Do I even WANT it bigger

This is a very interesting thread. I have a friend with a very average sized penis, probably 6x5, and women seem to absolutely love the way he fucks…at least from what I’ve heard. I’ve also had a conversation with another friend about sex, and he’s on the smaller side of average but he can go all night long. I on the other hand like to think I’m on the larger side of average, and I really don’t go past 20 minutes…usually around 12. You know, I don’t always feel like I’m getting the job done. At least I like eating pussy.

I was just thinking tonight of asking if there are any threads to being a better lover on thunder’s. so does anybody know of any? I mean, getting a bigger unit is only half of the battle. It’s very true that you need to be able to use it too.

I think it’s also true that the answer to your question is inside you. What I’m finally realizing is that the majority of women are probably curious about size, and talk about it with their friends (because really, there’s not many other fun ways to compare men), but it really doesn’t concern them as much as we worry it does. They really just want somebody to treat them right and fuck them good. Well, with that said, I still am trying for that 9x7, but I’m not letting it stop me from having a good time until then.

Penis size is one of life’s great enigmas. It seems to matter and to not matter at the same time. Somehow.

Nice of you to take a swing at ego shaped piñata of the recently devirginized. At least you avoided the issue that his sex life will be all down hill from here.

Wait, all down hill? I don’t get it?

Well if your first time was so great, really what direction is left to go? Unless you got a line on instantly orgamic women. If so could you hook a guy up? I haven’t had one of those since my first time.

My first time wasn’t that great, I couldn’t cum at all (she did though). In fact it didn’t even feel good. But over the past 2 months or so it has been getting a lot better, culminating in the sex earlier today that led to this post.

Maybe I should just continue PE until I get some more girth…I could deal with some more length but girth is what I really want.

Same here - I used a dry condom and couldn’t feel a thing. It took me some time to start enjoying sex.

Your sex life sounds just like how mine started out Jiffy. If you feel like going for some girth go for it. I’m doing the same as you. It not like you will balloon overnight. It doesn’t matter if you get really religious with PE or not. Only over training will hurt you.

Hell yes 27 is young!Looking back to when I was your age I wonder if I even had my permanent teeth yet!Trust me ‘cause this happens to us all.When you’re30 you’ll think you’re old.When you’re 40 you won’t believe you thought you were old at 27.Count your blessing’ young man ‘that you found Thundersplace when you did and not in your 40’s like myself and hundreds of others.You are truly blessed,please don’t piss it away.And never let it into you’re mind that you’re old.That is rediculous thinking and a freaking waste of your time!God Bless!

You’re lucky. My first time I came three times… twice before I even entered her.

From what it sounds like you have a good sex life going with this girl, personally I wouldnt give it up. But if you do, send her my way its not often you find girls into smaller/average sized guys.

Haha, me to, all inside of a five minute period. It was like I couldn’t stop cumming. Three or four strokes and I was lettin loose. After my third one she was like “thats to much nut” no more. Ahh to be 13 again.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 1½ years, and we took each others virginities. We have about three hours distance from each other and therefore we only see each other every second weekend (and the holidays). When we do see each other, she does get sore and feel a burning sensation after we have had sex the first night - even though she’s well lubricated. At those moments I think to myself “Why should I PE? She is getting pain from my mere 4.75 EG!”. I come to other thoughts when sometimes she gets all sloppy and I can’t barely feel the friction.

What I want to say is that your girlfriend probably can take more than your girth, but the vagina doesn’t accomodate more than necessary. And the women do say that technique is more important than size - maybe that’s the case with you. :)

I highly doubt that it is your size.

My wife and I had this problem for quite some time (both of us continually feeling bad about it and thinking it was our fault). We saw a variety of doctors over a number of years and brought the subject up with each. All diagnosed the issue as a “yeast infection”, but all tests ever done came back negative. And over-the-counter yeast infection medications never helped. Our problem as it turned out, was that my circumcision was so tight that regardless of the amount of lube, she would quite often get chafed resulting in that burning feeling.

I was able to correct this issue after a few months of restoring my foreskin and getting some good skin mobility. If you aren’t circumcised but wear condoms, this effectively can result in the same problem though. If this is the case, one possible solution that may work for you is to put her on top and bury yourself to the hilt. Have her grind down against you and limit the movement to an inch or so - basically minimize the withdraw so that there is less friction on the sensitive areas of the labia. If she has problems grinding properly (or for added incentive) grab her by the hips and pull her down against you while trying to rotate her hips towards you. I found that this position really helped to keep the problem to a minimum for us over the years until I was able to find the right solution. Good luck!

- Chris

I thought I was having wonderful sex with my girlfriend before PE, and I was. But 1.5” later things are on a whole different level. It’s better for her. Sometimes she complains that it hurts, but in a very good way. The main difference though is how much better it is for me. It’s just so tight in there now that it feels amazing. At first I was cuming a lot faster so I was worried that PE had reduced my stamina, but now my stamina is back. So I say go for it. Few women will not have a trouble taking you all the way if you gain some more.

Amen to that. I have two young children. The first boy was 10.6 pounds. The second was only 7. I started PE shortly after the first one and feel pretty insecure about not being big enough now. I never used to worry about it. I’m average sized but I don’t feel averaged size now. I mean she doesn’t look looser and it is probably only marginally looser but when you are average even a marginal change makes a big difference. That is why my goals here are modest - though as of yet unachieved.