isn’t “natural.” So, I'm pretty sure that she won't embrace my quest for a monster penis - no matter how much she might also benefit from it.

A lot of my interest in PE is motivated by improving my natural EQ, and not having to rely on Indian pharmaceuticals. Probably, we will approach it together on this basis, and the sense of continuing honesty and sharing goals will be a good thing and further strengthen our relationship. But I cannot be blind to or careless with her sensibilities so, for right now, I’m strictly in stealth mode and treading very lightly.

Of course, if I end up gaining 2 or 3 inches, I think it’s going to be pretty hard to hide!

I can relate to the bolded portion of your post. I have found in my own experience that Christians seem to look at penis enlargement as some sort of sin or evil rather than as something with potential health benefits.

PE doesn’t have to be done for a size increase. If done little enough, it can simply result in a healthier tool and better performance, and so many Christians are so close-minded on the subject that they will never know of how they could benefit from it as they age! It’s sad really.

You know that many of the moderators on here are Christians, right? But I think you’re really overestimating what PE will do; this isn’t like physical exercise where an active lifestyle can have health benefits. Exactly how is your penis healthier? Will PE make you less susceptible to prostrate or testicular cancer? Less susceptible to infection?

Any real benefits from PE are minor; having a larger penis isn’t going to help you get a college degree or learn a trade. It isn’t going to help you pay your bills or raise a family. Well, unless you plan on making a living in the porn business. It might help you find a partner, but only in that they would have left you if your penis had been smaller. It won’t necessarily improve your self-image; a lot of people who are interested in PE are motivated by some degree of body dysmorphia. All that you can really say PE will give you is a bigger penis and improved performance in bed; but those are just cosmetic luxuries.

But you should be more considerate to others and not be so quick to dismiss them. The Christian faith says, “turn away from worldly things and follow Christ.” It asks us to become his disciples, to emulate him and his teachings. And part of that is to not allow ourselves to becomes distracted by worldly desires. It’s not that these desires are in some way evil; but that if you let them they will become more important to you than Christ, they will overtake Christ in your heart and mind.


A man isn't measured by the size of his penis. A man is measured by his contributions to family, community, and society; and by how he treats others.

Originally Posted by Satarack
You know that many of the moderators on here are Christians, right? But I think you’re really overestimating what PE will do; this isn’t like physical exercise where an active lifestyle can have health benefits. Exactly how is your penis healthier? Will PE make you less susceptible to prostrate or testicular cancer? Less susceptible to infection?

Any real benefits from PE are minor; having a larger penis isn’t going to help you get a college degree or learn a trade. It isn’t going to help you pay your bills or raise a family. Well, unless you plan on making a living in the porn business. It might help you find a partner, but only in that they would have left you if your penis had been smaller. It won’t necessarily improve your self-image; a lot of people who are interested in PE are motivated by some degree of body dysmorphia. All that you can really say PE will give you is a bigger penis and improved performance in bed; but those are just cosmetic luxuries.

But you should be more considerate to others and not be so quick to dismiss them. The Christian faith says, “turn away from worldly things and follow Christ.” It asks us to become his disciples, to emulate him and his teachings. And part of that is to not allow ourselves to becomes distracted by worldly desires. It’s not that these desires are in some way evil; but that if you let them they will become more important to you than Christ, they will overtake Christ in your heart and mind.

Satarack, I’m going to guess that you are either a born again Christian, or else very knowledgeable about the Bible. I was raised a Baptist from infancy, and so I am fairly well acquainted with Baptist beliefs.

What I was trying to say is that number one, in many cases, a bigger penis can feel better for the female, and, number two, PE exercises result in greater blood flow to the penis making for better and longer lasting erections. More blood flow also means more oxygen which means it will be healthier. Those are all benefits. There is nothing biblically wrong with those benefits and many Christians are so quick to lump penis enlargement with porn, pre-marital and extramarital sex, and other things that they won’t even give it a chance. In a marriage context, trying to be all you can be sexually for your partner is not a sin.

Working out in the gym is just like PE in that it can just as easily become a distraction from living the Christian life. That goes for PE, working out, video games, food, significant others, anything really. PE is not somehow evil or twisted. Christians should be more open minded on the subject.

It may be that PE is one of those meat offered unto idols kinds of issues. It will offend the conscience of some Christians and so for them it is sin. For others like me, I don’t see it as a significant issue.

Originally Posted by Satarack

You know that many of the moderators on here are Christians, right?

We have a wide variety of religious (and non-religious) positions represented by the moderating team. We also have a variety of sexual preferences, races, political stances etc. represented. We do not discriminate in our own ranks nor do we support discrimination. Some of the team do not reveal much about themselves. Some choose to reveal their sexuality, for example with pink triangles in their avatars, or by specifically answering questions pertaining to a sexual preference. Some take an obvious political stance in their replies to posts. Most don’t in fact choose to reveal their religious beliefs - I do choose to, but then I never talk about my political position etc. We are all different in different ways, but the mod team are non-discriminatory and very well balanced. If someone gets into trouble here, it’s not because there is any ‘weightedness’ in the mod structure; it’s because they got themselves into trouble.

Originally Posted by djrobins
What was your size that got that comment from your wife?

I’m not 100% sure, but I believe I was at 6 1/2 BPEL. See, the crazy thing is that I’m a black guy and my wife is white. My wife told me that she only dated about two or three guys in her life. She was pretty promiscuous in college and told me about a guy that she had to use two hands to jerk off. I think its the guy that she was texting on the down low. Oh, and I believe all of the guys she hooked up with were black athletes. She has a thing for football players.

Before I met my wife I was pulling 7’s all day, everyday. Then again I was single and worked out pretty much 4 times a week. I’m trying to get back to that. After two days of PE, she said I was hitting something that drove a pain through her hip. Go figure. Anyway, my flaccid length and erection quality have increased substantially. In other words, I ain’t stopping now!

Absolutely. She is very supportive. It also adds a little spice to the bedroom. Pretty awesome!

I support the idea of disclosing to the significant other. When the time is right then I will.

We discuss everything from soup to our nuts on this site so I think it is important to respect each others views and consider that we are a very broad spectrum of peoples from every walk of life. :) Keep it light and respectful and we all grow from sharing. That way PE is more than just what we do with our penises.


Pre-PE 11/11 BPEL 5.9 EG 5.3

Started PE: 3/12 BPEL 6.0 EG 5.6 * Current: BPEL 7.0 EG 5.9 BPSL 7.4 Nut Lgth 2.5" * Goal: BPEL 7.3 EG 6.3 BPSL 8.00

Mind over matter. All of life is transitional.

I don’t want to tell my wife until she notices some kind of difference. I want to surprise her. Well last night she had found my rice sock and asked me what it was for. Haha I had to think quick and said I put it in the microwave and heat it up and put it on my sore muscles. She looked at me kinda curious and said she will give it a try. He he if only she knew.

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